idk why wearing someone else’s shirt or sweater or jacket is so satisfying and comforting but it is

I know you’re tired bitch but keep fucking going

“Biggest lesson I learned this year: Do not give up so much of yourself to people who will not do the same for you”

I’m looking forward to a very selfish year. a year of focusing solely on my peace and happiness. a year of getting to know myself better. no more compromising. no more people pleasing. this new year is about me and me only.

My home will be a home with no loud anger, no explosive rage, no slamming doors or breaking glass, no name calling, shaming or blackmail. My home will be gentle, it will be warm. It will keep my loved ones safe. No fear, no hurt and no worries. I may come from a broken and twisted place but I will build something whole and safe. I’ll sing in the shower again, cook with a smile and dance in all the rooms. I will heal.

trust in the transformation you are about to go through

I’m worth so much more than the ways I’ve been treated

my toxic trait : i hurt in silence and pray that someone loves me enough to notice i’m not being myself

It is so fucking exhausting fighting your brain every day dude