Imagination is the key

Come and kiss me and let’s forget.

I have noticed that when all the lights are on, people tend to talk about what they are doing – their outer lives. Sitting round in candlelight or firelight, people start to talk about how they are feeling – their inner lives. They speak subjectively, they argue less, there are longer pauses. To sit alone without any electric light is curiously creative. I have my best ideas at dawn or at nightfall, but not if I switch on the lights – then I start thinking about projects, deadlines, demands, and the shadows and shapes of the house become objects, not suggestions, things that need to done, not a background to thought.

Sorry if bothering, i'm just interested in your opinion on this. I'm not the type of person who would use makeup or big fan of dresses either but i started to have feeling of inadequacy around women who look like they have some part of their femininity that i lack and i'm the one who's undeveloped. How do you think i can work on myself to change that?

Memory / is another name for ghosts and their awful hunger.

If you are willing to look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period of time cease to react at all.