Girl on a mission: What to do when you’re losing your hair?
People keep telling me the reason my hair has lost half its volume is because I’m stressing too much. “If you stop worrying and thinking about it, it will grow back! It’s that simple!” How about no? We appreciate you trying to help and all, but many of us have spent a really long time researching hair loss and its possible causes. It’s not stress, thank you very much. And we’re way past “stop worrying” because we did that for a very long time and if we keep doing it, it’ll only get worse. *sigh*
Some women are lucky and find the cause of their hair loss pretty much straight away. A simple blood test can reveal things like a thyroid problem, iron deficiency, anaemia,… Others have a skin problem. But what happens when your blood test comes back fine and your skin is healthy? Er… In my case my doctor basically told me there was nothing he could do even though – among other things – my lips are blue, I have a hard time staying awake for more than 8 hours, I have bruises the second someone touches me, and my hair has filed for a divorce. You can scream all you want, many doctors just don’t really seem to care about your hair as long as you blood tests are okay and you’re not in pain.
On to someone who should care then: After vaguely going over my last blood test and without giving my head as much as a glance, my dermatologist told me to just accept it and prescribed Minoxidil. She said that sometimes there is no answer. Minoxidil is… er… it’s not known how exactly it works or why. To explain it in a very simplistic way: it prolongs the anagen (growing) stage so that the hair stays on your head for longer, giving you a fuller head of hair. Sounds great, right? Not quite. You see, the moment you stop using it your hair will go back to normal. You have to use it for the rest of your life, which in my case is hopefully at least another 60 years. It hides the problem rather than fixing it, which is something I really don’t agree with. She can tell me there is no answer as many times as she likes, something is causing this. We just have to find it.
I have seen more doctors recently than I have in my entire life. I now have to take something – which I had to promise not to google – and report back to yet another doctor in six weeks. (After which I will definitely google it.) He thinks my hair will start to come back as soon as my other problems are all gone. I also have to go see a cardiologist soon because although I’m digging not having to buy blue lip gloss, it’s probably not very healthy.
My hair loss is part of a much bigger problem and it won’t stop until I’m healthy again, but that didn’t stop me from wanting to make sure there wasn’t something I could do, or something I had overlooked. Here are some things I learnt on my journey.
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