sh*ith hate blog

a shaladin made a fake anti account to stalk an anti, befriended antis and minors and pretended to be one of us, and when they got caught they played the victim, accused antis of doxxing them, and then other shaladins who had zero involvement began spreading misinformation without ANY proof, sending the shaladin community into a panic fearing for their safety, when originally it was the antis who were fearing for OUR safety and OUR safe spaces being invaded by shaladins. and the worst thing is if an anti had made a fake account pretending to be a shaladin, you KNOW shaladins would be furious. but they’re all silent on this.

bipolarmenace:

bipolarmenace:

so i’ve been fighting against billdip for a little under a year now 

and i’ve started to shift the focus from being strictly about billdip, and more about how communities like it are harmful to survivors and vulnerable children

here’s a masterpost of posts i’ve made, reblogged, and found concerning mostly billdip 

but also the overarching theme of pedophile, abuse, and rape apologism in fandoms

first and foremost: dispelling rumors about me

a general masterpost made by downwithhirsch that covers most things

a general masterpost made by me a while back that also covers most things

study about the effects of loli/shotacon (pedophillic fetishization) 

wiki article with multiple studies about the effects of child pornography and how it leads to abuse (with my own commentary)

how internet culture has created a false idea that the online world is a seperate reality

how fiction is not as disconnected from reality as you think 

addition: a collection of survivor stories about how fiction has directly impacted or caused their abuse

giant collection of receipts from pacificanrothwest showing the general terribleness of the billdip fandom 

(including reciepts on people who willingly admit to enjoying underage rape fic/art, and on elentori)

proof that there is, in fact, pedophillic content being consumed by the billdip fandom

why aging up is a bullshit argument and is eeriley similar to typical predatory pedophillic actions

how romanticization of abuse contributes to abuse culture

why the distinction between “romantic” and “sexual” shipping doesn’t matter

why survivors need to be mindful of how their coping effects others

for added bonuses:

why fandom artists like elentori generally fucking suck 

(see also reciepts collected on pacificanrothwest‘s post that was listed above)

i’ll probably add more to this as i make more posts or get more info, and please feel free to add your own thoughts/resources/links to this if you feel like something wasn’t covered or wasn’t explained well enough

updates:

“if i can’t draw aged up porn of kids then how come people can draw porn of adults, they were children once too”

more on why the “aging up” argument is bullshit

things you can do to help/contribute

update:

real good breakdown on abusive ships in general

why “just blacklist/ignore it” is not a good argument

why “go fight real pedophiles” is not a good argument

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I also wonder if they use that same tired line to defend racism, misogyny, homophobia, ableism, anti-semitism, etc. in the media—like, say, writing Captain America as a nazi, or the use of racist caricatures in film (coughs at sausage party and ridiculous six, among countless others), or casting white actors in roles for poc, or glamorizing smoking in movies—or if they just use that line when it’s convenient for them.

And then they have the audacity to say “I would never condone it in real life” when everything they say is a contradiction of that.

Saying that a character looks mature enough, that a relationship looks healthy and loving so how could it possibly be abusive, that x is good and would never take advantage of y, that y wants it too so it’s fine, and all of these bullshit excuses in an attempt to adamantly defend their ship—all of this normalizes the idea that these relationships are okay in real life. All of these are things people say in real life to excuse pedophilia.

And when minors and abuse survivors actually come out and speak out against a ship, and talk about how that ship affects them in real life, shippers ignore them—or even attack them—all because hey, it’s just fiction!