Why are people so mean about people who get winded easily or arent athletic??? Im asthmatic and literally cannot do intense exercises without hacking and wheezing. And i hate sweating

Im so self conscious of this too bc gym culture is so popular, especially among women. Like im not enough of a woman bc im not skinny as hell and toned like all these girls online are, but im on the softer frailer side

Just to be clear here, if you are TME and you are fantasizing about being TMA because we're "so transgressive", stop that line of thought. TMA folks die for those transgressions, and even those of us who don't die of it are punished to the point of extreme trauma for it. You can fantasize about it because you can, from outside, view the benefits of transgression without experiencing the negative consequences of it. It is EXTREMELY offensive to be painted as "so lucky" for something which has left me afraid to exist freely. It's like if you saw me complaining about my disability and said "Wow, you're so lucky that you have a disability, I'd love for people to fawn over me!", not only are you ignoring the massive negatives, but you're assuming a positive that doesnt really exist. So fuck off

"i just don't like masculine women" literally i'm so sorry for you loss. i hope you get well soon