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TL;DR - discourse stresses me out and i might delete this blog (its a sideblog) but make one for positivity

i’ll always be a tucute, and i’ll always be 110% of this community, but the discourse stresses me out. a lot. my name has been dragged through the dirt just because i support someone who wants shitty people to die- it’s a perfectly reasonable thing. i just.. really can’t handle the tumblr discourse community much anymore.

this account will be up until i figure out what i’m doing, and if i make a similar account solely for positivity.

edit: i might include the occasional aesthetic too, since i want it to feel like a safe space!! like..a home!

If you’re “neutral” on ace/aro discourse, you’re on the side of ace/aro exclusionists.

If you’re “neutral” on trans and nonbinary discourse, you’re on the side of transmeds/truscum, TERFs, and other trans-exclusionary people.

If you’re “neutral” on pan discourse, you’re on the side of pan exclusionists.

If you’re “neutral” on queer discourse, you’re on the side of queer exclusionists.

If you’re “neutral” on any discourse about whether or not a gender identity, sexual orientation, or romantic orientation is real, valid, and part of the LGBTQ+ community, you’re on the side of the oppressor.

You either believe these identities are part of this community, which, historically-speaking, they are, or you don’t.

You can think and say discourse on these identities is “stupid” or “pointless” or whatever else all you want, but to the people who consistently have their identities debated, it’s not stupid. It’s not pointless. It matters to them, and it matters to those who support them. Thinking and saying stuff like that only further invalidates those people, tears them down and hurts them, and creates an even bigger divide in this community, in their community, in our community!!

It’s Pride Month! This is our time to celebrate our identities, to be proud of who we are as members of the LGBTQ+ community!! This is not the time to alienate and invalidate your fellow community members. By doing so, you’re blatantly denying queer history, our history. So please, keep your gatekeeping to yourself. Let us be proud of who we are! Our queer elders fought for our rights to be treated equally, to be seen, to be recognized, to be accepted, to be validated. They didn’t fight for y'all to go around hurting other members of this community because you refuse to accept them for their LGBTQ+ identities. By doing this, you’re basically slapping our queer elders in the face, and for that, you should be ashamed.

Hell, you can be absolutely right, and in a year she’s gonna laugh and say ‘haha I thought I liked men, can you believe it?’ And you can still keep your damn mouth shut

Let every girl explore and discover her identity at her own pace in her own way.

Let every girl choose the labels that make her the happiest and most comfortable

I id'ed as pan ace for half a year before I started seeing myself as a lesbian. And honestly, had someone tried to chew me out for that or called it a phase I would’ve been crushed.

I can only imagine how much worse it feels for actual bi and pan girls

Let bi girls be bi girls and let girls-who-you’re-pretty-sure-are-not-actually-bi be bi girls because that’s their label to pick.

ive seen a lot of people rb these posts.

unfortunatley op is a lesbophobic freak who needs to be blocked. shouldnt have to explain why the post below is bad