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BASIC STATS
Full Name: Lilian Grace Whittaker
Nicknames: Lily (pretty much what she goes by), Lil, Lilith
Date of Birth: May 10th, 1991
Place of Birth: Kingâs Head Harbor, Rhode Island
Ethnicity: English, Scottish
Languages: English (native proficiency), French (bilingual proficiency)
Religion: Protestant (non-practicing)
Western Zodiac: ⌠Taurus | ✠Aries | â Scorpio
Sexuality: Bisexual
Relationship Status: Single and soooooo over her ex
Education: Bachelor of Arts in French Language & Literature, Minor in Marketing (Columbia University, Magna Cum Laude, 2013)
Occupation: Marketing & Events Manager at White Woods Winery
Moral Alignment: Neutral Good
Myers-Briggs: INFJ - The Advocate
Hogwarts House: Hufflepuff
Enneagram: Type 2 - The Helper
BACKGROUND
Middle child of three born to Elise and Ian Whittaker, aka a feminist icon and her husband whoâs a douchebag to everyone but devoted to his wife. Devoted enough to take her last name and move to her hometown. Old money Rhode Island family, and her father is from a wealthy family in the south.Â
Brendan was the first child and only son of the couple, and Lily followed two years after the perfect heir had blessed the family. Isabelle rounded off the trifecta of Whittaker kids, with Lily being the ever stereotypical middle child and often feeling overshadowed by her siblings. She didnât mind though, it meant more time for her to explore her interests.
Hopeless romantic, always in love with the idea of love even if she didnât experience romance until she was an adult. Romanticized the world around her because sheâs privileged and can afford to do so - acknowledges her privilege but also is misguided sometimes because of it.
Went to Columbia University to study French, spent a year in Paris, living the good life. Dated around, had both girlfriends and boyfriends but nothing really stuck. She kept wanting a love that swept her off her feet, and no one had provided that. Loved event planning, especially weddings and went into that industry after graduation.Â
(CAR ACCIDENT AND DEATH TW) Brendan had constantly been asking Lily when she expected to return and take her place among the ranks of the family, a question that agitated Lily until she longed to hear her brotherâs voice again. Driving through a stop sign cost Brendan his life and injured his friend who had been in the passenger seat. Lilyâs return home for the funeral was supposed to be temporary, as she had a career and life back in New York that she loved. But the guilt placed upon her by her family drove her to return to the city, but only to hand in her notice at her job and move out of her Upper East Side brownstone apartment by late 2017. To say that she was depressed after losing her brother was an understatement, but eventually she picked herself back up and got out of bed, where she would spend days at a time.Â
Settling back into life with her family was a challenge, as Brendanâs death had changed the entire Whittaker family. Ian slipped into bad habits and erratic behavior as a result of losing his son, Elise was doing her best to hold the family and business together, and Lily felt as though there was an emotional distance between her and Isabelle. Lily may have been her familyâs choice as the spare to the heir, but she and Brendan were like apples and oranges and she believed that she never would be able to live up to the expectations of being the future of the Whittaker family.Â
Going back into event planning was not an option, at least not full time. But the winery that her family co-owned with the Blackwoods presented an opportunity for the hopeless romantic to get her fill of it when she took up the job of Marketing & Events Manager at White Woods Vineyard. Although her role is an umbrella for many, her favorite aspect of it is still planning weddings. Itâs one of the top wedding venues in Kingâs Head Harbor, and Lily has networked her way to connections with other local vendors.
Went on The Bachelor twice, in 2019 and 2020. Did not end up finding love either time, but did fall for an unlikely person after returning home from her second one: Bash Landry, a local with a criminal record whom Lily had known since she was a teenager. What started as a tryst developed into love, but it wasnât meant to last - not because of her familyâs obvious disdain for her partner of choice, but because of lifestyle clashes that Lily saw as damning to their future and she called things off. Hasnât hear from him since May, she doesnât know where he is or if heâs even not in jail again lmao. Also her dad framed him for theft so thereâs that oops
Has 1 million Instagram followers, capitalized on her 5 minutes of fame on reality television but mostly does a lot of beauty inspo these days
MISCELLANEOUSÂ
Bisexual and bilingual, loves flirting with any and everyone (as long as sheâs single) and will even do so in French
Has two corgis named Bambi and Belle, they are her children and no one can tell her otherwise
Thinks sheâs a Disney princess tbh
Loves glitter, lace, the color pink, and florals
Obsessed with Christmas, but also fall for everything pumpkin #basic
Energy fluctuates between âsoft flower who must be protected at all costsâ or âbad bitch who fights for what she believes inâ no in between
She has a trust fund and is an heir to a successful real estate company. Yet she⊠overworks herself even though money would never be a concern for her. Her career is her passion, but girl needs to learn to take a break now and again.
CONNECTION IDEAS
Sister - Isabelle (name can be changed) is 27-28 and they used to be close growing up, being the girls in the family and all. But as adults, they sort of drifted when Lily when to NYC and Isabelle either stayed at home and went to Brown, or to a different Ivy League. Iâll put in a proper wanted connection but theyâve both been home since Brendanâs passing and thereâs some friction, as Ian and Elise have been putting pressure on Lily to step into his shoes, meanwhile Isabelle is probably a much better candidate.Â
Brotherâs girlfriend - I imagine that Brendan was in a relationship at the time of his death. Itâs been four years but sheâs still in the Whittaker familyâs life. It couldâve been an ideal girlfriend his parents wanted him with, or someone they didnât approve of but they all are grieving Brendan. Iâm good either way for drama or just close female friendship.Â
Exes - Although Lily canonically did not date until she was in college, sheâs certainly dated around and tried to find her soulmate. She was in New York up until four years ago, lived in Paris during the 2011-2012 academic year, and returned to KHH 4 years ago. If your muse was in any location at any time, they couldâve dated, no matter how casually or seriously. Open to all genders!
Event planning clients - Both past and present! She tends to do weddings and is officially affiliated with the winery, but also does some of her own event planning on the side too. Corporate, baby showers, birthday parties, anything
Winery regulars - Lily spends a lot of time working hard and playing hard at the winery. Perhaps your muse hangs out there too, or is a vendor or supplier. Maybe even a wedding industry contact whoâs a preferred vendor of the winery.
Friends, frenemies, enemies, letâs do it!












