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🌿Make meal plans

🌻Look up lo cal recipes

🌱Look up thinspo

🍄Drink water

🌿Meditate

🌻Go to a café for tea or coffee

🌱Work out

🍄Do laundry

🌿Sew things that have holes

🌻Clean your room/apartment/house/etc.

🌱Organize your phone’s pictures and notes

🍄Go tanning (this really helps me feel confident about my body; I hate being pale)

🌿Get a massage

🌻Apply a face mask

🌱Paint your fingernails

🍄Write out a budget plan

🌿Edit your résumé

🌻Declutter email inbox

🌱Take a shower

🍄Get a haircut

🌿Look up hair &/or makeup tutorials

🌻Practice makeup styles

🌱Create new styles with your wardrobe & accessories

🍄Go through your closet and get rid of things you don’t wear anymore

🌿Redecorate your room & rearrange your furniture

🌻Make a BucketList

🌱Make other lists (seriously, it’s so therapeutic)

🌀fears

🌀goals

🌀recipes

🌀qualities that you like about yourself

🌀Christmas gift ideas

🌀shows to watch

🌀books to read

🌀topics to research

🌀artwork ideas

🌀items you want to purchase

🌀make some homemade hair products, facial scrubs, etc.

🌀bands/artists you want to listen to

🌀songs that you like

🌀tattoo ideas

🌀websites you like or want to visit

🌀room decoration ideas

🌀quotes that you inspire you

🌀places you want to visit

🌀exercises

🌀date ideas

🌀bills that you need to pay (make a list of monthly ones &/or random ones)

🌀bands/artists you want to see at a concert/show

🍄Read a book

🌿Make a music playlist

🌻Plant a garden

🌱Organize paperwork & files

🍄Volunteer somewhere

🌿Go to a comedy show

🌻Go to a museum

🌱Go to the movies

🍄Go to the library

🌿Go for a walk

🌻Go to some garage sales

🌱Do something artistic

💫 draw

💫 paint

💫 scrapbook

💫 make a collage from magazine pictures and words

💫 photograph things

💫 write about your feelings

💫 write a creative story

💫 refurbish &/or repaint furniture

💫 make a vision board (these are really fun; look up ideas on Pinterest!)

💫 make a bullet journal (another fun one with ideas on Pinterest)

For Valentine’s week, here is a comic about flirting and how much of a disaster I am.

she is five years old and mother tells her to put her shirt back on /but mommy why doesn’t brother have to/ and mother didn’t respond

she is eight years old and cannot understand why the boy on the playground got mad when she said no and why nobody bothered to comment on her bloody lip

she is thirteen years old barely a teenager and is scared to walk alone on the sidewalk on a busy street because she has heard them one too many times

she is fifteen years old and tried to say no again this time she got more than just a bloody lip she got kicked out of school and is stuck at home caring for something she did not want

she is eighteen and her daughter is three her education is over; nobody wants the slutty mother as a student friend girlfriend wife because who could love a whore?