mystery

I thought that being a kind person is enough.

Being good means getting good karma means your wishes will come true

But then I realized

What defines a kind person?

Someone who helps other people without wanting to get sth in return?

No. So much more.

To actually be yourself, to live, to breathe to not tippy toe through every topic

Obviously not everything might apply to you. I'm just writing based on my experiences :)

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Likes:

I. People who are:

- funny

- loyal

- chill

- smooth

- confident

- badass

- ambitious

- witty

- open minded

- good listeners

II. In general:

- night time or me time

- chilling at home

- cake

- deep conversations

- being distracted = not worrying or having anxiety

- music

- being understood

- acknowledgement for their accomplishments

- proving others wrong

- being confident

- slaying

Dislikes:

I. People who:

- don’t let them finish their sentence

- lie

- ask too many questions

- act like victims

- think whatever they do is the right way

- rush/boss them around

- betray/are disloyal/cheat

- jump to conclusions/ assume things

- have moodswings/ a bad temper

- are narrow minded

- put others down/ embarass people

- try to restrict them from doing sth

- are two faced

II. In general:

- being interrupted

- uncertainty

- asking others for help

- noisiness

- being helpless

- crying infront of others

- being misunderstood

- not being able to accomplish their goals

- mOsQuiTos

- way too crowded places

- getting lost/ feeling lost

- not getting answers right away

- getting forced to do stuff they don’t want to do

How to creep your way into a scorpio’s heart:

- just make them laugh and be friendly

- don’t tell them things you don’t mean.

Be sincere and don’t lie

- tell them how much you appreciate them

- be there if they need you, let them speak.

- listen before you assume or interrupt

- deep talk

- honestly just the little things like remembering facts about them, texting them back, helping them carry things

-just show them that you’re there for them.

You fuck up if you…

…don’t keep their secrets

…insult them

…make fun of them infront of people

…don’t take them serious

…spread lies

…are rude for no reason

…are too moody and pessimistic

…take but don’t give

…annoy them when they are tired

…ask for advice but end up not listening to it

aries - “You don’t have to listen to anyone. Just go and experience it on your own.”

taurus - “You’re not picky. If you don’t like something, then you don’t, it’s that simple.”

gemini - “Your parents knew from the day you were born that they had to invest in you, so don’t feel guilty.”

cancer - “Just do it. It won’t hurt to try.”

leo - “Stay cool and take fate into your own hands.”

virgo - “Slay gurl, slaaaay the shit out of them.”

libra - “Don’t ever only depend on people. Work hard and become independent.”

scorpio - “All the mistakes you made, every failure you experienced, make you to the strong person you are today.”

sagittarius - “Everything happened for a reason, and i’m sure that you will find what you’re looking for in the future.”

capricorn - “Don’t ever tell yourself that the person you like is out of your league. You have the same chance everyone else has.”

aquarius - “ Boys are dumb. I’m a boy and I don’t get them myself.”

× wanting to know someone’s zodiac sign after you met them, but not wanting to come off as a creep

× hoping that your new friend’s zodiac sign (or crush, whatever) will match with yours, and if it does… YESSSSSSS

× waiting for someone to do something stupid and blaming it on their zodiac sign × hearing the sentence “ AsTrolOgY iS bUllsHit, WhY dO yOu BeliEve iN tHAt?” all the time - sighhhh

× trying to guess someone’s zodiac sign, and if you’re right- “I KNEW IT!!!!”

× trying to convince people that astrology is real by telling them their traits and actually getting a “OMG THATS SO TRUE WTF?” reaction

× lowkey hating that one zodiac sign you had several bad experiences with

× kind of studied the astrology chart, knowing all 12 zodiac sign’s birth month ( “ohhh her birthday is in november? Scorpio/sagittarius it is..”)

× being able to read people well

× helping friends out when it comes to dating by looking at their sign’s compatibility

× laughing at dumb astrology memes

× being kind of paranoid? I guess

× not being able to shut up, once the topic is astrology (…which you probably started)

× CHECKING EVERYONE’S ZODIAC SIGN IN ASTROLOGY POSTS

aries - how you always know what to say

taurus - how you easily lighten the mood

gemini - how experimental you are

cancer - how artistic you are

leo - how you give people warmth

virgo - how you´re able to analyze the situation and find a solution

libra - how you take care of people like you´re the mom of the group

scorpio - how you´re able to emotionally understand people like no other

sagittarius - how you´re not afraid to speak your opinion

capricorn - how you give helpful, mature advice

aquarius - how energetic and positive you are