it’s okay

sometimes “the harsh truth” you must face in order to heal, is not necessarily harsh. we’ve been brainwashed to believe that if something is honest and truth, then it must be hurtful. sometimes the hardest thing to accept is that not everything is your fault, in fact, none of it were, and that you didn’t deserve to go through the things you’ve been through. being mean to yourself is not the same as being honest to yourself.

Never beg someone to love you. You deserve to be loved, cherished, and valued for the beautiful and radiant soul that you are. Never change who you are for others to recognize that.

even if it was unintentional, even if they thought they were doing the right thing- you’re still allowed to be angry or upset about how you were mistreated

If you did not eat well today, at least you put something into your body. If you spent the entire day on your phone, at least you did not isolate yourself completely. If you only talked to one person today, at least you socialised a little. If you did not have the energy to get out of bed, at least you woke up, at least you breathed and made it through the day. You can be so very proud of yourself, my love. Stop hating yourself for not succeeding. And start giving yourself credit for trying. For trying so hard. Every single day. You are amazing.

if you are seeing this, you are going to prosper. you are experiencing a new part of your life where you will bloom into a better version of yourself and flourish. abundance is coming your way; love is coming your way; peace and clarity are coming your way. you have nothing to fear and even less to worry about. the darkness around you has been the soil and you are now getting ready to sprout. you are going to prosper

there will be days when you just “feel off”. you don’t have to bounce back right away, fake a smile, pretend nothing is out of the ordinary. take a day. find your “normal” self in that time. the mood will pass, so no need to push it.

there are people you haven’t met yet who will love you