When I was younger, I wish someone had told me straight-up that not all adults experience āa callingā. That many of them never find particular purpose in a career. That sometimes, their job is just what pays the bills and they have to seek satisfaction and fulfillment elsewhere.Ā
Because as an adult, this pervasive notion that there exists a perfect path for everyone, that people shouldĀ love what they do, and that work is meant to function as a vehicle for fulfilling a personās grand life destiny is not only inaccurate for many of us, it can be toxic.
The ideal is so ingrained that I have to remind myself constantly Iām not a failure because I donāt adore my job, and because Iām not rocking the world with my work. That isĀ okay.Ā
Sometimes, work is just work. There isnāt always a perfect career path, magically waiting to be discovered. There might not be this THING you were born to do. Sometimes, you discover that what you really want to be when you grow up is āpaidā.
