"historically people had servants" incorrect. historically people WERE servants, and many of us still are.
I'd rather be in outer space 🛸

oozey mess


PR's Tumblrdome

⁂
Xuebing Du
h
ojovivo

@theartofmadeline
trying on a metaphor
Cosimo Galluzzi
🪼

YOU ARE THE REASON

shark vs the universe
tumblr dot com
Sade Olutola
d e v o n

#extradirty
Noah Kahan
seen from Mexico
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from United States

seen from United States

seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United Kingdom

seen from United States
seen from Poland
seen from United States
seen from Spain
@sadiepickles
"historically people had servants" incorrect. historically people WERE servants, and many of us still are.

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
kind of weird how parts of your soul are left in various locations without any warning… like yes i’m always at the top of that hill, sitting at the bus stop, in the cool light of the Japanese restaurant, standing at the pier etc etc
dont talk to me or my clone or my shadow self or my reflection or my me ever again
when I was gorgeous, I would avoid eye contact with men everywhere because I was afraid of inviting attention and violence. now that I am 100lbs over gorgeous, I want to assert dominance by holding the eye contact with men and watch their penises shrivel up like cucumbers left on the vine to rot
hate how when people talk about awful labor conditions at [insert industry or company here] people who have benefited from said company or industry's services feel the need to justify themselves so badly and will try to come up with progressive reasoning for it as well
is it really so hard to admit we live in a world where benefiting from the mistreatment of others is a common scenario?

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
i saw this TikTok today where a girl said she was in outpatient group therapy for 5 hours a day and it started to dawn on her that she could either "change or perish" and she had no other choices. and in my old person veteran therapy mind was like yes girl you're doing it YES
Things people hate hearing:
You are capable of harm
You have some level of power and agency
Ergo it is your responsibility to communicate your needs and boundaries
If you lie to someone about something being okay when it isn't, that is on you
Something being a trauma response doesn't exempt it from harming your relationships and the other people in them
Enabling your trauma responses will not make them go away, and it is your responsibility to work on yourself for your own wellbeing as well as the people around you
Being A Victim cannot be a pillar of your identity forever, and being victimized does not make you incapable of harming other people (see above)
You are not a mouse in a jean jacket you are an eel with a gun / adult human being who can use your words even if it's Scary
Having a personality disorder doesn't make you evil but you have got to get off of Personality Disorder Tumblr (see above, re: enabling)
Deep sigh. You want me to ~be compassionate~ here's the compassionate answer: your trauma will tell you you're a helpless child forever and you need to Not Think This Way for yourself (living under the assumption you're still in danger whether you actually are or not) and everyone else who has to tiptoe around your Sensitivity. That's how you break the cycle and you can only do this by accepting responsibility for your actions. And it seems like a small semantic thing but imo step one is calling yourself a survivor instead of a victim. Self identifying with your victimhood helps No One. You lived, now get up
there is something very sad and humiliating about having to desperately beg doctors and family members to understand that involuntary institutionalization does not in fact help your mental health, knowing your perspective will always be dismissed at the end of the day
it's such an awful existence to be a psychiatric patient as a teenager, there has to be another way to help aggressively suicidal teenagers, such as addressing the circumstances that make them want to die so much in the first place! you can stop suicide by locking someone up, sure, but they will not want to live
it's awful that researchers are only now starting to take this perspective seriously, but there is a small but growing body of study supporting exactly what patients have been saying about psychiatric incarceration. one study in particular, from Allegheny county in Pennsylvania, offers a damning analysis of involuntary psychiatric commitments:
For individuals whose cases are judgment calls, where some physicians would hospitalize but others would not, we find that hospitalization nearly doubles both the probability of dying by suicide or overdose and also nearly doubles the probability of being charged with a violent crime in the three months after evaluation. We provide evidence of earnings and housing disruptions as potential mechanisms. Our results suggest that, on the margin, the system we study is not achieving the intended effects of the policy.
i think we live in a world without justice for the most part, and I think the ongiong lack of justice makes people very excited to cancel people. they are feverishly excited at exacting justice to the fullest extent of their ability, even if the situation doesn't remotely call for it.
it's natural for US senators to keep dying it's like a hobby for them

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
And on the topic of the ‘crazy ex girlfriend’, a man I know was in a long term relationship with a woman with severe bipolar disorder who was off and on meth and became abusive when she was using. He never called her his crazy ex. He never spoke about her like she was an inhuman piece of shit born simply to inconvenience him. He did not dehumanize her. He was candid about how she was a destructive force in his life and he realized he could not help or save her and that he had wasted years trying to get her out of a quagmire she didn’t want to escape from. I have never heard him refer to her as ‘crazy’ even once, though she suffered from severe bipolar disorder that she was self-medicating with methamphetamine and in turn suffered from meth psychosis.
I do understand that reactive abuse is a thing and victims react in many ways but that is the crux of the little alarm that goes off when that certain type of straight man starts talking about his ‘crazy ex girlfriend(s)’, he does not talk about a human who was flawed and hurt him, he is not speaking about a person who struggled with severe mental health issues, he is not talking about a person at all because women are not people to him. They are nebulous concepts, machinery that malfunctions and can be considered ‘crazy’ when it fails to do the things he wants and pushes back on his behavior. There is a difference between an abusive/unwell/toxic former girlfriend and a ‘crazy ex girlfriend’.
How about Other people start worrying about how I perceive them
can you imagine coming from two lines of excessively priveledged and educated people and still turning out mid? no wonder the rich kids in high school hated me, I was out performing them by every metric on a diet of household violence and buttered noodles
strange to think "private boarding school" is real & not invented for exploring relations between the wealthiest student and the student on scholarship

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
he doesn't have instagram and hasn't updated his facebook since 2019 so i've been beating it to some linkedin pics of him speaking at a conference
girl
Because i'm bipolar, I know that the worst parts of me are unloveable. I know that any version of acceptance I will receive is conditional on my med compliance. Tbh it takes a lot of the mystery and wonder out of being loved when you know that if you told everyone all of stories, they would recoil