always win

absolutely criminal how falling into bad habits is the easiest thing in the world while developing positive habits feels like fighting a literal war

Yeah she has pretty eyes, but imagine those eyes looking up at you while she’s on her knees.

It isn't fair to get upset with people for not providing what you need when you haven't actually communicated your needs.

something that has genuinely really helped me through periods of mental ill health is doing the exact opposite of what my anxious/depressed brain is telling me to do. if it's telling me to isolate from others i will reach out to three friends and ask to catch up for coffee. if it's telling me to stay in bed all day i will put my shoes on and go for a walk. if it's telling me to order takeout i will buy fresh produce instead and cook something. it won't work for everybody but it's changed everything for me

listen if you think someone is cool and you dig their energy you just have to tell them, because that’s the kind of stuff you remember a thousand times longer than somebody complimenting your hair or whatever. tonight I told a girl from my theory class that I like her analytical approach and she bounced back at me saying she digs my feminine energy and how she gets the vibe that, to my core, I exist to uplift women and I damn near cried. tell people what resonates about them. be real. help each other feel seen.

Choose men not boys

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