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Genuinely curious. How can I am not ready for a relationship, but having someone press for a relationship be his fault?

I love knowing that no matter how much anyone may hate me, NO ONE can say that I am their enemy because any hate directed towards me is NEVER reciprocated!

I hate being asked why I’m single. When women are single I feel like people automatically assume it isn’t by choice or it is simply because she hasn’t “earned” a man’s attention yet. Wrong and wrong. I am single because I choose to be. Point blank period. I’ve had many men try to be with me but I did not want to be with them. Not because I’m “too picky” and not because I am opposed to a relationship but because I do not have to accept every offer that is made to me. I decided a while ago never to be anywhere I didn’t want to be. Plain and simple. If I am not interested, I no longer pretend to be. If I am turned off by you, I no longer force myself to pretend I’m not. I wasted so many years forcing myself to TRY to want men. Out of guilt. Ignorance. Immaturity. Inexperience. Apathy. I could go on and on. THAT is why I am single. I haven’t met anyone I truly want to be with. I know as women sometimes we are taught to accept any offer of love or affection that is thrown at us but we don’t need to. We don’t inherently owe men anything. Especially not just because they desire us. No more of that apprehensive “oh I guess I’ll give him a shot....” (1 month later) “never mind” cycle for me. If I am not genuinely interested then I am not proceeding. My energy and effort are too valuable.

Every single male who has ever been dumped for not acting right: I can’t believe this. I am hurt. I am shocked and I am hurt. I can’t believe that evil bitch would do this to me