until you’ve experienced an impulse control disorder or obsessive compulsive disorder firsthand you do not get to speak a single word about how dermatillomaniacs and trichotillomaniacs should handle their illnesses because news-fucking-flash yes we HAVE tried “just not doing that” so just get out okay thanks

if you wanna be my lover you gotta recognize that I am severely mentally ill and my personality has been damaged by years of abuse and I’m not so easy to love!

I tell people I’m fine but then I secretly get angry when they don’t figure out that I’m lying and that of course I’m not fine. It’s stupid of me but I just want to see who cares enough about me to know when I need their help without asking for it.