One full week without Tulip.
One full week without Tulip. I found out the day before she died was national tulip day, and the day after the tulips in front of the house bloomed. We have a "memorial table" set up with some of Tulip's things. We should get her ashes back at the end of the week. August still seems confused. It doesn't help that the other pup in their lives, from daycare, also diedâthe very next day after Tulip. The kids are asking about that one, too.
I had mentioned that I interviewed Orchestral Maneuvers in the Dark last week, and they have a new song about the death of a puppy. I asked a couple of questions about that and here's part of what Paul Humphries told me. I like that he also referred to his puppy as a person.
"On a personal note to you, regarding putting your Tulip to sleep, Iâm so very sorry to hear this and I really feel for you. I hated the âplaying Godâ aspect to it, but it was absolutely the right thing to do, so I took great comfort in that. I would like my partner to have the same rights to do that to me should I need it!! I also had difficulty dealing with my feelings as it was also a marker, a full stop, marking the end of a very long relationship with a person. So as Andy and I normally do, we channel our feeling and emotions into our art! I hope you can find a suitable outlet for yours. Good luck and take care."















