Hello! Before anything, I just wanted to say my take and explanation on this specific post.
1- Husbands and wives need to give their S.O what they need sexually, UNLESS there is something causing pain, discomfort, fear or nervousness etc. And the sentence about hellfire and women, is specifically for women who might see one flaw or small mistake from their husbands and then they ignore every good moment or thing the husbands did. It could also be because women are literally more than men, but up to debate i suppose.
2- he didn't hurt her. Allah told him to hit an object which If i recall was a bundle of grass
3- yup. Men do get them. And as a girl, I felt it was unfair. But since in heaven, No human will ever feel sad or any negative emotion, I don't think it would affect us. Not to mention, if it's a happily married husband, his wife would be a queen of sorts over all 72 of them.
4- beat children how? Abuse? No. Danger them? No. Basic discipline? Yes. Not to mention, if the reason they aren't praying is something like getting bored, wanting to do other things instead (when prayers take maximum 5mins) I definitely believe in discipline. Islam doesn't allow abuse or genuine harm.
5- there are situations where women get less, where women get more, where women get all, where women get nothing. It literally depends on what the situation is.
6- They can definitely go out. I go out with my friends or alone, my sister, my classmates, strangers, literally everyone. What you meant is Traveling long distance. Then yes, and why? Safety. Oh, and if there are no men or if she doesn't want to travel with one? There are lots of scholarly opinions saying she can travel with a big group of women that are capable of self defense.
7- They can talk when needed. Asking for directions, talking to a cashier, ordering food, asking about work, learning from a teacher.. And why is it present? Simply to reduce inappropriate interactions and in general, actions.
Would like to add that if you have something to go against my arguments, please tell me! I love debating and finding out where I'm wrong