Doms and subs in their 30s, 40s & beyond, call to represent!
Recently I reblogged and commented on an Ask that @theruleset answered in which an Anon worried that she ‘missed her chance’ to explore the kink scene because she might have grown too old.
She’s 25.
The reblogs continued, and those in the community who aren’t right out of their teens (nor looking for a partner who is) weighed in with such great feedback! It felt awesome to go through the replies, and to follow their blogs, and to feel something akin to actual representation and visibility on a website and its kink subculture that is overwhelmingly tilted toward the (sometimes uncomfortably, depending on what’s depicted) very young. Especially when it comes to the women in it.
Got nothing but love for those younger (but legal, of course) in kink, too, and you all deserve an amazing journey as much as any of us, but this particular post is for 30 and up, soooooo:
Please like and reblog this if you’re a Dominant, submissive, or kinkster in your 30s, 40s or older so we can find and support each other, and most of all, increase our visibility on tumblr. :)
(And if you just want to support this post, please feel free to like and reblog, too!)
47, the longer you do it, the better it gets!
25 and grown too old to enjoy the scene? Are you fucking kidding me? Grow up, you silly little girl. I’m 51 and trust me, it’s all about what you make it; age has nothing to do with it.
I seriously continue to adore where this thread touches and leads. :)
I will always reblog this. 25? Sweet Jesus. From the perspective of 62, I look back at myself at 25 and realize I was an onchoate, half-formed baby Dom, just getting started. Not to put too fine a point on it, I was a mess.
Joining the >30 club
i’m reblogging it again too, because i never in a million years imagined it would have 9K and a half notes. but that’s so awesome. :)
Just starting at 49. Ready for a life time of membership to this incredible club!
We are in our mid fifties. Our children are older than you!
I’m rotary phone old… LOL
I predate the internet and am rotary phone old…I am also too tired right now to find a gif for that.
I never expected this little post i wrote off-the-cuff in my kitchen on mobile when i was making, like, tacos or something in tampa, would have taken off this much, but it makes me really happy that it did. : )
Let’s just say that I was an active dominant back before vinyl was cool. Oh, and we didn’t call it vinyl…we called it music. 😂🤣 So much better at 52 than at half my age…in every respect.
66 and loving it!
35! I didn’t even fully discover my little/sub side till after I was 25
54 abdominal been in the lifestyle 32 years. No age is too old to begin.
