Soft Kitten Playtime

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They want to openly discuss things with you - They want to talk about things in and out of the BDSM lifestyle, they want to discuss limits, they want to discuss safety problems

They do their best to do what you ask of them - Life happens, but they still do their best to meet their Dom’s needs and wants as well as agreed upon “chores” that has been outlined before the relationship started

They actually help take care of you - A submissive/slave knows sometimes they need to “step up” and take on a more paternal/maternal type role with their Dom, in particular on days when their Dom isn’t feeling well (acute or chronic illness). 

They aren’t afraid to use their safety system - They aren’t afraid to use safewords or use the traffic light system when in the middle of a scene, this is of vital importance to keep everyone safe

They are still self-sustaining in the “real world” - As much as some couples want to use a 24/7 TPE, the reality is, life happens. In incidents when this happens (work, family problems, medical issues, etc.), the subs/slaves are still able to function on their own without needing to “hold onto” their Dom for every action they do

They aren’t afraid to tell you “this is a bad idea” - error is human, everyone is bound to mess up on something (whether you’re a Dom, sub/slave, or switch). Subs/slaves aren’t afraid to say “Hey, stop this” or “Maybe we should learn more about this first” because they see some red flags in the situation that’s about to happen

They don’t resort to blackmail or threaten when upset - reasonable communication is absolutely vital for any type of relationship (vanilla or otherwise) to be successful and work. If “too far” things are said, apologies are given. 

Me, a trans man on the danger list for ovarian cancer and is going to get them removed in the distant or near future:

“you need ovaries to be a wombyn!!!”

transman: guess who got that shit removed I’m a Real Boy™ now

“nO not like that you still have a uterus that makes you female!!!”

ciswoman who’s had a complete hysterectomy: guess i’m not a woman then

“tHAT”S NOT WHAT I MEANT if you have a vagina/vulva you’re female!!!”

transwoman who’s had bottom surgery: oooh i’ve got one of those does that mean i’m a Real Girl™ now??”

“NO YOU DON’T HAVE OVARIES OR A UTERUS”

literally everyone except terfs: *squints*

💋 The Femme FATales are happy to present The Intimate Show! It’s our updated take on the glamorous traditions of burlesque and cabaret of old, in a cozier setting so you can really get to know us. ;^)

August 26th and September 2nd at Uptown Underground in Chicago.

Tickets here!

Troupe Instagram | Photo by Miss Meadows

Roman Mythology: Flora - goddess of flowers and spring.