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I’m lost on what to do about that app WHATNOT, for four months my hubby has been on there for cards ! We have financially gone down and our relationship? Forget about it. Our kids don’t get any attention and we all feel like we talk to a wall. When he does come to, I am a bitchy nagger who just complains. Like what? I’m seriously afraid of losing our house and stuff too, he keeps betting on those damn football cards! What is this? Midlife crisis? I went blind in one eye last year also lost my mom and he hasn’t cared about that at all it seems . I have to hold the fort down while he sits in the bathroom on that app! It’s worse then porn I think , it’s taking everything from him. From us . How can I stop this from continuing? I’ve tried being the nice one thru all this which definitely isn’t my normal approach lol but I have tried to be understanding but now it’s going too far. We been married over 20 years since we were 19 and 17 and have 5 kids. Anyone know about that #whatnot ? Am I just over reacting? I feel like it’s the devil ruining lives. It’s worse then Ashley Madison. SMH