The Pretty Princess

This is a bit of a tricky topic. 

It’s quite dangerous for a submissive to announce herself as such to a sexual partner without really scoping that person out first. If you tell the person directly, they’ll either be so excited that they’ll lose control of themselves, or they’ll get scared and run off. 

So, my recommendation is to look for strong characteristic traits in your potential candidate… 

Someone who isn’t easily swayed by the opinions of others. Someone who isn’t afraid to debate their point in an argument. Someone who is genuinely caring and affectionate, and isn’t afraid to show it. Someone tough. Someone who is open minded to the opinions and views of others. Someone who can not only feel their emotions, but is capable of controlling them. 

Being a dominant isn’t JUST about having a firm hand and being rough in bed. You may not want such things as a submissive… you may want soft play with toys and rope. Or a dozen other things. 

The point is, it’s never just black and white. And the person you choose needs to be flexible enough to be willing to cater to your needs, as well as his own… whatever they may be. And they must, MUST have self control. 

Even if you want them to lose all control and just be a savage… they still need to be able to control themselves in all the madness. 

Hope this helps. 

1. Would you rather be blindfolded or blindfold me?

2. Would you rather orgasm while performing oral or during intercourse?

3. What was your high school sex fantasy?

4. What’s your favorite position?

5.  Which part of your body do you consider the most sexy?

6.  Do you like to swallow?

7.  Who do you fantasize about when you’re alone?

8. Your last sexual encounter; good or bad and why?

9. Where is one place you would never have sex?

10. Top or bottom?

11.  Best sexual complement you ever got?

12. When was the first time you masturbated?

13.  Have/would you ever have sex outside?

14. Who gave you your last kiss? Did it mean anything?

15.  Do you sleep in pajamas, underwear, or nothing at all?

16.  If you had a sexual “to-do” list, what would be on top of the list?

17. Is a weird “sex face/orgasm face” a total deal breaker?

18. Do you have a gag reflex?

19. Is your sex life award-winning or a total flop?

20. Are piercings sexy?

21. Can/Have you ever squirted before?

22. List your kinks.

23. How did you discover you were kinky?

24. What was your first kinky sexual experience?

25. Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

26. What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy?

27. Something that never fails to make you horny:

28. Where is one place you would never have sex?

29. The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when:

30. Whats the best way to sexually bind someone? (handcuffs, ropes, etc.)

31. Whats the fastest way to make you horny?

32. Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:

33. Two things you like/dislike about oral sex:

34. How big is too big?

35. One sexual thing you would never do:

36. Three spots that drive me insane:

37. Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?

38. Is it good sex even if you don’t cum?

39. Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? Why/Why not?

40.  If a child was born on the occasion of the last time you had sex, how old would that child be now?

41. Do you like giving head? Why/why not?

42. Do you own any sex toys? If so, how long have you had them?

43. Do you watch porn?

44. Have you had sex in your parents bed? (Would you?)

45. How would you react if you found out your parents had sex on your bed?

46. Spanking: turn on or turn off?

47.  What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?

48. Biggest sexual fantasy?

49. Kitchen counter, couch, or on top of the dryer?

I see many of you posting pictures of girls in very humiliating positions /outfits, with a description that says, “looking for a cunt to do this to. Taking applications.”

Being that you’re taking applications, I’m assuming you don’t have anyone with whom to live out your fantasies. So, let me see if I can help you out a little.

Most single women who are into degradation have been abused before and left for naught by their dominant… Or had to leave their dominant because of excessive abuse… The kind of abuse that crosses the boundaries of Sexuality into straight violence and torment.

They are fragile. They are broken. And they’re looking for someone that understands that FIRST.

It takes an insane amount of trust to let someone who is bigger and stronger than you to fucking tie you up and do what they want with you.

And posting under your picture that you’re “taking applications for a cunt to abuse” isn’t only counterproductive to your overall goal, but it’s offensive to the overall realm of BDSM.

So, might I recommend a change in approach?

Approach your search for a Submissive in the same way that you would approach general dating…

You know…

Normal conversation. General likes and dislikes. Family… The basic shit that one would learn about the person they’re dating.

Approach the sexual part of the process the same way that is done in “vanilla” relationships… 1st base, 2nd base, etc.

Granted, if there’s chemistry and you’ve already established that you’re both into BDSM, things will heat up very quickly and you’ll be home before you know it.

But the approach doesn’t change.

And don’t expect her to let you tie her up completely on your first fuck. Again… It takes a lot of trust.

You could be a serial killer for all she knows. 😌

I’m saying all this because I want you to find a beautiful toy to use and abuse to BOTH of your pleasures.

So, let it marinate a little. Read it over again. Maybe it’ll help.

And to ALL SUBMISSIVES…

Share this post. Let’s help these aspiring Doms that follow you so obsessively. Teach them what they need to learn to grow. It’s your responsibility as well as theirs.

With love and pain,

It’s always a pleasure to hear /read stuff like this…

I don’t think most men understand just how much trust it takes for a submissive to leave themselves in such a vulnerable position, at the mercy of a man larger and more powerful than herself…

Not to mention that there could’ve been a number of traumatic experiences that prevents her from speaking up or stopping you from being a savage… They freeze… They don’t know how to say no…

But just because she doesn’t say no, doesn’t mean she’s giving consent…

I.could go on about this for hours…