Hi! I'm going on a temporary hiatus from tumblr.
My abuser has had my tumblr url since I was like sixteen and recently it's started to really bother me because it's the only connection to me or form of communication with me they have left. I am totally okay and safe, but I want to take time to think about my options and how I want to proceed on social media moving forward to ensure my safety and a complete disconnect from them. The blog will still be active because I have 900+ things left in my queue, but I'm not going to be checking messages or notifications for the foreseeable future.
Hi,
Just because it's been a hot second I wanted to give a little update -- I am completely safe, but the situation surrounding my abuser that prompted me to make this post ended up being much more serious than I thought it was. As a result, I'm refraining from using any social media I cannot make private/control for the foreseeable future. Again, I'm totally fine, this has been a longterm problem that has already been dealt with legally, I just need to focus on cutting any remaining access this person has to me.
If we've spoken in the past or are mutuals, feel free to reach out for contact information or whatever!! I won't be deleting this blog, but am not sure when I will feel comfortable returning to it.
