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! thanks <3

Right ??? Thank you! I’m glad at least someone else gets it haha.

I think that’s the biggest issue, is they aren’t consenting to have a sexual story written about them. Which I find super weird.

Ah okay fair, haha I mainly just use it to shit post and trauma dump for therapeutic purposes and also see funny/relatable posts.

I tagged because a fan fic of them just came up and it sparked a feeling to want to post my feeling toward it.

Honestly I don’t even really use tags normally but did for this lol

In general yes it bothers me, but when it’s about people know of and fans of, it irks me even more. Especially knowing Paige has told the media she won’t be answering any questions or talking about their relationship anymore. Meaning she probably would be uncomfortable and find it weird when there’s fan fics about them. (Even though I highly doubt they’d see them)

I don’t read them, they sometimes come up on my feed, and I read the first couple lines and it just creeps me out how someone is writing detailed sex scenes about real life people? Tis WEIRD and CREEPY.

Mainly used for fan fics? Since when? I’ve been using this site for like 15 years lol, I don’t often see fan fics? They come up randomly tho, but I wasn’t aware that this was the main function. I suppose I guess I don’t specifically follow blogs that do them so they aren’t on my feed much.

I know, this isn’t just about Paige and Azzi, I’m well aware people do it all the time to everyone, I think it’s weird to do it with anyone from real life. Rather than making up stories or use characters.

I just think people think because “everyone” is doing it, it makes it okay, but to me it doesn’t. One of my favourite basketballs has publicly said that edits about her make her feel uncomfortable and want people to leave her alone. Yet people still go against her wishes, I’ve seen so many comments on the video of her saying that being like “I’m still going to make edits lol 🤪”

Bro I’m just a blog that shit posts about my life and expresses how I feel and I have no followers lmfao

You’re right, it is tumblr, therefore I can also write what I want and express my opinions. I personally just find it weird to wank over real people and make up stories without having their consent.

Idk what wattpad is exactly, but im pretty sure it’s a writing platform?

I don’t care that people write their sexual fantasies and get off on this stuff, I just genuinely think it’s weird to write about real life people/celebrities/athletes. Instead of making up characters. Or even fan fic of shows/movies isn’t as bad. It’s the real life people that actually have feelings about it.

One athlete I follow closely has actually stated she hates edits of her, and think it’s weird and said to leave her the hell alone. I just feel a lot of athletes would feel the same. Because guess what? “Fans” don’t even stop with the edits and sexualising her even after stating it makes her uncomfortable. So many of her fans got angry at her too, saying that was such a rude thing to say. Which pisses me off because she stated a boundary and voiced something makes her uncomfortable then goes against her wishes and continue that behaviour.

I think people forget or don’t care that these people are people. They think because they are famous they can do what they want. I just think it’s shitty behaviour tbh and people need to do better.

It’s weird, and lowkey creepy to do this shit. ESPECIALLY to ones who have made it clear they don’t like it.

Paige has specifically also said she doesn’t want to be asked about her relationship with Azzi, they keep their relationship private for a reason.

I also always think of myself in situations, the idea of me being famous and having so many people sexualise me and my girlfriend is so uncomfortable and weird. So I can guarantee others feel the same. Unless they state they are okay with it, I just don’t think people should I guess ??

It’s just so off to me and gross, like these are real life people you’re writing about and making up fake scenarios about them fucking ? Also people getting off on it? It’s freaking weird idc. Get a life and touch some grass.

But I’d rather just be alone and single than date another person I’m not really attracted to or don’t that spark with.

Because I actually love being single and doing what I want. It’s honestly so peaceful not having to constantly make someone else happy or go out of my way to do things for them. The constant maintenance a relationship needs is so tiring, which ends up sacrificing my passions and takes away me time, and time I use for my own stuff. Which it always does, because I have to fit them in the schedule but really every day I have a routine catered to myself so I have to alter it.

I suppose being in love those things won’t feel like a chore though. Which is why I’m so dumb to be dating people I’m not falling for and never will. Because then dating feels like a chore. Especially sexually, no I don’t want to have sex with you I want to wind down playing video games for the next few hours after a long day. Or go shoot some hoops and train.

I wish I worked this out way sooner, but oh well. I’m here now, no more dating below my standards just for the sake of it.

I really do think I need to date someone in the sporting world, they’ll just understand more. Also being able to go to sporting things together for quality time??? Also dating a gamer is peak, those moments where I just want to game, end up gaming WITH them, without them feeling bad and neglected. Can play together or different game same room. Fuck I love that shit so much.

But it feels it doesn’t exist. Either I find someone into sports but not gaming, or into gaming but doesn’t care at all for sports.

Like why you adding my friends and you don’t even know them? Stop that.

Or when people add their friends partners too. Like why? It’s just weird. It’s like a medium flag, because being too obsessed with social media and needing to add everyone is off to me.

I had an ex way too online once, my friends list used to be private and no one could see, but she made me change my setting so she could see all my friends and add all my friends. But she didn’t meet them ? Just wanted to add everyone in my life.

I just think it’s hella weird.

If you haven’t met someone, you shouldn’t be adding them. Or bare minimum at least of had talked to them online for a bit and know who you’re adding. Rather than “oh I know someone who knows this person” then adding them based on that.