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To you who is being loved by a girl with a good heart,

You always wonder why she’s so sensitive, why she is so caring and why she’s so willing to give you so much of herself without expecting anything from you.

To you who don’t work hard for the attention she gives you and just accept the love you think you are entitled to while she accepts the love she think she has earned,

You wonder how she accepts the apologies you don’t mean, why she forgives the mistakes you intentionally do to hurt her and how she forgets the misery you never stop bringing.

You have been loved by a girl who doesn’t just see you as a man, but a man whom she has prayed earnestly.

She has been making excuses for you when you hurt her. She has been looking past how cruel of a person you truly are because she belives that you will change that is why she’s been ignoring the idea of leaving you because she’s just not the kind of girl to give up on you —she’s not the girl who gives up on people easily. She’s the girl who is too stubborn to fight for a spot in someone else’s life even tho she forgets her self-worth.

She just has a good heart that enables her to see the good in someone and not let the imperfections determine whether or not you’re good enough for her. She firmly belives that you have a good heart and you’re capable of meeting every expectation she has because she would do the same for you —without question.

But let this sink in,

Here’s what you should be afraid of.

You should be afraid of the day a good heart gives up on you. You will be able to lose something valuable and it’ll be a little too late for regrets.

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Ernest Hemingway, A Moveable Feast

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One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.

Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters – whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.

You can tell yourself you won’t take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that.

But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister.

Everyone is finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you paralyzed. .

Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away (however painful it may be!).

Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts – and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.

Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them.

Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose.

Move.

Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood.

Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.

Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the “ideal moment.”

Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.

Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person – a habit is not a need.

This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life.

Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.

Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.