Are you on the hunt for your next home, if so, youâve likely hit a few obstacles. Maybe every home you like is already under contract. Or you keep running into bidding wars and losing. Whatever your trouble, one thingâs for sure: The prices keep going up. According to the National Association of Realtors, the median price for existing homes is up nearly 8% year over year. Yep. Itâs a hard-knock life for home buyers these days. Get a Financial Leg Up In a sellerâs market, cash is definitely king. This may give you an advantage over other buyers. Of course, an all-cash offer may not be an option for you. If thatâs the case, then do the next best thing: Get pre-approved with a lender that offers legitimate, credit-underwritten pre-approvals. Mortgage pre-approval goes further than prequalification because you submit all the required paperwork up front. The bank then verifies the amount you can afford to pay for your next home. It takes the guesswork out of your home search and shows sellers you can back your offer up with real money. That puts you in a much more competitive position as a buyer. You can close faster, with less loan-oriented stress. Donât Let Impatience Wreck Your Budget If one pain point topped the list, it was this: Find exactly what you wanted in your price range. You may find yourself wrestling with the temptation to bite off a bigger chunk of mortgage debt just to land a home. If your offer doesn't stick; on to the next house. Sometimes it just isn't meant to be. Patience can be hard to come by when you feel pressure to beat buyers to the punch. But try not to get so carried away you forget the financial goals youâre working towards. Some finance advisors recommends keeping your mortgage payment to no more than 25% of your monthly take-home pay on a 15-year fixed-rate mortgage. It's okay to shake things up a bit. If existing homes arenât working out for you, give new construction a try! If you still kept running into roadblocks, adjust your expectations. You may run into the right place by accident by broadening your search. Take my friend Meredith for example, she realized she would have to offer over asking price to get a home in her area. Sound familiar? Then limit your search to homes with a healthy margin between list price and your max budget. That way you can up the ante without breaking the bank. I've been blessed to get a good deal on foreclosures. Selling a Home? Prepare a Backup Plan In many markets today, buyers with a home to sell are running into an interesting problem. My first experience was, I closed on a sale Monday. However, i didnt have a place to call my own yet. Yikes! I've learned that it's smart to research temporary living options before listing your home. That way, if your home goes quickly, youâre not stuck with no place to land. Here are a few ideas to consider: Rent your home back from your buyers until you find a new place. Move into an apartment or other short-term rental. Crash with family (and save extra money in the process!). Moving twice may be no fun. But itâs better than rushing into a home purchase you (and your budget) will regret down the road. Keep Calm and Carry On. Buying a home is stressful in any market. But a sellerâs market cranks up the pressure on all sides. I knows this anxiety all too well. I bought and sold a home this past year and found contract negotiations especially trying on my nerves. That was overcome by having a great real estate agent. You need someone who will be honest with you, is wise in the ways of negotiations, and can help you navigate the process. A good agent is more than a tour guide. They counsel you through every twist and turn of your home purchase, inspiring confidence along the way. Look for an agent who brings lots of expertise to the table. You can trust a seasoned expert to apply out-of-the-box techniques to help you findâand get a great deal onâthe home thatâs right for you. If you like what your reading, leave me a comment and please repost it.