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WIFE- “Yep! That’s the one. What should I do?”

HUSBAND- “Does he know I openly share you or that you come home to me after getting fucked and that you feed me cum….or at least that we have sex afterwards?”

WIFE- “Yep! I told him that you have a cum eating fetish and love when I get fucked and come home to you. He actually thought that was reall hot that we do that and said he would totally do that if he ever found a girlfriend willing to do it.”

HUSBAND- “Do you want to get fucked by him again tonight?”

WIFE- “Awwww baby, we’re out on a date. I don’t want to do that to you and leave you all alone while I go get the fuck of a lifetime and cum like ten times only to come home totally smelling of sex and dripping delicious hot thick wet cum in your mouth before you ravage my pussy and lick and suck all the cum you want before you slide your super hard cock into my boiling hot, swollen, used, slippery slutty, freshly fucked pussy and pound me until you cum so hard you see glitters and stars and almost pass out. No baby, you and I are on our regular once a week date for a pizza. I don’t want to do that to you.?

HUSBAND- “Huh?”

WIFE- “OF COURSE I want to get FUCKED by him baby! He has the single biggest, hardest cock and the biggest cum load I have ever taken in my life or will probably ever take in my life!”

HUSBAND- “That’s my girl…….. Go talk to him. Actually, bring him over and introduce me to him. It will be less weird that way if he knows I’m actually cool and not some pussy whipped wimp of a husband.”

WIFE- “OK. Be right back. ……………”

WIFE- “Baby, I want to introduce you to someone. This is Kendall. He’s the guy who fucked me at Crystal’s party last week. Well, not at the party but we met at the party.”

HUSBAND- Hey Kendall. Nice to meet you! My wife had a great time with you last week. She’s been talking about your big cock non stop since then. When she saw you tonight, I told her she should go say ‘Hi’ and see if you wanted to take her home again tonight?”

KENDALL- “Oh wow, hey. Yea…she was on fire man! Sorry, I normally have to sneak around girl’s husbands if I meet them. I don’t know many couples like you guys where you’re cool about it. She said she’s a Hotwife and you’re a….a….? What was it called?”

HUSBAND- “STAG. Well, a stag with maybe a little bit of Cuckold in me. Just the cum part after she’s been fucked. Other than that, total STAG!

KENDALL- “Yea, that was it. She did mention your cum kink. I told her I thought that was hot that you two can do that with each other. I’d love to have a girlfriend who gets fucked by other guys and comes home and feeds me their cum. It’s been an impossible sell to every prior girlfriend but you can’t blame a guy for trying!”

WIFE- “Kendall, give me just a second alone with my husband. I want to ask him a quick question, OK?

KENDALL- Of course. I’ll go grab my drink from the bar. Just motion for me if you want me to come back over.

WIFE- (Asking husband) “Baby…you know that fantasy of having a threesome with another guy? Well….what would you think of sharing me with Kendall and both of you could eat each other’s cum. He fucks me, you eat his cum. You fuck me, he eats your cum. I just don’t want you to be intimidated by the size of his cock. You can either totally make it hot, watching me on the biggest cock you’ll ever see or you can feel impish and small and let it consume you with jealousy. It’s really a matter of how you think about it.”

HUSBAND- “Baby, I wil be so fucking turned on watching you get FUCKED by his massive fucking cock! I just have to keep from making myself cum jerking off to you two….if he wants to eat my cum from your pussy. I can do it though. Yes! Please ask him!

WIFE- (Motions for Kendall to come back to the table). “Kendall, my husband and I were thinking….would you want to come have a threesome with us? Hear me out. You know my husband wants to eat your cum after you fuck me. You just said you’d love to do it if you found a girlfriend willing to do it for you. My husband will fuck me and cum in me and can feed it to you from my pussy. You can literally have your fantasy tonight. Who knows…you guys might want to do more even? I’m not setting anything up there, just leaving room open to explore if you guys are feeling a little more ‘bi’ than just eating each other’s cum. What do you think?”

KENDALL- “Does he know about my cock?”

WIFE- “Down to the smallest details. I described it in precise detail while he was licking your cum out of me. I wanted him to have a great visual of just how incredible it is while he tasted you. It makes it hotter for him that way. So, what do you think?”

KENDALL- Oh he’ll yea! I am soooo in! (Turns to Husband) “Dude, are you cool with this?”

HUSBAND- “I am soooo fucking turned on right now! I’m going to get to see the biggest, hottest cock of my life, fuck my wife and then I’m going to get to lick up every drop of your cum! FUCK YESSSSSS I AM cool with this! Who knows…I might even do something else like my wife suggested IF you’re into that? Don’t feel any pressure. I’m just letting YOU know my thoughts on that.”

KENDALL- “Oh yea, I’m into doing that too! I’ll do whatever you want actually. I want to try it all!”

HUSBAND- “Let’s do it! Do you have a car here?

KENDALL- “I do. I’m parked out back. Do you want me to follow you guys?

HUSBAND- (Baby, why don’t you ride with Kendall and show him how to get to our place? Maybe you can even play with his cock a little on the ride there?”

Recognizing the potential for being a slutwife in a woman is a very important skill that any man looking to live out this lifestyle will find very valuable. There are some things that are very telling, while others are more subtle. Recognizing potential can save a guy a lot of time when looking for a gf more predisposed to this lifestyle, as well as help a husband recognize where his wife falls in respect to the probabilities of becoming a slutwife. Here are some things to look for that show a woman’s potential for becoming a slutwife.

1. The first hint to predict her potential is obvious, just ask her. Considering that for someone you are with or considering a serious relationship with, ask her how she would feel about being able to sleep with other men she found attractive on occasions. Being open about sexuality upfront is best when starting a relationship, it gives both people a clear view about future expectations and possibilities while allowing the relationship to build up with a solid foundation. If already married, changing things are a bit more complicated since she has built an identity around the relationship, and that identity may not involve other men. It is not too late if she is not up to it, but it will take more time to change her identity.

2. The second hint for predicting her potential is her sexual history. Obviously, the more, the better. A longer sexual repertoire normally implies less sexual inhibitions and being more open towards experimentation. It can also be implied that she is more aware of things that please her. While not always the case, women with a longer history have, in a sense, been there and done that, so they understand the pleasures of being able to sleep with another man while being able to avoid the drama. There are only two ways of knowing a woman’s sexual history, by asking her and by “word on the street”. Women may attempt to downplay their sexual history because of the bad perception that comes by having a longer repertoire. If she does have a long history and is honest about it, you have hit gold. Word on the street is asking around about a girl, through your friends, her friends, etc. This can feel very creepy and it is, but you can often find out a girl has been around more than she would admit. In either case, let her know you are very ok with her sexual history and you are not jealous at all.

3. The third hint about her potential is her dress style. Her shorts skirts, low tops, microbikinis, her lingerie, etc. Obviously, the sluttier the better. A woman comfortable showing skin is more comfortable with male attention than a woman who dresses modestly. She understand male attention reflects directly to guys wanting to fuck her, so the more comfortable she is with the thought of it, the better. If it can be helped, ask her to dress more provocative.

4. The fourth hint to gauge her potential is her social media. This can be broken down into two pieces. The first piece is content. The more she posts pictures of herself, and the sexier they are, the better. The second piece regarding social media is the amount of male friends and followers she allows. As with the previous points, the more, the better her potential is. A woman uploading sexy pictures to a large male audience is comfortable with the male attention she is getting, knowing well many of them are wanting to fuck her. If it can be helped, encourage her to upload sexier pictures and open up her social media to more people. The more, the better.

5. The fifth hint is her behavior around other men. Gauge how she behaves around you, around your friends, around her friends, around strangers. The more extroverted she is, the higher her potential. Being comfortable with talking to others, with attention, with hugging, kissing, and forms of touching, with playing, all these things add up to how much fun she can have with others. While it is often a trait that she is born with, being an extrovert is something that can be practiced. So encourage her to relax and open up around other people, specially men.

6. The sixth hint is dancing. Most women enjoy dancing. How much does she enjoy it? What styles does she prefer? Does she or is she willing to dance with other men? If she does, how much does she let other guys get away with? Once again, the more she enjoys it and the more open she about it, the better. You can always encourage a woman to dance with other men as a good gauge of potential.

7. The seventh indicator of potential is her use of drugs and alcohol. Normally these two reduce women’s inhibitions and open her up sexually to more adventures. However, this is not a case of the more the better. Both of these things can be abused and bring about unnecessary drama that can ruin the mood and relationships. However, if she has a history of being able to use these things responsibly, they can be a good indicator of her willingness to let loose and enjoy the moment.

8. The eighth and final indicator we will discuss today will be her physical appearance. What her body looks like not only draws attention, but indicates how much she cares about her health and image. She understands that her body is her temple, and wether consciously or unconsciously, that it is her primary sexual tool of attraction. The more she takes care of her body, the higher her potential. Along with that, her hair, makeup, nails, etc are also good indicators of her self image and her potential as a slutwife.

When talking to the wife or gf about becoming a slutwife, there are two general questions that will come up. The first question will generally be, “Why?” Because we have talked about that in a previous post, we will cover second question that generally pops up, “With who?”

As an example, perhaps her getting gang raped by a bunch of thugs in a ghetto who don’t wear condoms is something that gets both of you off and often a topic of roleplay, but odds are she will not be down to making that her first slutwife experience. So for the realistic talk, we are going back to something within the realm of possibilities. She and you may have different expectations on what may work best, so it is important to sort those things out before trying to move forward.

Generally speaking, it will come down to one important factor, do you prefer secrecy or intimacy. Both factors can exist simultaneously given time, but for the first experience may come down to a choice. In other words, would you prefer she have sex with someone you know, or a complete stranger. There are pros and cons to both, and it comes down to personal choices. I have made a list below of possible sexual partners, people you know and strangers, and the pros and cons of each.

Strangers - A stranger could be anyone not currently involved in your life. Some couples prefer strangers because they intend to keep their secret sexual life as far away as possible from the people they know. A stranger that knows nothing about your life can provide a great level of comfort for couples. The idea being that if something did not work out, they would never need to see or hear from the stranger again. The wife can control how much, if any, information is shared with the stranger. Here is a list of strangers a slutwife could hook up with.

1. Stranger in another city - Regardless of who the guy is, the general concept is that the wife has sex with a guy from another city who knows nothing about her. This can be done as a couple or the wife alone. Because the stranger is in another city/state/country, the odds of bumping into each other randomly will be slim to none. This concept works well with slutwife vacations (see post on topic). Downside to the stranger, is not actually knowing much about the person either, so caution and condoms are recommended.

2. Male escort - This concept is about getting a professional to guide your wife through her first experience. This is one of the most preferred methods for beginner couples, since it provides both secrecy and a satisfactory experience. A male escort can be hired to the specifications of the wife’s/couple’s desires, so black, tall, muscular, huge!, good looking, etc along with acting the part to fulfill your fantasies. The main downside to male escorts is that they do cost money and some women may find paying for sex demeaning. Sexual protection is also encouraged.

3. Adult dating site - Adult dating sites are full of horny men looking for a girl to fuck. Normally, they just want the thrill of sex and are not looking for long tern commitments. Any girl posting on adult dating sites will be bombarded with male attention, so finding a willing man will be easy. The downside will be that many of these men may not meet your wife’s sexual criteria for looks, attitude, dick size, etc. so filtering through may take some time.

4. Bar/club hookup - The general concept is that the wife goes out dressed very provocatively and lets a guy she likes hit on her. She may pretend to be single if needed or hooking up on her own, but the basis is that she will be flirty and be easy for the other man. She can also say she is married if you plan on being a part of the action later, but she must make it clear she is very available. When the time comes, she will accept the other man’s advances as he begins feeling her up or talking about sleeping with her. The downside to this scenario is the same as with any stranger, physical and sexual safety. The upside is that she can pretend to be a single girl being a slut and let the scenario play out naturally.

5. Beach hookup - The idea here is for her to go out in a skimpy bikini and flirt with a stranger at the beach. This can be by herself or you watching. This works well for slutwife vacations or spring break, where she can simply become another slutty girl like all the others. Downside is the same as with other scenarios where strangers are involved. Upside is that she can show off her body and have her pick of men to choose from.

6. Swinger club hookup - Swinger clubs and parties are becoming more common and provide a good opportunity for a first time hook up. The stranger part of it comes from going to another city to attend one of these parties or attending a mask/costume swinger parties. Aside from general sexual protection, there is no real downside to this option.

7. The Celebrity - The celebrity is someone your wife has admitted that they would have sex with if you allowed it and he was available. It may seem far fetched, since you are probably thinking that getting Brad Pitt to fuck your wife is near impossible, but think outside the box a bit. How many celebrity guys are there? There are thousands of men she could be into at any given time, from actors, musicians, tv personalities, athletes, etc. if you got your wife comfortable with the idea, how many guys would your wife think are fuck material. As far as the getting her in front of him, VIP tickets, fan mail, fan clubs, groupie clubs, etc are all good options. Think of a rock band going on tour, your wife is alone, dressed slutty, and going backstage with her VIP tickets to meet the band members privately. What are the odds of one of them hitting on her, or if she is daring enough, turning down the offer of a blowjob. We will talk more on the celebrity slutwife experience in the future for more ideas, but this is the general concept.

Someone You Know - The general concept here is simple, she prefers to have sex with someone she or you knows already because of a physical attraction or ab already established level of trust. Some couples prefer this option due to the enhanced level of intimacy and contact already shared, and a belief that this person will look out for your interests as well. In some cases, it is the person’s relationship, position, status, or physical appearance itself can be part of a fetish that the couple seeks, thus enhancing the sexual experience. The general downside, is this person likely knows other people associated with the couple, but that can also be a turn on for some couples. The bigger downside is that once the act is done, no one will ever forget it if later it was decided she does not want to keep going with it.

1. A Friend - There may be a friend she or you already have in mind that fits any given criteria that makes him a perfect sexual partner for her. Because he is already acquainted with you or her, there is a level of intimacy and trust already shared. Some couples find a friend an easier option to digest because of a this. Friends also provide availability and a general care for the well being of the wife. Couples that want a long term sexual relationship with another tend to prefer this option, and even strangers eventually soon fall into this category given enough time.

2. A Relative - There is always at least one person from your family, or hers, that would fuck her in a heartbeat. Odds are either you or her have noticed the guy staring or flirting etc, so you know exactly who that is. In some cases, women have guilty “fantasies” about relatives as well. Relatives could be brother, fathers, stepfathers, uncles, cousins, nephews, etc. This is a very personal and erotic road that often is best left in fantasy, but there are couples that have enjoyed a family affair where the wife has sex with a husband’s relative and it works really well for them. In other cases, it’s a wife’s relative, though that is normally best left in fantasy as well.

3. Coworker - It is a common fetish and fantasy for some couples to think of a coworker as a sexual partner. This is due to many reasons, physical attraction, availability, the thrill of keeping things secret at work, the intimacy that comes from people often spending more time at work than at home, etc. the fetish/fantasy is quite popular. In most cases, women will always have at least one man in her workplace that wants to fuck her and may even flirt with her. In a sense, a coworker already has rapport with her, or you, and some women may find this as an easy option to establish as her first lover.

4. The Boss - Another common fantasy/fetish that couples enjoy. The boss has an implied position of power over her or you. Because of this position, couples often find this option very thrilling. It tends to come with the sane benefits as a coworker, but it is often more rewarding. The boss has influence over her job position, pay, days off, workload, etc. The wife may find this both exciting and beneficial. An alternate version of this is that the wife has sex with the husband’s boss.

5. An Ex - Another common fantasy/fetish that couples often enjoy is the idea of her having sex with an ex. For many, it is easier to digest this idea since he already knows her intimately and has been there and done that. While the ex is really easy to digest as a sexual concept, because there was a relationship, this personal relationship may come with drama. Just use caution and make things clear with the ex regarding the expectations of a sexual relationship with clear boundaries.

6. A Neighbor/Roomate - Another common fantasy/fetish. Physical proximity is the name of the game with this one. This person lives within the physical space thus creating a level of physical intimacy. Some couples find this exciting and very available as an option. A neighbor or roomate will be close to her daily with or without your presence, so many find this proximity and availability very erotic. This generally works really well as long as the person understands that it is all about the sex.

7. Her Crush - Her crush is that guy that she likes or liked at some point but things never came together. It could be any of the previous men already mentioned, or some random guy working at a gas station somewhere, the pool boy, bartender, the plumber, her teacher, personal trainer, etc. or some college/high school crush. The idea is that she will approach him via social media, phone, or in person and confess of her desires for him. She will also hint that she would like to see him for a date to catch up with him. Odds are, he will make a move on her and she will of course let it happen. To avoid problems, she should make it clear that she is looking for a sexual thrill only and not a relationship.

These are some general ideas for you and your wife to think about for a first time slutwife experience, we will cover some of these with more depth in future posts. It is recommended you play through as many of these as possible in fantasy and get a feel of which seem to work best. As always, distinguish fantasy from real life and determine which options work best for you and have fun with it.

How does your wife, fiancé, or girlfriend rank?

SCALE - 1000 POINTS POSSIBLE

750 - 1000 = Nympho Wife

500 - 749 = Slut Wife

250 - 499 = Hot wife

Wildcard: If you do something that is not in the list but is deemed worthy of points for a certain section, the husband may opt to allow it to be used in accordance to the point structure. No more than 2 wildcards can be used per section. Use your imagination!

Preparation - Worth 1 Point - 13 Points Possible

1. Tell husband stories about fucking your exes 2. Read 10 new hot wife stories 3. Watch 10 hot wife adult movies. 4. Buy 5 sexy and revealing outfits ask for opinions from other men 5. Call out another man’s name while fucking your husband 6. Go out in a dress or skirt and don’t wear any panties or bra 7. Buy and wear a hot wife or slut anklet 8. Flirt with guys in front of husband 9. Let a guy hit on you in front of your husband 10. Hand out your number to 3 new guys each month with a note saying you need to get fucked hard 11. Go shopping for sex toys at a an adult store 12. Go to 2 new places each month with hubby looking for good places to flirt 13. Sign up and pay for adult dating sites and Tinder to meet other men

Teasing - Worth 3 Points - 51 Points Possible

1. Let another man smack your ass in public while your husband watches. 2. Let a man grab your exposed boobs in public while your husband watches. 3. Let a man grope your exposed ass in public while your husband watches 4. Let a man feel your shaved pussy in public while your husband watches 5. Fondle another man’s cock in public 6. Rub your ass across other men to tease them in stores or at bars. 7. Bet a stranger he can’t fuck you harder and better than your husband 8. Send your husband a pic of you in lingerie from another man’s phone 9. Flash your ass to another man in public while your husband watches 10. Flash your tits to another man in public while your husband watches. 11. Greet the delivery man at the door in nothing but a t-shirt 12. Openly Skype and flirt with a guy while hubby is in the room 13. Openly talk dirty to another man on the phone in front of your husband 14. Send nude photos to another man 15. Let another man watch you fuck your husband on Skype 16. Get naked in the car and show off to truckers as you pass by 17. Make a guy cum for you on Skype

Basic - Worth 6 Points - 96 Points Possible

1. Call husband while sucking a cock 2. Call husband while getting fucked 3. Send texts telling your husband what another man is doing to you 4. Send pictures to your husband at work and at home while getting fucked 5. Show up at another man’s house wearing only a coat and heals - let hubby see you leave like that 6. Make another man cum without taking your clothes off 7. Have 3 quickies in one week with other men 8. Leave used condoms on your husbands side of the bed 9. Leave wet spots on your husbands side of the bed or pillow 10. Pick up a man by telling him he can cum inside you. 11. Make husband take one of your lovers out for beers before you fuck him / them 12. Send your husband a pic of you nude and say I am ready for you. Then say oops was not meant for you 13. Say you are going to the store and then 10 minutes later text your husband a nude pic at some guys house 14. Make movies of you fucking other men and share with your husband 15. Challenge a stranger to cum inside you in only ten thrusts (in public or car) 16. Pick up and fuck a guy on Craigslist, adult dating site, or Tinder

Advanced - Worth 12 Points - 360 Points Possible

1. Suck one cock while getting fucked by another 2. Skype your husband and let him watch you fuck another man 3. Make your husband listen to you get fucked from the other room 4. Have your other man send your husband photos of him fucking you 5. Have your man text your husband describing how he is fucking you 6. Give a guy a blow job in his car while your husband is in the back seat 7. Call a man over and give him only a blowjob until he cums on you. 8. Let another man fuck your ass 9. Let your ex cum inside you 10. Don’t clean up before letting your husband fuck you after getting fucked 11. Blow another man in the changing room while shopping with your husband 12. Beg your husband to come home from work only to have him find you fucking another man 13. Get a discount on renovations by fucking the contractor. 14. Send pics to your husband of yourself covered in cum 15. Suck a man off at a theater 16. Make your husband hide in the closet as you fuck another man 17. Fuck a man in his office, tell hubby. 18. Make your husband wait in the car while you go fuck another man 19. Send a picture of your wedding ring hand holding a massive cock 20. Send your hubby a pic with another man’s cum on your wedding ring 21. Fuck a man on your anniversary 22. Fuck another man right next to your husband while he sleeps 23. Pick up a guy and fuck him in the back seat while hubby drives you home 24. Fuck 5 different men in one week 25. Fuck 3 different men in one day 26. Jerk a man off in a hot tub across from your husband 27. Fuck a man in a hotel room with the curtains open and the lights on. 28. Fuck a man in the car in your driveway 29. Make hubby lube you with his tongue before you leave to get fucked. 30. Let another man call you names like slut or whore - while hubby can hear

Extreme - Worth 16 Points - 480 Points Possible

It started for me when I found Hotwife porn on my hubby’s computer. I was shocked, offended. I thought he wanted to fuck other women. This was far from the truth. It took some time to realize he wanted to share me. It turned him on and he did not know how to tell me. Would I think he wanted to cheat if I did it? Would I think he’s bi? These are fears he had and it took some time for me to realize it was all about him being turned on by me being naughty and in control. It was all about me and him finding me attractive. Me being naughty makes him want me more. It’s brought us so much closer.

Most marriages get very boring in the bedroom. Hotwifing spices it up 100x. It’s important to focus on the physical aspect of sex with your dates and the emotional connection with sex with your hubby. The extra sex with other men isn’t the main focus, ITS THE RECLAIMING SEX WITH YOUR HUBBY. You just enjoyed a great, liberating experience and hubby gets you in the end every time. You’re going to be having a lot more sex and you will find yourself saying “can you do what X did to me?”.

Some of my list below ventures more on your hubby being more submissive. Others less so. If your hubby does not want to do the extra submissive ones, that’s ok. You might not either. It’s important to be respectful to hubby. Your date should always be respectful if your hubby is there for the encounter. He should never ridicule your hubby. That will ruin the experience. Depending on your relationship, you may say more submissive things like “what do you want him to do to me” or “is this what you wanted to see?”, or more dominant things like “watch how good he fucks me”, or engaging in more dominant activities that you will find below. Many couples are afraid to try the light dominant acts, but you might be surprised how much you’re both into it once you do.

Here are some tips, challenges, and dares!

Starting out:

1. Point out men you’d like to fuck. Tease the idea.

2. Tell your husband you know men who want to fuck you.

3. Flirt with men, even in front of your husband. Make it obvious you’re flirting. Even say something like “you and I should get together for drinks sometime. This is my hubby but he’s working tomorrow. How about we get together then?”

4. Tell men you’re married and need extra cock. A lot of men will fuck you harder knowing you’re married.

5. Talk about your exes. Especially sex with them.

6. Tell your husband you want to fuck other men during sex.

7. Tell your husband you won’t fuck him again until you fuck someone else.

8. During sex, make him admit you deserve more cock. Not just from him, but you deserve to be well fucked by other men, often.

9. Tell your husband of fun you’ve had with men while in bed. Be honest and tell him of occasions you’ve never told him. He WILL be turned on. I told mine of some past infidelity from years back and he was turned on.

10. Tell your husband you want to fuck your ex (and do it)

11. Tell your husband you want to feel another man fill your pussy with cum.

12. During foreplay, tell your husband you want to leave to go fuck someone you know. Have your husband take a pic of you to send to him right then.

13. Go to a hotel bar with your husband and flirt with guys. Try to get invited to his room.

14. Dance with guys and grind on them in front of your husband.

15. Have your husband tell a guy you’ve been flirting with that he wants him to fuck you.

16. Have drinks with your husband and a guy you want to fuck and tell the guy how you want to be fucked. Touch him, get close to him, guide his hands.

17. Get a guy’s number that you met with your hubby and secretly sext him in front of your hubby. Pro tip: Use the message app Kik.

18. Go on a girls night out and go home with a guy. Best if you have single friends. Make sure to dress slutty and have your husband watch you get ready. He’s hoping it turns into a late night.

19. Carry condoms in your purse and make sure your husband knows.

20. Sext other men and show your husband.

21. Have your husband take pics of you in your underwear for you to send to men.

22. Make a dating profile (Ashley Madison, Tinder, etc). This is a must do. Show hubby the guys you want to fuck.

23. Have your husband pay for lingerie your lover will enjoy. Say things like “Do you think he’d like to fuck me in this?”

24. Have your husband help you get ready for a solo date. Make sure to trim very well. Very little or no hair. Clean yet sooooo dirty :p

25. Go out and send updates and pics. Start clothed at a bar or restaurant with his hand on your hips or butt. Your hand on his crotch, etc. First kiss.

26. Go to his place and have your date send a pic of you bent over in your underwear. If it’s new underwear say something like “recognize the new panties you bought me? I found someone who will be the first to make them wet”

27. Send pics of his hand on your panties, rubbing your crotch. Suggestive pics. Don’t go full nude. Tease him.

28. Send pics of his face in your pussy.

28. Send a selfie with his dick in your mouth (very hot)

29. The pics stop as your hubby knows you are getting fucked.

30. Alternative: Live video or speakerphone your husband while you get fucked. Moan loud and beg for cock. Make sure to audibly tell your lover you are married and need to be fucked harder than your husband fucks you.

31. If you choose to send pics of the action, use low light. Tease him with it.

32. If no condom, scream for him to cum in your pussy.

33. If using a condom, use a new one each time you fuck and bring them all home to show your husband.

34. Tell your lover to make your panties soaking wet so you can show your husband.

35. Play with the idea of having your hubby eat your pussy after your date or kiss you after a blowjob. You might not think it, but when in the act both tend to find it very hot.

36. BONUS: Let your lover cum in your pussy and put your panties on immediately. Go home, lay on the bed, and spread your legs showing your husband your cum soaked panties.

37. Tell your husband every detail. You decide if your husband deserves a blow job, hand job, let him fuck you, or make him jerk off.

38. Make your husband use a condom to fuck you. Or don’t. Make him be your sloppy seconds.

39. MAKE HIM WATCH: It’s not going to be easy to find a guy who is okay with hubby watching. This is often best done if it’s someone you have been fucking so you and your lover are both comfortable. The three hottest moments of the first encounter hubby sees is watch your date slowly undress you, watching his cock enter you for the first time, and cum dripping out of you.

40. Introduce your lover: “Hubby, this is Mark. He knows how to fuck me and he’s going to show you how I like it.” Or “what do you want him to do to me?”

41. Have him sit outside the bedroom door and listen “Sorry, you can’t watch but we’ll let you listen”. Then make it loud!

42. Have hubby hold you while you get fucked.

43. Have your husband pull aside your panties while your lover eats your pussy.

44. Have your husband take off your panties for your lover.

45. Alternative: Make sure your panties are wet and put them on your husband’s head.

46. Or fuck with your panties on so they are wet and cum soaked. Visually, women look hot fucking with the panties pulled aside. Plus, you’ll get more cum in them for later tips.

47. Ride your lover’s cock so your hubby can see from behind. Great in video too.

48. Tell your husband he can’t touch himself. BONUS: strap him to a chair.

49. Look in your husband’s eyes as you’re fucked from behind.

50. Moan loud. Tell him how good you’re being fucked.

51. Wear your wedding ring and have your lover cum on it.

52. BONUS: Have your lover do something to you that your husband doesn’t: “Fuck my ass”, etc.

53. Have your hubby rent a hotel room and send him out for drinks when you have a “guest”. He’ll come back to you getting fucked.

***Other adventures:

54. Fuck several men. Make some more frequent but keep options. Fuck other men AT LEAST once a week. Your hubby will want to fuck you immediately, so be prepared for lots of sex.

55. Have your husband drive you to your lovers house.

56. Fuck your lover all night and call your husband to pick you up in the morning only to fuck your lover once more while he waits.

57. Kiss your lover as you leave and tell him you can’t wait to fuck again.

58. Tell your husband to thank your lover for fucking you.

59. Have your husband wait outside your lovers house while you fuck.

60. Tell your hubby to undress you for your lover.

61. Fuck your lover at home and leave your panties, a condom, or other memento on his side of the bed.

62. Fuck your lover on your wedding anniversary. Bonus if you’re wearing bridal lingerie. I planned this for a weekend getaway. My husband watched as I wore white panties that said “bride” on the back and white leggings for three rounds of fucking in our hotel room.

62. Fuck your lover on your husband’s side of the bed while he’s at work. Send pics and video.

63. Suck your lover’s cock and send a pic of the cum in your mouth to your husband.

64. Have your husband rent a room for you and your lover for the weekend. Count the number of times you cum and tell hubby. Must send pics!

65. Tell your husband he can’t fuck you until you’ve fucked X number of guys or X number of times.

66. Let your lover do things to you that you don’t do with your husband (cum in your ass, threesome with two guys). All the reason for private sessions without hubby.

67. Speaking of 3somes. Try two guys at once.

68. Wear panties with slutty messages (Return to Husband Full, Make a Mess My Hubby Will Clean It Up, Fuck Me Harder Than My Husband). Show this to men you’re flirting with in front of your hubby: Unzip and show message “what do you think of these?” I have some that say “my hubby won’t mind” at the top of the butt that I let guys see when in bars or a dance club.

***ADVANCED:

69. BIG BONUS AND VERY HOT. HE DOESN’T KNOW IT YET BUT THIS IS A BIG TURNON: When you come home with your panties full of cum, take them off, put on something sexy, and put the creamy panties on his head so your lover’s cum drips on him. Just do it. Nothing tells him you got well fucked like cum in your panties. VERY HOT.

70. Or…lay him on the ground while wearing the panties and rub your crotch on his face. Very very hot. He might just eat your pussy. I’m getting wet thinking about it.

71. Or…if using condoms, empty them in your panties and put them on his head.

72. When doing this, rub his cock and tell him how good you got fucked and tell him he needs to see and feel how good the cum was that was inside you. Tell him to feel your well used pussy.

73. When fucking in front of your hubby, make him wear your panties.

74. Blow your lover and swallow, but leave some on your lips. Tongue kiss your hubby.

***If your hubby REALLY deserves to be teased. You are in control and he WILL do what you say.

74. If your husband is watching, tell your lover to make a mess of your pussy because your husband will clean it up. Then sit on him when you’re done and let it leak all over him. His legs, chest, even his face.

75. BONUS: make him eat your pussy whether or not you used condoms. If you came home from a date, tell hubby to pull your panties aside and eat your pussy, especially if he cheated with X. Tell him how good you got fucked. Just tell him to do it and he will do it. YOU MAKE THE RULES.

76. Make a list of consequences. Checked a girl out: You get a Tinder date. Watched porn: you’re free to be a porn star with another man for the day. Flirted with a girl: You fuck five guys. One nighters, all weekend, your ex, someone you both know. Anyone you want and you make the rules. Even if he has to fly you somewhere to fuck someone all week. Updates and pics are required.

77. Spanking.

***Clearly there a humiliation factor that you both will get off to. Men knowing they are fucking his wife, you fucking men you both know. Maybe a friend knowing. Spanking (naughty boys deserve it). Your lover’s cum on hubby. Your lovers being told to show hubby how you like it. Have fun with this. It will make the experience stronger.

78. The hotwife 69. Get in the 69 position with your hubby but have your lover fuck you so your hubby has a great view just inches from your pussy.

79. ADVANCED: Strap-on play.

80. Wear a Hotwife anklet. Guaranteed to get attention of men in the know.

81. Have a friend spank your hubby. I have a friend who is a bit kinky and knows about our lifestyle. She felt my hubby needed punishment for flirting with a mutual friend years ago. I brought a guy home on girls night and she spanked my hubby, with my lovers belt, as I was getting fucked by my lover. I came out with the belt and handed it to her. After a while I came out with my soaking wet panties for him to wear and she sparked him. Of course you need a friend you can trust for this one.

Your wife had lost all interest in the hotwife lifestyle after a few encounters. Men seemed to always dissappoint her. She wanted to be a slut, but men just weren’t the right type to bring it out of her.

A young black man just got hired and now works under her. He is young, manly, and according to her co-workers, has a big dick. Now your wife wants to experiment again. She wants to try being a hotwife again. She dresses sexier and is flirtier now.

Her young black employee is loving all the attentiom from your wife today and is flirting right back. As she had to go upstairs, he stood below the stairs and told her he was going to be staring at her ass as she went up. This drove your wife wild. A man bold enough to talk to her like a slut. She walked up slowly to let him enjoy the view, then challenged him to stand there and stareat her ass, or go up with her to fuck it.