Your Lilith sign is located by finding the furthest point that The Moon orbits from the Earth in your chart.
When The Moon is it’s farthest from the Earth, it’s gravitational pull is at it’s weakest; The Moon is still the same body, however, because of it’s distance, it loses some of it’s pull on Earth.
This is mystically aligned with the story of Lilith— The first wife of Adam, who, upon refusal to submit to him, is kicked out of the Garden of Eden.
Just as it’s up to the moon to be it’s own body, despite not having as much “control” over the Earth and the distance, it’s Lilith’s job to recognize that she can be her own person, despite not having as much “control” over Adam and her situation.
This journey to be their own being entails recognizing the power in being with themselves & sticking to their guns. To do that, they must ignite their shadow— Read below for your personal shadow work questions, based on houses and signs.
Shadow Work Questions for Lilith Placements:
**Disclaimer: Shadow Work can aid someone in recognizing and healing the wounded parts in themselves. Though this can create personal development, it can still be intense psychological work. Moderation and self-compassion are NECESSARY for this exercise.
How have you been told you should not stick up for yourself?
Have you put your instincts aside to do things the way others want you to do them? When?
When have you had the urge to take the lead, but questioned your ability to do so?
Your goal is to trust your ability to lead.
What areas of your life do you feel like you are not abundant in (Time, money, etc)?
Are you unable to be compassionate for your past self? And if so, what would you tell a close friend in your position (then practice saying it to yourself).
What steps can you take towards feeling less like you are in short supply?
Your goal is to trust yourself to take stability into your own hands.
Do you often hold yourself back from sharing your viewpoint?
How have you convinced yourself that you act socially?
Which conversations have you held yourself from out of fear of not being seen as intelligent?
Your goal is to trust yourself to spread your ideas outwardly.
Which relationships in your life make you feel insecure? Why?
How have you held yourself back from asking others for help?
How can you cultivate interdependent relationships?
Your goal is to trust yourself to pick the relationships best for you.
When have you felt uncomfortable being the center of attention and how did you react in that moment?
Do you feel uncomfortable expressing yourself creatively, or do you demean your creative thoughts into telling them they are not good enough?
Do you hold yourself back from engaging in creative play, romance, and drama?
Your goal is to express yourself without shame.
How have you felt discouraged from using your judgement and analytical skills?
How have you stopped yourself from helping others and being of service?
Have you neglected setting aside time to the practical side of life? (Organizing, cleaning, etc)
Your goal is to tap into your ability to take concrete action.
How have your relationships struggled to maintain balance? Have you compared the relationships of others to your own? What do you compare?
Have you struggled to express your empathy towards others?
Have you ever neglected your need for one on one balance, and chosen to be hyper independent?
Your goal is to allow yourself to love and create balance with another.
How have you struggled with letting yourself be intimate?
Have you neglected your Shadow Work and Occult practices out of shame?
Have you submitted to others even when you did not want to?
Your goal is to accept the dominant, intuitive and intimate parts of yourself.
LILITH IN SAGITTARIUS/9H:
Have you neglected trying to understand your religious or philosophical interests? Why?
Have you discouraged yourself from setting out on exploration, embracing spontaneity and prioritizing your freedom? Why?
How can you practice optimism in your life? In which situations have you acted pessimistic?
Your goal is to explore yourself and your passions.
Have you felt discouraged from chasing your ambitions? How and why?
How do you feel about being the person in control?
How can you cultivate a more fulfilling relationship with your career?
Your goal is to embrace your traditions.
How do you stop yourself from expressing your the goal to create the betterment of mankind and take action with similar minded groups?
What is your experience with having friends and being in group settings?
How have you neglected your imaginative and inventive qualities? What is the reason for doing that?
You goal is to balance both change and responsibilities.
How can you dedicate time to introspection?
Do you often feel ashamed for, or even stop yourself from, expressing your wilder side and your hidden desires? Why?
When have you stopped yourself from working on your intuition, spiritual enlightenment and getting in tune with your dreams and inspirations?
Your goal is to connect with your divinity.
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