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Divorce seems to radicalize american men in a way that needs to be studied

A divorced american man will join a right wing terror group because he didnt get custody of the kids he didnt take care of at all

An american man will have an affair with a colleague, get caught, get divorced, and join isis

im sorry but you Have to put in effort for your friends. i know we're all damaged trans women who are used to "if i ask for help i will not get it; if i take up space i will be discarded." but we CANNOT treat eachother like that! you deserve more than "oh teehee you can reach out to me 2 years later and ill still consider us friends dont worry!" you deserve standards holy shit

like i understand depressive episodes, i understand having difficulty reaching out, i understand having months where you're just not able to hold conversation, but you realise that's all of us, right? you realise that we all need each other, right? im not saying abandon and cut off anyone who fails to respond within the hour, but you're allowed to say "hey yeah that kinda hurt, please don't build up some expectation that i'm going to hate you for not responding to the point where you leave me isolated too."

this is one of those things you especially need to take into account for when it comes to disability & geography too. some people can’t just take public transport to meet you at the local cheesemonger. people are in places where if you don’t have a car, you die & are stuck in living situations where they go for months to years without access to human contact. it’s a glacial amount of time, it completely deprives you of all your senses to the point of suicidal ideation as without connection to others you lose all connection to yourself. if you’re already socially deprived from mental illness then your rural friends are experiencing it fivefold & your homebound friends tenfold. make the effort for once & go visit your friends.

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