Ahem. Excuse me
I'm so glad my friends tolerate my bullshit
Putting this as my pinned as a warning to all those who wander into my domain
Another hapless wanderer taken by my curse
Not today Justin
hello vonnie

shark vs the universe

@theartofmadeline
Show & Tell
Misplaced Lens Cap

JVL

if i look back, i am lost
AnasAbdin
trying on a metaphor
will byers stan first human second

❣ Chile in a Photography ❣
art blog(derogatory)
tumblr dot com
YOU ARE THE REASON
Sade Olutola

JBB: An Artblog!

Kaledo Art

seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United Kingdom
seen from Malaysia

seen from Malaysia
seen from Netherlands
seen from South Africa
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from Brazil
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from Indonesia
seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from Türkiye
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States
@saccharinekat
Ahem. Excuse me
I'm so glad my friends tolerate my bullshit
Putting this as my pinned as a warning to all those who wander into my domain
Another hapless wanderer taken by my curse

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
Hey do you know what rumination is?
Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.
Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.
Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.
I'll say it again:
Rumination is a compulsion.
Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.
I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.
And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.
Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.
Like this was genuinely life changing for me.
Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:
Defining Rumination
How to Stop Ruminating
ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination
What to Do When You're Triggered
Just want to add that if you're on the spectrum, you may also experience Autistic Rumination, which is distinct from the obsessive variety, despite the two having some overlapping characteristics!
The key to opsec is Assume your shit's already compromised
[seeing a cis woman upset after a cis man called her a hysterical bitch] omg why are cis people always infighting?? gender norms oppress all of them, they should be fighting together :3 cis women need to stop making such a fuss and be kind to their brothers

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
Black Miku
i feel like if you stabbed an angel the blood trail would look like this
Hey. Hey!
I love that my job is to create new milfs for yall to thirst after frankly I'm more important than the troops
not like any of you needed convincing but this was the first thing I saw upon opening bumble
bunny girl and her older gf
Frances is like in a constant dissociative state and like, I like to imagine she switches consciousness/personalities from the amount of stress she goes under + the constant traumatization she endures but hey at least she got a sugar mommy
tldr: she's plural with mommy issues
as for Madrian: she's cheating on her husband of 30 years with Frances...
can you imagine being a parent in the pokemon world and your kid comes home with one of those straight up basically human pokemon. i know those motherfuckers can talk.
its morning. i see my childs Throh getting some oj from the fridge. 'morning', i say. he doesnt catch himself in time and says 'morning' back. he freezes and we both stare at each other knowingly. 'throh,' he says, but its too fucking late

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
children of any species are very good at being annoying and very cute while doing that
a sphinx child based on this post
doodles
wise minds see the rise of the ferretgirl on the horizon
A HANDY CHART FOR THOSE OF YOU WONDERING WHAT THE FUCK IS UP WITH THESE. NOTE THAT THESE ARE ALL THE INFORMAL AND YOU IS THE FORMAL SO LIKE YOU WOULD ALWAYS ADDRESS YOUR SUPERIOR/ OLDER PERSON/ SOCIAL BETTER WITH YOU BUT WITH YOUR BUDS YOU CAN USE THESE.
I’m not sure I knew the thy/thine distinction. Thanks for this!
I love it when linguistic charts put the translation of what they mean (ex: hear ye = listen up y'all)
It reminds me of the time my family was watching the Fellowship of the Ring and Gandalf is fighting the Balrog. When he went ‘Fly, you fools!’ my younger sister asked what that meant and instantly my dad replied ‘get goin’, stupid!’. Anyway, it makes me laugh every time.
Astrology is very popular — both Gallup and YouGov report that about 25% of Americans believe that the position of the stars and planets can
Astrology doesn't seem to work.
Some highlights:
Astrologers helped design the study
No one did better than random chance, even though they only included people in the study who are experienced with astrology and stated that they expect themselves to do better than random chance
They gave every astrologer a set of 50 things about a person and 5 birth charts to choose from. They weren’t even coming up with the chart themselves!
After taking the test, most thought they nailed it. Zero out of 152 did better than 5 out of 12. None nailed it
Astrologers who rated themselves highly experienced (“world class experts”) did the same or worse as those who said they have limited experience. Both performed the same as random chance
This is hilarious
That's got to be the funniest graph ever published in a paper

Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
help a trans artist stay housed this pride month!
hello its troppy! as continue to hunt for a job that pays the bills i need help with rent ($800)!
anything helps! ૮ ◜ ﻌ ◝ ა ♡
kofi: https://ko-fi.com/T6T7ENY59
venmo: redloop
paypal: tropscream
ca$hap: tropscream
gfm: https://gofund.me/1ad6a6b0
I only have a week to make my goal anything helps!
i could still really use the help!!
one of my favorite this american life segments of late is about the people who played orchestra pit for phantom of the opera on broadway and how, like, a sizeable majority of them had literally been playing the show since it opened in 1988 (on broadway. I know it opened in 86 on the west end, you random pedants, but I am specifically talking about broadway musicians) because their contracts stipulated that they'd have jobs throughout the show's entire run... but nobody anticipated that phantom would become the longest-running broadway show of all time.
and none of these people wanted to walk away from a guaranteed job, so very few of them ever quit. they just kept doing the same show eight nights a week... for twenty or thirty years... and by the time it finally closed last year most of these musicians (who had been working together for DECADES) hated each other and really really fucking loathed phantom. I can't stop thinking about it. it's indescribably hellish to imagine but also the funniest thing I've ever heard in my life.
can you imagine.
[ID: excerpt from an article reading: One of my favorite stories, which should drive anyone who has every played in a band crazy-- there’s this bassoon player who has sat next to the same clarinet player since 1988. She’s convinced he plays half a note4 flat on every note he’s every played. He denies this. /]