Era of Existing

let me say that again.

the problem with rural conservatives isn’t that they’re backwards & poor, it’s that the only people coming to them and addressing their concerns are fascists.

let’s say that one last time.

Practice humanitarian work by donating your time to prepare meals for the less fortunate and hands to send notes to assisted living homes.

Smile at children. Smiles, no matter how they look, are unforgettable.

Tend to a garden. Giving back to the Earth always benefits us by receiving fruit back, fresher air and a beautiful bloom for a pick-me-up.

Gossip about people in a positive way. Give praise unexpectedly instead of private information whenever you talk about someone behind their back to put a spin on the conversation.

For every insult you receive, give yourself 2 compliments back.

Leave a nice first impression. Smile, smell good and be warm when in conversation.

Take pictures of nature, yourself and what you enjoy. We gain enjoyment from looking back at what has happened because no outside forces can change an event that’s frozen in time.

Give appreciation for tasks others do for you, whether it’s their job or not. Adding “so much” after thank you, maintaining eye contact and being gentle receiving something can leave lasting impressions on others.

Allow others to save face. If someone is having a bad day and people are piling on them, allow them to save face by giving them a chance to get through their day without reproach from you, because what others don’t do is more noticeable than you think.

Allow yourself to be helped and don’t be afraid to help. We sometimes feel bad asking for help for the fear of seeming weak or stupid when the person waiting for you to ask is glad that you finally did. Lastly, the worst word someone can say to you if you think they need help is “no”.

every time you compare yourself to another person you lose your power and give it to others.

be aware of your own value

the value you give to others, give to yourself multiplied!

if there is something you don't like about yourself try to change it from compassion and self-love, don't judge yourself for it, we all have the ability to change

recognize that comparing yourself with other people is something negative and prevents you from growing and evolving

you are the main character of your life, no one else, that's why it doesn't matter if you "believe" that someone else is more handsome or smarter than you, it's not, it's you, because it's your life, think about this every time you compare yourself

recognize when these thoughts come to your mind and focus in turn on something positive, something good about your day or something you like about yourself

don't compare chapter 20 of a person with chapter 3 of your life

focus on learning and not comparing yourself

turn comparison into admiration

be aware of the damage you are doing to yourself when you do this

write down everything you like about yourself and everything you would like to have or be

practice self-love every day, treat yourself with love

focus on you and your growth not on what others do

focus on what you like about yourself and not on what you don't-

recognize that you are the main character of your life, the life you are living right now is only lived by you so it doesn't matter how other people are or how they live their life, it doesn't hurt you, focus on you and your growth, you are unique and valuable you don't have to be like anyone else

some ways to practice self-love ( i will write another post on this)

forgive yourself

take care of your physical and mental health

avoid toxic people

connect to your feminine energy and make rest a priority when you need it

use positive affirmations every day

talk to yourself and treat yourself with love

do things that make you proud of you

I can imagine a scenario where he was wronged by an Accordion in some way