horny in the face of adversity

Warnings:

I don't consistently tag for NSFW content (because this is an evil sex blog and NSFW is implied), or do warnings unless asked.  I'm really bad about that.  It is not out of some petulant whiny kind of "THE WOKES ON TUMBLR HAVE GONE MAD AND I WON'T STAND FOR THIS!" attitude, it's just that I'm forgetful and lazy.  Tell me if you need anything tagged and I'll try to remember.  

 A blanket disclaimer: this blog is 18+ and may contain depictions of sex, violence, and/or sexual violence.  Please leave this blog if you are under 18, or if you don't like that kind of thing.

About me:

34/F/psychosexual fog of impotent yearning. Sub-leaning-switch, so no matter who wins, I win. I'll play along no matter your gender, I guess, because it's fun to play along, but I'm gay IRL.

About what you might see here:

Bad jokes. 

Tedious pseudo-philosophical arguments with myself.  Sometimes the psychology of it all.  Saying 'kink theory' sounds pretentious, but I am pretentious.

Cool info about fetish subcultures.  Even if I'm not 'into something' into something, it's still interesting to me. I love learning about other people!

Sometimes I post fan fiction recommendations. 

I like to write stories where a thinly-veiled self-insert is brutalized. Think: James Bond (and his clones) and Rosa Klebb are 30something lesbians in space. Read the stories under the tag (formerly st. rictus).

NO:

Ageplay (including diapers and DD/lg)

Vore

Poops

Goops

Feederism

Humiliation

Raceplay

Public anything

Gore. A little blood is fine and I like bruises but if you’re breaking bones or pulling out teeth or fingernails I’m not as interested

Gor

YES:

Sexy violence, control exerted over me, unequal power distribution.  Antique medical trappings, bespoke suits, leather oxfords, situationally-appropriate restraints, condescension and patronizing, not-explicitly-sexual violation of boundaries, a nice oxford or brogue, tweed, cruel whimsy, institutionalization, smiles that don’t quite reach the eyes, and implements that wound.  I am as much a fetishist of the violence of acts themselves as I am of contextual props.  If I have a 'type,' it's someone who is powerful, usually older than I am, and a bit of a creative sadist who takes full advantage.

Unrepentant evil people. Why settle for the bad boy? Why not have the WORST MAN?

I also like to put people in situations. Allow me to put you in a situation. I'm literally so sweet and nice. What, you don't trust me? Are you some kind of ableist?

Faustian bargains

More written than visual pornography.  

Questions and comments and creepy compliments and attempts to make me sexually uncomfortable are more than welcome-- they are encouraged.

This blog is my side-blog, so if I don’t follow you back, please please please don’t think it’s because I don’t like you.