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Swingers: Typically a couple in which both partners are allowed to engage in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, often referred to as “full swap.”

Hotwife:  A wife who has her husband’s permission to engage in sexual activities with other men. Also the term used to describe the fantasy with the same scenario. In this relationship all extra marital activities are approved of by the husband. Trust, respect, and the couple’s love for each other are central to the relationship.

Cuckold: A man in a relationship with a woman who engages in sexual activities with other men and women outside of their relationship, usually with a level of cheating and or humiliation. -Cuckolding

Cuckoldress: The female half of a cuckold relationship. A woman who engages in sex with men other than her husband, usually imposing a level humiliation on her husband about her extra marital activities.

Vixen: One term used to describe a woman in a Hotwife relationship.

Stag: One term used to describe a strong male figure in a Hotwife relationship.

Cucky: A humiliating term used to describe a man in a cuckold relationship.

Bull: The name often given to a wife’s repeat lover in a hotwife or cuckold arrangement

Reclaim: A term used to describe the passionate sex couples often experience the first time they have sex after one of them has has sex with someone outside of their relationship.

Hall Pass: Often used to describe a onetime “free pass” given to one of the members in a relationship to enjoy one sexual encounter with a person outside of the relationship.

Half Open Marriage: Used to describe a relationship in which one member of the relationship has the other‘s permission to enjoy complete sexual freedom, while the one remains completely faithful.

Shared Wife: A wife whose husband “shares” her sexually with other men.

MFM: A three some involving two men and one woman. In this arrangement the men are straight and focus on the woman.

MMF: A three some involving two men and one woman in which the men are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the woman.

FMF: A three some involving two women and one man. In this arrangement the women are straight and focus on the man.

FFM: A three some involving two women and one man in which the women are bi-sexual and engage in sexual activities with each other as well as the man.

Humiliation: A sexual kink which usually involves the woman verbally abusing the man about his inadequacies and inability to satisfy her, most often because of his penis size or his lack of stamina.  

Tease and Denial: One partner sexually teases and leads the other on, only to get them excited and then deny them sexual gratification.

Edging: Binging a person right to the edge of orgasm and then slowing or stopping sexual activities thus denying them the pleasure of orgasm.

Ruined Orgasm: Bringing a person right to the point of orgasm, and then stopping resulting in a weak orgasm. This is usually achieved through the use of oral sex or masturbation.

SPH: Small Penis Humiliation, verbal abuse used to humiliate a man about his lack of length and or girth.

Male Chastity: A kink in which the man is most often secured in a chastity device, referred to as a cock cage, and is denied the pleasures of sexual intercourse as well as masturbation.  Couples who engage in this kink often try to push the boundaries of how long the man can go without sexual release. This fetish often includes a level of humiliation as well.

Cock Cage: A metal or plastic device which locks to secure the penis. It is used impede the man’s ability to masturbate as well as achieve a full erection without being release by his key holder.

Key Holder: Most often the wife of a man confined to a cock cage. The key holder has full authority over the man’s ability to and the frequency of orgasms allowed. Often the key holder will use time in the cock cage as a punishment for her dissatisfaction with something the man has said or done.

Pegging: Used to describe a fetish in which the female uses a sex toy or strap on to perform anal sex on her male partner.

Wife Breeding: A fetish in which the wife is involved in unprotected sex with men other than her husband. The men ejaculate in the wife, thus presenting the possibility of pregnancy by men other than the husband.

Clean Up: An activity in which the man cleans up a woman after she has had sex with another man. Most often this is done after a lover has ejaculated into the woman’s vagina and the woman’s partner performs oral sex on her licking up as much of the other man’s sperm as possible.

Sloppy Seconds: A term used to describe the act of having sex with a woman after she has already had sex with another man. Most often after the first man has ejaculated inside of the woman’s vagina creating a “sloppy” situation for the second man.

Size Queen: A woman who prefers man with very large penises. Often with minimum size requirements which must be met before she will engage in sexual intercourse with a man.

BBC: Big Black Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a black man.

BWC: Big White Cock, used to describe the oversized penis of a white man.

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

1. What was your first time having sex like?

2. Are you into BDSM?

3. Do you watch porn, and if so what kind?

4. What’s the weirdest porn you’ve watched?

5. Have you ever watched porn with another person?

6. Do you prefer professional or amateur porn?

7. Add a link to your favorite porn video.

8. What was your first experience with masturbation like?

9. How often do you masturbate?

10. What’s your favorite way to masturbate?

11. Have you ever had shower sex?

12. Have you ever had period sex?

13. Have you ever had sex in someone else’s bed that didn’t belong to anyone involved? (Not including shared spaces like hotels, Airbnb, etc.)

14. Have you ever had sex in a public place?

15. What’s the weirdest place you’ve had sex?

16. What’s your most embarrassing sex story?

17. Have you ever been caught masturbating or having sex?

18. Do you have any sex toys?

19. What is your favorite sex toy?

20. Are there any sex toys that you really want to try?

21. Have you ever tried anal, and if so do you enjoy it?

22. Have you ever used a sex swing?

23. Have you ever had sex standing up?

24. Have you ever recorded yourself having sex or masturbating?

25. Have you ever taken a nude and sent it to someone?

26. Write out a real or made up sexting conversation. (At least 4 lines)

27. What was your first time giving oral like?

28. What was your first time receiving oral like?

29. Do you like giving oral?

30. Do you like receiving oral?

31. Do you prefer clitoral stimulation, penetration, or both?

32. Do you enjoy penetration?

33. Have you ever masturbated in front of another person?

34. Have you ever masturbated with another person?

35. Have you ever masturbated in a public place?

36. Do you enjoy voyeurism? (Being watched or watching other people)

37. Does cross-dressing turn you on?

38. Do you have any kinks that you’re embarrassed about?

39. Have you ever had a sex dream or wet dream? If so, pick one and describe in detail what it was about.

40. Have you ever cheated? If so, do you regret it?

41. Are you into cuckolding?

42. How many orgasms do you typically have in one session?

43. Do you enjoy edging?

44. Have you ever had a ruined orgasm? Was it intentional?

45. What’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

46. When was the last time you masturbated? Describe what you did in detail.

47. Have you ever gotten injured during sex? If so, what happened?

48. Have you ever contracted any STIs?

49. Have you ever had unprotected sex and accidentally gotten pregnant?

50. Do you prefer to have sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?

51. Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night to have sex or masturbate?

52. How often do you wake up horny?

53. Have you ever had sex with a complete stranger without knowing anything about them?

54. Have you ever done anything sexual while driving?

55. What is your favorite thing about quickies?

56. Have you ever had a sex dream about someone unexpected and freaked out about it? If so, who was it?

57. Have you ever fantasized about having sex with one of your teachers?

58. Do you usually have sex with your eyes open or closed?

59. Have you ever had a threesome? Do you want to?

60. Have you ever had group sex? Do you want to?

61. Have you ever masturbated with a group of people?

62. Do you enjoy dirty talk? If so, give an example of something you would say or would want to hear.

63. Have you ever given a blow job to someone who was wearing a toy?

64. Have you ever had someone give you a blow job while wearing a toy?

65. If you had to choose, would you rather be a dom or a sub?

66. Have you ever done anything sexual with an animal?

67. What is your favorite sex position(s)?

68. What is the weirdest object you’ve masturbated with/humped?

69. What’s the worst place you’ve ever gotten an erection? (Bonus: What’s your most embarrassing story of getting an erection?)

70. Have you ever been so wet that you soaked through your clothes?

71. Do you get really wet, an average amount, or not wet enough?

72. Have you ever had trouble getting it up?

73. Have you ever squirted or made someone squirt?

74. What’s the naughtiest fantasy you’ve ever had about a stranger?

75. Have you ever been so horny in an inappropriate place that you’ve had to excuse yourself?

76. How many fingers do you prefer inside you?

77. Are you loud or quiet?

78. Do you like it rough or gentle?

79. Do you enjoy being on top or bottom?

80. Have you ever dry humped someone while being fully clothed until you had an orgasm?

81. Have you ever had sex while drunk or high?

82. Do you have a specific playlist for sex?

83. Have you ever role played? If so, tell the story.

84. Have you ever kept going even when you were too sensitive?

85. Would you rather have your hair pulled or be spanked during sex?

86. Would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded?

87. Would you rather cheat or be cheated on?

88. Would you rather get caught masturbating by your parent/guardian or your crush?

89. Would you rather have an obvious orgasm every time you meet someone new or never have an orgasm again?

90. Have you ever had sex with someone who couldn’t satisfy you?

91. What’s something you’ve always wanted to ask about sex but was too afraid to ask?

92. Describe what you would do sexually if you had different genitals for a day.

93. How many dates do you typically need to go on until you feel ready to have sex with someone?

94. In your opinion, what makes someone good in bed?

95. What’s the most flattering thing someone has said about your naked body?

96. Do genital piercings turn you on?

97. How long was the longest orgasm you’ve ever had?

98. What’s the most sensitive part of your body?

99. Is there anything you won’t do in bed?

100. Ask any question you want!