Great article on the benefits of pegging your husband.
Pegging, definition according to Wikipedia: âPeggingâ is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a manâs anus with a strap-on dildo, which is held with a harness or with her own vagina.
Doctor Jenn Gunsaullus says that pegging âunites men, women, dildo, lube, pleasure and powerâ
The most important to me is POWER.
From my experience as a Mistress, I know that pegging is the most effective way to get the transfer of the standard dominant role from men.
Through pegging, the dominant role of the relationship passes radically from the man to the woman.
The couple relationship dynamics will completely change once he will be underneath you and you will fuck his ass with a strap-on. From that moment, you will stop seeing him as the âleaderâ of the relationship and you will be stating a precedent for having things done your own way, not his. And the best thing about it is that he is going to love it too.
You will discover yourself soon making decisions he used to make before, or for which you needed his approval. You will feel much more self-confident, Dominant, and at the same time, he will start feeling and showing himself more submissive, more sensitive to your needs, wishes and whims.
If you have decided to incorporate the pegging to your relationship, donât rush. Choose the best moment to tell him; a moment when he is very excited and receptive. Tell him you want to fuck his ass in the next months. Be very sexy when exposing your idea and take profit of that excitement to negotiate with him. Deal and establish clearly the limits, changes and punishments, also the physical ones, which you will apply if he decides not to obey at some stage.
He will not know how far you intend to go, and accept all your conditions. He will be too excited and worried planning to get to fuck you for his own pleasure, to stop thinking in the future. This will be his first great lesson.
Before starting with the strap-on training, you have to realize at all moments that you have to look confident and pushing. It is a training, that may seem too slow to you sometimes, but it is clearly pleasant for both of you, so, enjoy the process as well. The results will come, but it must be something positive from the first moment to you.
What you will do, as a matter of fact, will be changing is pleasure area. He will have to learn to transfer all the pleasure he thinks he has only in his dick, from the top of his penis, to his anus⌠After a while, you will get to make the anal pleasure his only way to get sexual satisfaction. And you, will get this way all the power and the control you wish on him and much, much more pleasure. Because, in exchange of the pleasure he will get from your strap-on, he will feel the impetuous need to give you all the pleasure you may want, and will do anything to make you happy. He will be âprogrammedâ to satisfy you.
His penis stops being a pleasure tool, also for you, and you rediscover the pleasure of oral sex, a pleasure that you will need and ask constantly. The more pleasure you will get like this, the more he will need to satisfy you.
Very important: you can add some humiliation to the training. Take profit of any occasion to show him you really have all the control and all the power. You may need other dicks for your pleasure, not his, and you may use them or not; anyway, you decide. If you use other dicks, donât feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your intention to do it and your experiences. He must learn, and understand, that your pleasure is the most important thing, NOT the source where it comes from. He will have to make an effort then to be the only source of pleasure. You know, they always love to be the Alpha âMacho Manâ.
Rise your control on him: cage his penis in a Chastity Belt. Even if it seems unbelievable, the fact of not touching himself, nor seeing his useless dick, will turn him on a lot. This is because he canât disconnect his mind from you while wearing the Chastity Belt. The CB, or cage, as I call it, will keep him in a state of perpetual excitement and obsession for his sexual needs and pleasure.
Remember, once you start fucking his ass with the strap-on, you wonât see him the same way. You will not see him as a man, he will be your whore, a slut you take by his ass, each time you wish to.
It wonât be so easy to induce him. He will try to convince you that pegging is an absurd practice, unnatural, strange and shameful to him.
He will think that the idea of being penetrated will seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe the scene of you fucking him as something horrible. Those are just excuses. Ignore them!
Sometimes the âMachoâ hides away the strap-on not to be fucked. Other men stay at work until later, when they feel âit is timeâ. Others allege, finally their rejection from their fear to be identified and catalogued as âgaysâ⌠He will always find excuses to take your attention away from his ass. Donât hesitate, use discipline and corporal punishment, if needed, to prevail.
In a FemDom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. In my opinion, several times a week.
Do it in a way that he will never know when you will do it: before he falls asleep, or early in the morning, before he gets to work, after work, even in the middle of the night, and most of all, each time you will feel like fucking his ass.
With the pegging practice you fuck his ass, but also his mind and you reinforce your authority. Ignore his complaints. Reward will come soon.
Little by little, his resistance to be fucked will start to decay, as it will happen with his sphincter in the same way.
The combination of forced chastity, corporal punishment and pegging will make your man a new creature, unselfish and submissive. The power dynamics of the relationship will change. Remember always that your authority will grow more the more you apply it.
He will soon understand that he does not control anything _not even his penis_ he will not be able to have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he canât have what he wants, when he wants it, without your approval.
It is very important to control the masturbatory customs of men. A man should not be allowed to masturbate in a FemDom relationship.
Your authority will grow, while he gets used to have something inside his ass: make him use a butt-plug, of a good size, when you are not fucking him.
You can also enjoy making him feel always full. During a meal, surprise him ordering him to go to the bathroom to introduce himself a butt-plug you have prepared for him.
He must get used to other physical things. But mental and psychological changes in him will be very deep and definitive.
The moment has come to ask him to wear knickers, instead of a male slip. Hide all his slips, and take him to buy his own girlie underwear. Make him wash every night the knickers of both of you. Hand wash.
It is normal to wear a whoreâs clothes if he is being fucked as one. This way you show him it is not just a game; he will feel your control on him while being dressed as a whore all day, he will not have relief, even when he is far away from you.
His body must get used to the new situation. Receiving the strap-on will change from being painful, to being uncomfortable, and finally just a strange sensation.
Take your time in order to stimulate his prostate when you are fucking him, it will be very pleasant for him, even if also humiliating, and he will not recognize it easily. He is enjoying a strange new pleasure, humiliating, but for sure milking will help.
What you will really do is milking his prostate and, remember, keep his penis caged. During the milking process, he must feel relief, but something really different from his usual pleasure with his precious penis. Milking is necessary to drain his prostate, that will be extra full of his seminal liquid almost for sure, because of the level of continuous excitementyou provoke in him.
Verbal humiliation can be useful during this process to break his ego, you will see soon how necessary it is to break him, humiliate him.
The first time you will call his ass âhole to be fuckedâ or âmale cuntâ, he will be shocked and ashamed. Ignore him. You will see he is dripping, excited, only because of your words.
Make him shave. Either all his public hair or leave enough for a landing strip. Like a true whore does.
You can be even more cruel. If you say to him, in a calmed but self-confident tone, that his little penis is useless, that he fucks like a girl, hat you need a big man, with a big cock, who will know how to use it to fuck you⌠for sure you will get his attention immediately.
Explain to him that you are going to tell to two or three of your best girlfriends some private aspects of your sexual life⌠Things like that he has a small dick, that you put him in chastity, that he has controlled orgasms, that he is a cunt-licker, that you love fucking him with the strap-on, that you make him wear knickers, that he has to share your cunt with other men and that he must clean after⌠all that will be very humiliating to him, but will reinforce your authority, he must realize that you are serious about it.
After three or four months of chastity treatment, pegging, discipline and humiliation⌠Being self-confident, firm, strict⌠he will stop resisting and fighting.
He will bend over for you, will hug and hold you after you have fucked him with love, and will desperately need to lick your cunt to give you pleasure and thank you for what you do for him.
He mustnât have âconventional sex,â during this period. I recommend you not to offer him âvanilla sexâ, at least during the first months, until he understands his dick is not necessary anymore to give or get pleasure. Sex for him, must be limited to serving you orally. You can masturbate him some time in a humiliating way, or with lack of interest. Better if you do it with your feet. May be I donât need to say it, but your mouth will never touch his penis again.
Having his dick caged, has no real effect on him giving you pleasure with his mouth, but while being frustrated by the fact of not coming for weeks,, his sexual tension will arise dramatically and, of course, his desire towards you. This produces his wish to see you get pleasure and sexual satisfaction many more times.
Finally, your manâs brain will end by associating the anal penetration with your pleasure and orgasms, he will want his strap-on treatment, and will beg for it. He will be your whore, always in disposal to please you. He will need to be fucked by you, and he will do anything to get it.
If the man receives the strap-on regularly, his body and mind adjust to the new situation, and he experiences some physical and psychological changes.
Fucking him turns into a ânormalâ experience, and he will even need it. This happens because you succeeded to change is erogenous zone, by ignoring and caging his penis and by constantly stimulating his prostate through his anus.
His own pleasure becomes secondary, and he prefers to make you enjoy, gets excitement and joy when you ignore his penis, but you use more his mouth and tongue⌠he discovers a richer and more exciting world in which he is not the centre anymore, he does not even decide.
