I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

people become so beautiful when you love them. do y'all know about this

Only the most beautiful and heartfelt and daring connections for me

I told my beautiful friend today that “When you feel misunderstood then you must commit yourself to understanding others” this is the remedy. This is the medicine.

not only will the sun come up again but it will be painfully beautiful every time