your reluctant optimist

people just hate children. it's a sorry state of affairs. they hate children being starved and bombed overseas. they hate children laughing and playing in the park. they hate their own kids, whom they popped out because social norms told them it was an obligate milestone for their own enrichment and not the creation of another human being whose life then takes priority over theirs. they don't want to be around children, they don't want to raise them, they are always foisting them onto someone else and no one wants to take them. they hate children even though we were all children once and most of us probably know, in some way or another, how withering it felt to be a hated child, whether it was some stranger on a bus telling us to shut up in an isolated incident or our parents resenting the fact that we existed. nothing will get better if we don't stop hating children and start seeing every child anywhere as a vulnerable citizen we ought to look out for. our society is only as healthy as the poorest, loneliest child in it.

i'm gonna be me forever and im gonna get really really good at it

Sorry you’re gonna have to drag me kicking and screaming off the thirty year old social reject woman website. These are my people

i'm actually curious, what trinkets do you guys have on your keychains? 🗝️

been burning the candle at a third and possibly even fourth end lately, an advanced technique that no one talks about because it's "a bad idea"