Also Deb:

Even if their relationship is intense, even if they love each other very deeply, even if they are life partners, maybe in this case they chose not to fuck. Let them have that choice. Especially during Pride let them have this nevertheless queer relationship that isn't sexual but is still meaningful and beautiful and in many ways romantic. That brings them joy and creativity. That makes them feel alive, empowered and less alone. That is still women intimately supporting women in an industry that crushes women. That makes them beat those odds. It's beyond the sex. Don't you understand that?

It's so rare to find a fully life affirming relationship and you're crushed because there's no confirmed scissoring in the script?

Maybe the network influenced this and maybe they didn't. Maybe that wasn't the focus of the story because guess what? It's still a queer story. It's just not a lesbian story. And I know that hurts because we've gotten burned so many times. And it's been a hard road to feeling like we can be sexually proud. Trust me, I've been there. I'm just not sure this is the show we need to be mad at when it has been so bountiful around queer people finding each other and saving each other's lives! I see this most clearly when I watch the table reads and listen to the interviews and see the cast and crew and writers look at each other with deep love in their eyes.

Rest in Peace, Tony.

I'll always remember your smile.