You really have to let yourself cry and crash out

If you're intellectualizing your feelings, you're not feeling them

you are allowed to outgrow the version of yourself everyone else got comfortable with

a deep connection can’t be formed without emotional safety. without safety, there’s no trust. without trust, there’s no vulnerability. without vulnerability, there’s no intimacy + without intimacy, there’s no true connection.

how to stop isolating yourself?? the answer is give up on code and hidden messages. love fully and loudly and truthfully and always. be deliberate. be open. feel everything. but won’t it be hard? won’t it hurt? yes!!!! yes.

idc (i'll definitely cry)

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