𝑲𝑬𝑳𝑺𝑬𝒀

I'm not sure if this was meant in a harsh way or just a shocked way, haha. Either way, this was very out of line. BDSM isn't strictly about penetration.

Not all of my posts include a strap or being filled up. I'm experienced on other things, but really not that much. I've received head once from somebody and given it once to somebody else. I've had fingers used on me, but that's the extent of what's been used on me. Unfortunately, I've never been able to orgasm from the person that touched me. That was years ago and I've only had one other sexual experience after that, which was when I was able to touch somebody else for the first time. I have experience with domming non-sexually, as well as sexually. I've done my research, I've had learning moments, and I understand what it means to dominate and to submit. Whether I've been fucked thoroughly or not doesn't really change anything. There are plenty of people who have a lot of experience and have a busy sex life, but still don't understand the concept of aftercare or how to give somebody an orgasm. When I got touched, I wasn't being asked what felt good and I wasn't being talked through anything. I wasn't even being undressed. I was unable to orgasm because this person, even though they had experience, didn't understand the concept of dominating. When I got to touch somebody for the first time, I listened to what she asked from me. "Softer here, and harder there", "Rough here and touch me there", etc. I listened to her instructions and I took it as a chance to learn, and I was still considered the one in charge. She orgasmed a few times that night from my touch and it was a lovely learning moment for me. That was over a year ago and that was my 1st sexual experience since my ex, and it's been my last experience besides talking to some wonderful people online that helped me understand how to navigate being a switch and how to no longer be ashamed of my submissive side. I also experienced terrible dom/mes before I even got touched for the first time. It's not just about the sex <3

you CAN throw an educated and knowledgeable domme into a physical space with someone and see it thrive but you rarely can throw an uneducated and ignorant domme into physical space with someone and see it go smoothly. that’s why we see stuff like frenzy. hmph.

knowledge and education is sooo important, for both dommes and subs < 33

Thoughts of her slipping inside me for the first time, and her going "There we go, that's my girl."

Thoughts of her slipping inside me for the first time, and her going "You don't know how long I've been waiting for this."

Thoughts of her slipping inside me for the first time, and her going "Holy shit."

Thoughts of her slipping inside me for the first time, and her going "I think I'm officially addicted to you."

Thoughts of her slipping inside me for the first time, and her going "This is mine. All. Fucking. Mine."

"I thought you needed to cum?"