The Reeds at Shelter Haven

November 2, 2019

Their Story: Stolen glances across the classroom, fleeting smiles as they passed in the hallways… Samantha and Josh are a good old fashioned, swoon-worthy pair of high school sweethearts, who have seemingly known since day one that they were destined to be Mr. and Mrs. Cavanugh.

The Proposal: Pancakes & jetty walks to the farthest pole are regularly scheduled weekend activities for Sammy & Josh, and so it seemed like a pretty normal day when the pair began walking along the rocks. It didn’t take long for Sammy to notice that Josh seemed to be scoping out each rock they passed, frequently slowing down – frustrating Sammy because, well, pancakes! When a nervous look began to creep across Josh’s face, it became evident that “something fishy was going on.” In the end, Sammy said YES! And then they feasted on heaping piles of pancakes at Uncle Bill’s.

Details of the Day:

The Reeds: Understated elegance and showstopping views. “We loved that our guests would get the indoor-outdoor experience we were searching for during the reception, as well as the refined beach-chic feels.”

The Dress: Floral lace, flowing sleeves, and a barely-there honey-toned under-gown with textured patterning combined to form Samantha’s “absolute dream dress.” Which she fondly recalls made her feel like a mermaid on her most special day. A bonus? The detachable sleeves added drama to wedding portraits and created a stunning first look for the ceremony before being conveniently removed so as not to restrict any dancing.

An Ode to Bay Days: One of Sammy & Josh’s favorite summer activities is loading up the boat and heading out into the bay for a day of fun in the sun, only stopping to catch a few crabs for dinner. As a subtle ode to these most memorable days, the couple chose to feature a Lobster Trap to collect cards at their bayfront reception.

First Dance: You know that moment when a song comes on and immediately transports you to another place and time? That’s what happens for Samantha & Josh every time “Halo” by Beyoncé starts to play over the speakers. And so, it was only fitting that they dance for the first time as husband as wife to the very song that takes them back to those high school hallways, where Halo first became Sammy’s favorite.

His & Hers Favorite Moments: Josh has always known that Halo would be his & Samantha’s wedding song, he just didn’t know that it would be his absolute favorite moment of the evening, while Sammy experienced pure elation walking down the aisle alongside the man who she loved first, watching the biggest smile she’d ever seen spread across her father’s face.

Advice for Other Couples: Your wedding day is only one day – it’s as simple as that. “We worried about every detail leading up to our day, stressing over the small things, then our day came and went, and I honestly couldn’t even tell you what the centerpieces looked like! Your wedding day isn’t about the ‘stuff,’ it’s about starting your life together and sharing moments with your new spouse.” 

Vendor List:

Florist: Laura- Garden Greenhouse and Nursery

Photographer: Lisa Hornak

Cake: The Reeds

Hair & Makeup: Alisha Nycole and Company

Invitations: Meredith Trimbur

Dress: Van Cleeve Bridal (Martina Liana)

Groom’s Attire: Men’s Wearhouse

Entertainment: DJ Smooth Entertainment

MLE Pictures

So, you’re engaged! Let us be the first to say, ahhh!! (Finally!) Congratulations! We are so excited for you & the love of your life as you enter into one of the most exciting times of your lives: planning the day you commit yourselves to each other forever, and we’d love to help make the process a bit simpler for you. Because while we know that this time is exhilarating, we also know that it can be stressful. No matter where you decide to host your special day, these top tips a few of our past brides & our in-house team of wedding experts will help make planning your epic bash a piece of cake.

October 18, 2019

Their Story: The University of Delaware may be known for being the life of the party, but it is also fondly reminisced on by Chelsea & Jimmy for another reason: bringing the pair together. Mutual friends brought the two into each other's orbit, but it wasn't until after a few years of friendship, a long chat at a birthday party, and two formals later that the two realized they were destined for romance.

The Proposal: The beaches of Sea Isle have held a special place in Chelsea's heart since birth. Summers were spent buzzing between her grandparents' homes – both her mother & father's parents owned homes on 74th Street, which is how her parents initially met! – and soaking up the sunshine. Many years later, Chelsea's parents purchased one of the properties to build a new home. Just before they closed on the property, Jimmy took Chelsea by the hand, walked her over to her grandparent's house, and then up to the bayfront deck before he dropped to one knee and as Chelsea exclaims, "proposed in my favorite place in the world!" Both Chelsea & Jimmy's families soon snuck their way up the street to celebrate the couple & toast to the future.

Details of the Day:

The Reeds: Having a shore wedding was non-negotiable, and Chelsea & Jimmy wanted a venue that wasn't just located at the beach but rather one that drew its interior inspiration from the surrounding landscape. The Reeds was "beachy, romantic, and relaxed" in its coastal-chic design, which were the "exact vibes we were going for with our wedding." It didn't hurt that "everyone at The Reeds made us feel completely at ease," Chelsea adds.

The Dress: "I was extremely indecisive [about the style of dress I wanted] and super nervous that I was going to have a really hard time finding the one," recalls Chelsea. Surprisingly, "it was the fourth dress I tried on at the very first store I visited – I knew immediately this was the one as I swooned over the romantic beachy theme that felt so true to me." With all of her indecision, "my mom and sister refused to let me leave the store without buying it because they loved it just as much as I did."

The Sentimental Staples: From their mapped-out love story invitations by dear friend Sydney of Crane & Palette to the mini Hank Sauce favors – a Sea Isle staple – Chelsea and Jimmy paid close attention to weaving their personalities into their special day. The most sentimental aspect, however, had to be the moment when Chelsea's Great Uncle officiated their ceremony, just as he had for her parents a few decades prior.

First Dance: "It started when you said hello. Just did something to me, and I've been in a daze ever since the day that we meet. You take the breath out of my lungs. Can't even fight it. And all of the words out of my mouth without even trying, and I'm speechless." – Speechless, Dan + Shay

Favorite Moment: While Chelsea & Jimmy admit that their answer may be cliché, they are adamant that nothing could be more authentic than saying their favorite moment of the day was, well, the entire day! But, if they HAD to pick one, "the entire wedding being on the dance floor screaming along to Bohemian Rhapsody was a pretty awesome highlight."

Advice for Other Couples: Relax. Take it easy. Enjoy! Chelsea says, "everything really does come together on your wedding day, no matter what! With that in mind, try to enjoy each and every step along the way because it goes by SO fast."

Vendor List:

Florist: Blooms Cape May

Photographer: The Hursts & Co 

Cake: The Reeds

Hair & Makeup: Kiss the Bride

Invitations: Crane & Palette

Dress: BHLDN

Groom's Attire: Indochino

Entertainment: The Heartbeats

The months leading up to your wedding day may be a bit stressful, however, your special day should be anything but! Now that the florals are finalized & the details (and dress) have been ironed out, it’s time to kick-back, relax, and savor every magical little moment. Our team of planning professionals has been present for countless mornings of pre-marital pampering, and we’ve picked up on a few key tips to keep in mind to make the most of it. Keep reading to get the insider’s angle on wedding prep worry points that you should take care of now so you can have a worry-free wedding day…

📸MLE Pictures

1. Room for Activities

The morning of your wedding may consist of many things, including hair & makeup application for each member of your bridal party, exchanging of love notes & gifts between you and your partner, mother-daughter portraits, phone charging… you get the point. Make sure that your bridal suite offers plenty of space – and electrical outlets – to accommodate your needs, bonus points if it also offers a hair sink and several mirrors for primping purposes. Getting married at The Reeds? Ask your Wedding Specialist about the Bridal Studio at Salt Spa, which offers all of the above, plus customized catering options.

2. Awesome Attire

Wearing something that easily slips on and off to avoid damaging your do is a must, making it photo-worthy is preferred. While an old button-up will do the job, your bridal party will be blown away by curated prep-clothes that are equal parts comfy & cute. Bubbly themed bathrobes, anyone? Available online at Boutique at The Reeds: https://boutique-at-the-reeds.myshopify.com

3. The Perfect Playlist

Some songs transport you back to distant memories while others soothe the soul, both set the tone for the perfect pre-wedding dance party. Create a playlist yourself – or reduce the number of to-dos on your list by delegating the task to a bridesmaid – so that you can shake-off any day-of stress.

📸Jackie Averill Photo

4. Eat, Drink & Be Merry

Even if your ceremony doesn’t start until 4pm, wedding day prep often begins early in the morning, meaning lunch is a no-go and breakfast might not happen, either. Ensure that you & your bridesmaids make it through the day without becoming hangry by stocking your ready-room with petite, bite-sized sandwiches and other snacks, and of course champagne. Keep the planning process simple by having your venue provide these goodies – many offer customizable catering options that perfectly accommodate your needs!

May 11, 2019

Their Story: Jenell & Aleks were, admittedly, not looking for love when they met by chance on the dating app Bumble only a few days after Jenell joined. She had just started her first role as a neuroscientist after obtaining her Ph.D. at UPenn while Aleks was choosing which business school he’d attend that fall. But after that first date – beers at The Cambridge in Philly – the pair were inseparable. Early dates, Jenell recalled, turned into impromptu marathons, spending the full day together. Quickly & effortlessly, their lives began to blend, each making life decisions that would ensure their special relationship had every opportunity possible to thrive. Most impactful - Aleks chose to attend NYU Stern for business school so that the couple could still visit each other on the weekends.

The Proposal: Everyone knows that the sunsets on Seven Mile Island are spectacular, but only the early birds know just how magical the sunrises are. As the sun rose above the ocean and a photographer hid in the dunes, the couple approached the champagne that Aleks had planted in the sand & he popped the question. Neither remembers exactly what words were exchanged, but the pictures captured Jenell jumping into Aleks’ arms ( and admiring her ring behind his head) and the pure joy of the newly engaged couple. After they celebrated together, Jenell was further surprised by an early morning brunch with their closest friends & family that Aleks had planned in a place that’s very special to both he & Jenell.

Details of the Day: 

The Reeds: Why The Reeds? “More like what could possibly make us choose anywhere else other than The Reeds?!” Jenell, who spent childhood summers on Seven Mile Island, enthused. The couple knew almost as soon as they got engaged in May 2017 that they wanted “those amazing indoor/outdoor bay views that you can only get at The Reeds. Not to mention the impeccable attention to detail & amazing food!”

The Dress: Jenell discovered Israeli designer Limor Rosen while scrolling Pinterest and fell in love. She found out where they were sold, tracked down a few trunk shows, and finally settled on a dress that, although different from her original vision, was perfect for her. “I absolutely love my dress,” Jenell gushed, “I chose her Aria gown and modified the tulle to be all ivory rather than champagne. The entire gown was hand-embroidered and beaded with the most amazing abstract pattern that looks like seaweed to me. I wish I could wear it every day.”

Something Borrowed, Something Old: Originally a “Something New” in 1947, Jenell felt blessed to stash the sixpence/mercury dime that her grandmother had worn in her shoe the day she wed Jenell’s grandfather in her shoe, too. “She saved it that entire time and gave it to me at my bridal shower,” recalled Jenell before reflecting on her “Something Borrowed.” Jenell wore her mother’s wedding band, reminiscent of an ocean wave, as a midi-ring for a romantic touch.

First Dance: Having only attended three concerts together (two of them being Leon Bridges) it was a no-brainer that one of Bridges' romantic songs be the couple’s first dance. “Beyond” was an easy choice for them. The couple took a series of dance lessons at Ballroom Bliss to ensure that their debut dance was perfect. “We had a blast putting together the choreography, and it came out great – especially the lift and dip at the end!” 

Favorite Moment: “Not many people discuss how little time you actually get to spend together as bride and groom on your wedding day, but the first look and the ceremony were beyond special to us. Both felt very private for us because we were only focusing on each other and the momentousness of the day; they were filled with a lot of raw emotion (and crying!)”

Advice for Other Couples: Prioritize! Jenell and Aleks recommend the practical budgeting tactic of figuring out each of your “Top 3” for the wedding day. For Jenell, this was challenging, and she chose a top four: venue, gown, ceremony, and photography. Aleks’ priorities diverted a bit: venue, music, and ceremony. Together they focused on their commonalities, venue & ceremony, and then pursued the others on their own. Jenell advises, “Don’t compromise on your priorities, spend the extra time & money on them to make sure they’re perfect, everything else – don’t sweat it! It’s easy to get caught up in every single detail, which can drive you insane. Stick to the big things and enjoy the process & the day.” On the day you say ‘I do,’ be sure to set aside a few moments for just the two of you. “We snuck away to our suite for 5 minutes right after the ceremony (first 5 mins as husband and wife!) to soak it all in as just us, plus scarfed down a few of our appetizers that Vanessa snuck up there for us!”  

Vendor List:

Florist: A Garden Party

Photographer: MLE Pictures

Cake: The Sugary

Hair & Makeup: 

Makeup - Emily Dimant 

Hair - Alison Scott

Invitations & Signage: House of Catherine

Dress: Limor Rosen purchased at Lovely Bride Philly

Alterations: Courtney Alston of Prim and Perverse Design

Groom’s Attire: Ted Baker Tuxedo

Entertainment: 

Ceremony & Cocktail Hour: Jersey Gina

Reception: Justin Byrne of Synergistic Sounds

October 6, 2018

Their Story: A classic college love story, with a touch of love-at-first-sight, Korie & Pete were students at Penn State when they first met. “I didn’t really believe in that,” Korie recalls of the storybook tales of falling in love the moment you met someone. But with Pete, “I knew there was something very special about him.” The rest, as they say, is history.

The Proposal: Pete spared no sweetness when planning the perfect moment to pop the question. Ahead of dinner at their favorite restaurant with both his & her families, Pete arranged for the dessert menu to be designed just for them. “He changed the name of each dessert to say something about us- one was ‘Pear Shaped Surprise,’” and a short while later, he got down on one knee with a pear-shaped diamond engagement ring. “It was very cute! We have the menu framed in our home as a reminder of the special day,” Korie swooned.

Details of the Day: 

The Reeds: “I wanted a semi-destination wedding since we had a lot of out-of-town guests. I aimed to find a location where our guests would feel like they were not only there for a wedding, but also a vacation,” said Korie.  Ease of access to all of the family-friendly activities in Stone Harbor -especially the beach-made The Reeds the ideal location. Not one to be passionate about planning, Korie loved that The Reeds team of experts made everything “easy and seamless.” 

The Dress: The only requirement for Korie when shopping for her bridal gown: make it timeless. “I wanted something simple, with minimal detailing. Nothing trendy. Something that I could look back on in 30 years and still love.” We think she nailed her goal with a sleek silhouette from Anne Barge, complemented by bridesmaid gowns in the same tone.

First Dance: Elvis serenaded the couple  with lyrics reminiscent of their real-life, love-at-first-sight story, “Darling, so it goes, some things are meant to be, take my hand, take my whole life too, for I can’t help falling in love with you.”

Favorite Moment: Say what you mean, mean what you say. Rather than selecting from the age-old “standard” vows, Korie and Pete wrote their own and fondly reminisce on how special it was to have handwritten, heartfelt words to exchange before each other, and of course, their friends & family.

Advice for Other Couples: “Relax and enjoy the day! It goes so fast – I know that’s what everyone says, but it’s so true! Try to relish in every moment and remember to eat!”

Vendor List:

Florist: Coventry Crossing

Photographer: Madeline Broderick

Cake: The Reeds

Hair & Makeup: Gabriella and Sage Cifaloglio

Invitations: Minted

Dress: Anne Barge

Groom’s Attire: The Black Tux

Entertainment: Go Go Gadget

Flip through the pages of The Knot, Modern Luxury Weddings, or NJ Bride, and you’ll find one consistent fact: no rules restrict the personalization of your special day. What’s more, it’s now believed that if a tradition doesn’t ring true to you as a couple, it’s OK to skip it. We’re in brand new territory in the wedding realm, and it’s one that’s filled with loving sentiment and limitless imagination. Here are a few fun options to make your wedding day feel genuinely unique, inspired by some of our very own Reeds’ couples…

Matching Monograms Longstanding etiquette sensibilities meet modern tradition when couples design and incorporate a monogram into wedding day décor. From invitations to embroidery, the options are endless, but we adore this “something blue” rendition from L & D that honors not only their new life & shared last name, but also commemorates their wedding date for the rest of their days.

Serena Star Photography

Nod to Your New Name For brides, and their fathers, taking on a new name after the nuptials can bring up some strong emotions. We love how Tricia’s dad honored her new husband and celebrated his little girl’s new name (Sharkey) by surprising the pair with a dance to Jimmy Buffet’s legendary song “Fins” complete with shark fin headbands for all!

Nicole Klym Photography

Individualized Invitations Think beyond basic color palettes and paper quality. Instead, envision a completely custom suite of stationary honoring the state where you grew up or consider incorporating a delicately designed wax seal or a piece of your favorite poetry. Last summer, Natalie and Tommy evoked the atmosphere of their upcoming engagement party for guests by commissioning a watercolor rendition of The Reeds’ breathtaking views as the backdrop for the invitations.

Persnickety Invitation Studio

Very Personal Vows Promises are what your partnership is built on, and no one can speak to the special bond you share better than you can. By taking the time to write your vows, you’ll enable guests to catch a glimpse into the magic of your matrimony, as well as share your most personal sentiments with your new spouse.

Madeline Broderick Photography

Trendy Transportation The party don’t start ‘til you walk in, so you might as well make it a memorable entrance! Arrive by boat for a waterfront ceremony at The Reeds or choose a classic muscle car to end your fairytale with a farewell to remember.

Danielle Nowak Photography

This past New Year’s Eve, we were lucky enough to be part of a picture-perfect proposal in Stone Harbor. We asked the newly engaged couple to share their love story and a bit about the proposal. Epitomizing the Nicholas Sparks quote, “Every great love story starts with a great story,” we’re honored to share Christy & Matt’s fairytale, in their own words...

“Christy and Matt met for the first time back in 1st grade at Shaeffer Elementary school in Camp Hill.  They grew up on the same street; Willow Avenue. They were always friends but nothing more. The boys often played at our house growing up and the girls played at Christy’s house with St. John’s Alley as the only thing standing in between.

The years went by and as junior high and high school came around they flirted in class from time to time, had fun in the halls together and saw each other out at parties but nothing romantic ever blossomed from it and neither thought of the other in that way. After graduation they never saw each other again.

So college came and went and it had been almost 8 years since they last saw each other. Christy was busy working in the finance world and enjoying New York City after graduating college at Hofstra while Matt was waiting tables and bartending in Harrisburg after graduating from the University of Delaware while planning his move to Philadelphia for medical school and living the single life.

After a night of waiting tables in downtown Harrisburg, Matt and his good buddy went out for some drinks to their favorite local bar, Zembie’s; planning to blow all the tip money they had earned for the evening. During a few laughs, out of nowhere, in walks this girl from the past smiling ear to ear and batting her eyelashes as she approached them. Matt remembers being instantaneously captivated by her and thinking to himself in that moment: Who is this girl? It was Christy Diebold and she looked all grown up.  She was stunning; straight off a train home from NYC for Mother’s Day weekend. Something was different about this girl after all these years.

The connection between the pair was instantaneous for both of them and something neither one could ignore. So much that they spent the entire night laughing, telling stories, flirting with each other and catching up on old times until the sun came up. Matt vividly remembers sitting next to Christy at one fateful point in the night feeling something he had never felt before. It was an unexpected feeling that he wasn’t used to in those young and casual single days, but it hit him hard. Christy was sitting next to Matt on the kitchen counter of the Shenk house on 27th street in Camp Hill, staring at the floor with a mischievous smirk on her face and swinging her legs after one big laugh. There was a moment of silence between them. Something came over Matt.  He looked over at Christy and told her honestly, in that moment, that she was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen in his life. Christy smiled as big as could be and Matt seized the moment and kissed her. Both Christy and Matt remember it being thunder and lighting…fireworks; an electric feeling neither had felt before in their lives.

Something big was in the air.

The next week Matt called Christy and they had a great conversation, picking up right where they left off.  Matt had planned to take a train up to New York City to surprise Christy at her office with flowers and take her out.  But as life would have it, Matt had heard that Christy was currently dating some other guys in NYC at the time and as a result, like many young, arrogant men do, he let the opportunity and the moment pass them by over his ego.  A mistake he would later regret and learn from.

After that magical night Matt began to call Christy his “Unicorn.” The one that got away. The girl he always wanted but missed his chance with. He told all his friends over and over to the point that eventually the entire town of family friends was well versed in the subject. Over the next couple of years Christy would drop hints here and there for Matt to come after her when they saw each other. A friend or two would try to get them together whenever the opportunity presented, and they would both secretly try to find out if the other would be around at common social events amongst mutual friends. They both wanted each other but neither had the guts to drop their pride and say it. Then one night, out of the blue, Matt got a call from Christy in the late hours. It had been a long time since they last spoke; maybe a year. When Matt picked up the phone the conversation flowed as it always did, flirting and teasing each other. But on this night Christy dropped the biggest and final hint of all for Matt to make his move. Matt knew it was now or never to go after her.

However, the foolishness of a young man is hard to explain sometimes I fear. 10 years went by and Matt would often dream of taking the train to NYC to surprise Christy and tell her how he thought about her and Christy would dream of what it would be like if they were together if he ever came after her. But Matt never made his move out of pride and Christy had too much dignity to make it any more clear. So both Matt and Christy entered into relationships with other people over the next 8-10 years. But no matter what, every time they saw each other the tension was palpable, the chemistry between them never disappeared and the feelings they had only became stronger as time passed.

So as the stars aligned, one summer a few years ago, they found themselves spending a lot of time around each other with mutual friends. There was a memorable late summer night out at the bars in Stone Harbor, in which they both couldn’t stop talking to each other or keeping their eyes off each other. Old feelings that had been suppressed and harbored away for so long came rushing back to the forefront and that chemistry and attraction came boiling to the surface undeniable. In the words of Nicholas Sparks, ”the heart wants what the heart wants.” Carpe Diem Matt remembers thinking. As the night ended, Matt and Christy found themselves together sitting on a boardwalk bench at 30th street. Matt remembers the same feeling come over him from 10 years earlier on that kitchen counter. It was time to bring this ship into shore. He wasn’t about to miss his second chance at the girl he never let go of in his mind; his “Unicorn.” Matt took a deep breath and mustered up the courage to tell Christy all the thoughts and feelings he held onto over the previous 10 years. He told her about how he had never let go of that feeling when they first kissed and the memories of the girl who changed him that night. Tears welled in Christy’s eyes as she opened up and told him in return all the feelings she had for him and had hidden away all those years. She told him how she had tried to find him at parties and events or show up wherever she heard he would be just for a chance to see him. 

The the moment was too much for Christy’s emotions. She stood up abruptly and ran away! Matt was in disbelief. After the mistakes he had made in the past by never chasing after her when all the signs and hints were there, he knew with all the certainty in his heart that he was never going to let her slip away again. So he ran after her down the street as fast as he could. Without a warning he grabbed her, looked into her eyes and kissed her with all the feelings they both held onto over the years.

Like a time machine 10 years earlier, it was thunder and lighting all over again but the fireworks this time were even stronger for all the years of wanting and waiting. Christy said it wouldn’t be easy. Matt said he didn’t care. If they both held on to this feeling for all this time after one magical night years ago, then they both knew that neither one would ever let go.

They both held on to each other in their hearts against all odds. What they found was true love.

In the words of the great Walt Whitman: ‘We were together…I forget the rest.’”

Does it get any more magical than that? It just might- when the pair marries at The Reeds on June 1, 2019!

Their Story: Ask Jenna about the day that Patrick asked her to be his girlfriend, and you might just see her crack a smile and giggle. “She, fortunately, said yes...but she’s never let me live it down,” Pat recalls. The moment was more than a year in the making after the pair met through mutual friends at a small get together. “We maybe said two words to each other that night, but over the course of our senior year we started to get to know one another better and things began to ‘click.’” Then at “the most unromantic time” - as Pat lugged boxes down the stairs to help Jenna move out of her apartment post-graduation - he got up the courage to ask her if she might consider being more than friends...

The Proposal: As Jenna prepared to make the trek to State College, PA for a Blake Shelton concert, Pat let her know that they would be having dinner with his parents that night and suggested that she wear a dress - since it was going to be “fancy” - and maybe even treat herself to a manicure. The couple was quickly approaching their destination when Pat’s mom called and informed them she was running late requesting that they swing by campus for her to pick up some important papers from a colleague, which is when the story began to unfold. Jenna remembers thinking to herself “it’d be nice to have some pictures of the two of us taken here” as she noticed a photographer snapping shots of two young girls in front of Old Main, a classic fixture on campus. As they got closer to the steps, “Patrick reached for my hand, got down on one knee, and made a nice speech that neither of us can remember. Once I said yes, he told me the woman who was taking pictures of the two little girls was actually hired to take pictures of us secretly!” Looking back, Jenna knows she caught a good one, “I now remember mentioning to Pat in passing that I'd love to have my nails polished and pictures taken of our proposal. Little did I know that he had been taking mental notes that would make the day perfect!”

Details of the Day:

The Reeds: With beautiful bayside views, flexible indoor/outdoor ceremony set-ups to alleviate any weather concerns, and easy access to Stone Harbor’s beaches & boutiques, eateries & entertainment for guests, the future Mr. & Mrs. Kuhn knew that The Reeds was the picture-perfect setting for their big day.

The Dress: Jenna was sure that a strapless dress wasn’t for her - until she tried on a stunning mermaid style satin gown with intricate lace design over the bodice from Essense of Australia. From that moment, she was quick to decide that this was the dress.

The Signature Cocktail: Some say that dog is man’s (and woman’s) best friend, and that holds true for Jenna & Pat. In honor to their Bernese Mountain Dog - waiting patiently for the pair to return home as a married couple - guests at the Kuhn wedding enjoyed signature Bay Breeze cocktails fondly named to as “The Harper.”

First Dance: “Rich or poor, rain or shine, the wind's gonna blow wherever it goes. And the road is gonna wind. Doesn't matter if it's diamonds or twine. Forevermore, I'll be yours and you'll be mine”   - Diamonds & Twine by Ryan Hand

Favorite Moment: Jenna kept the details of her dress, hair, and makeup under lock & key leading up to their wedding day, so it’s no surprise that she and Patrick both agreed on their favorite moment being the first-look. Jenna reminisced, “It had been over a year of waiting...we were so overwhelmed with emotion when we finally saw each other that day.”

Advice for Other Couples: “Our advice would be not to sweat the small stuff. Remember why you are getting married in the first place and that at the end of the day you are celebrating your relationship with the people that you love and care for most.”

Vendor List: •    Florist: Coventry Crossing Florist •    Photographer: Rachel Pearlman Photography •    Cake: The Reeds •    Hair & Makeup: ONLO Beauty •    Invitations: Alexa Nelson Prints (Etsy) •    Dress: Ellie’s Bridal Boutique Alexandria, VA •    Groom’s Attire: Black by Vera Wang •    Entertainment: A-1 Entertainment

📸: Magdalena Studios

Small pops of color in the garden, warm bay breezes, and sunshine-filled afternoons are just a few of the signs of spring that have begun to appear throughout Stone Harbor. Symbolic beacons of new life, these small signs got us thinking about some of the creative signage that couples have used at The Reeds to enhance both the guest experience and the overall aesthetic by adding a touch of personality to the party! Seek some inspiration below...

📸: Maddie Broderick

📸: Danielle Nowak

📸: Jac & Jules

📸: Anastasia Romanova

Their Story: In January 2014, Elizabeth began attending classes at a DJ Music Production School in New York City and was fortunate enough to be able to crash at her brother’s apartment across the river in Hoboken where he was attending Stevens University whenever she had class. Towards the end of her first month of classes, Elizabeth joined her brother & some of his buddies from the Stevens’ soccer team for dinner before they headed out for an evening of fun. As the group of friends gathered at the apartment, Elizabeth noticed a “new and very handsome tall blonde-haired guy” that she hadn’t met before, making a point to have one of her brother’s roommates initiate a proper introduction. As the night went on, Zeke gathered some ‘Liquid Courage’ - his words! - and struck up a conversation with Elizabeth about her clearly superior soccer skills. Smiles & laughter ensued as the pair playfully bantered until it was time to head to the bars on Washington Street- and then kept talking as they walked...and then he bought her her favorite drink, and asked her to dance, and even tried to kiss her once or twice...or three times! After walking her home, Zeke turned to Elizabeth and asked, “If I can’t give you a kiss, can I at least have your number?” She obliged and over the next several months, the pair became fast friends as they shared new interests, experiences, and eateries. They met weekly at their favorite coffee shop for Mass, Zeke arranged surprise visits to see Elizabeth at home, and he even took her to Washington Square to dance along to a mixtape of their favorite songs. By Labor Day, it was clear that their friendship had evolved to more of a love story, and on September 13th they made their relationship official at their favorite Thai restaurant in her hometown of Harrisburg. The rest, the pair says, “is history.”

The Proposal: During the summer of 2014, Elizabeth showed Zeke her happy place- her family’s second home in Avalon- and shared with him her dream of getting engaged on the dock there. Three years later, they were planning a trip to that very place for a monumental moment: introducing their families to one another! When Zeke’s family called on Saturday afternoon with news that they were a bit delayed on their drive from Louisville, KY and wouldn’t arrive until the following morning, Zeke decided to go for a run while Elizabeth opted to hang outside on the dock with her sister to catch some sun. When Zeke returned from his run, he joined the girls for a few minutes before asking Elizabeth if she wouldn’t mind hanging out with him in the house for a bit so that he could cool off. Elizabeth pushed back, insisting on spending just ‘five more minutes’ outside before they finally began to head back towards the house. As she neared the higher level of the dock Elizabeth heard Zeke’s voice call out, “Liz!” and as she turned around, there he was, down on one knee, ring in hand, asking, “Will you marry me?” She ran towards him with her jaw dropped, enveloped him in a huge hug, and stared with wide eyes at the gorgeous ring in total shock and amazement. He nudged, jokingly, “Well...are you going to say YES?” Her answer: “Yes, of course, I love you so much!” Captivated by the moment, Elizabeth hadn’t even noticed that not only was her entire family secretly watching- so was Zeke’s. A picture perfect surprise.

Details of the Day:

The Reeds: The saying which goes, “the sea, once it casts its spell, holds one in its net of wonder forever,” couldn’t be more true for Elizabeth, who spent her childhood summers living by the shore knowing that someday she would marry there, too. When she & Zeke started their venue search, a quick look online introduced them to the other end of Seven Mile Island and, more specifically, The Reeds. “I knew this place had great potential, however, the pictures did not do The Reeds justice!” recalled Elizabeth. From the resort’s bustling location in the heart of Stone Harbor to the blue-gray shingles & blooming hydrangea bushes bordering the hotel, the Nantucket vibe convinced the couple that this place was going to be something truly special from the moment they arrived. “I immediately fell in love with the cozy and chic fireplace, bar & lounge...I could already envision our guests coming in and being so excited for a fun weekend getaway! With each successive room we saw, we fell more and more in love with the elegant, modern look it presented while still incorporating a subtle beach vibe.” When the couple saw the Sweet Grass Ballroom and envisioned a bayside cocktail reception at sunset, the decision was a “no-brainer,” and they began counting down the days until their big-day by the bay.

The Dress: The drama is always in the details, and Elizabeth’s fitted mermaid style gown was dripping in delicate lace accents from the scalloped sleeves to the delightful button-down back all the way through the dazzling train of tulle. Swoon. 

First Dance: One of Elizabeth’s fondest memories from her wedding day was standing at the altar and seeing Zeke, “I’ll never forget how excited I felt to be marrying my best friend that day!” Knowing that there’s no better mate for her than Zeke, it’s only fitting that their first dance song, Coming Home by Leon Bridges, serenaded them with the soulful lyrics, “Baby, baby, babe. I'm coming home. To your tender sweet loving. You're my one and only woman.”

Favorite Moment: A timeless tradition punctuated with tacky outfits and a sneaky surprise. Zeke put his own twist on the “removal of the garter” ceremony, having the DJ blast “Get Your Freak On” by Missy Elliot as he goofily danced around his bride in a Miami-style bucket hat & sunglasses (souvenirs from his Bachelor Party) in a classic show of his infectious sense of humor.

Advice for Other Couples: “Enjoy every part of getting ready for your special celebration because it’s such an exciting adventure that you will only get one chance to experience.” At the same time, Elizabeth reflected, it’s important that you “remember not to sweat the little things because in the end you still get to marry your best friend that day and nothing else matters. Rain or shine on your big day - the celebration will go on and your day will be full of happiness and joy as you celebrate with the people you love the most!” 

Vendor List:

Florist: Petal + Paper

Photographer: Danielle Nowak Photography

Cake: The Reeds

Hair & Makeup: Chic Cosmetique

Invitations: Minted

Dress: Pronovias

Groom’s Attire: J Crew

Entertainment 

Ceremony: BVTLive

Cocktail Hour & Reception: DJ Anthony Dubbz of Headliners

Dogs may not be our whole lives, but they sure seem to make life whole. 

For countless centuries, they've been referred to as man's best friend, and everyone knows that there is no love as fierce as that of a dog-mama for her precious pup. While having Fido present for your entire wedding day may be a bit worrisome, we're positive that these Reeds’ portraits from the past will inspire some family photos that you can look back on together forever...

“Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make his tail wag.” - Kinky Friedman Photo: Pat Robinson

“My fashion philosophy is, if you’re not covered in dog hair, your life is empty.” - Elayne Boosler Photo: Danielle Nowak

“Everyone thinks they have the best dog, and none of them are wrong.” - W.R. Purche Photo: Danielle Nowak

“How beautiful it is to find someone who asks for nothing but your company.” - Brigitte Nicole Photo: Marie Labbancz

“If the kindest souls were rewarded with the longest lives, dogs would outlive us all.” - Unknown Photo: KC Mitchell + Kati Seelbach

“My little dog- a heartbeat at my feet.” - Edith Wharton Photo: Pat Robinson

Hosting a destination wedding? 

Their Story: Thanksgiving Weekend is known across the country as being a time for hometown reunions & mutual friend introductions, and that’s precisely how Josh & Meredith’s initial connection was created. It was 2014 when some friends introduced the pair at a popular bar in Belmar, NJ- small talk ensued, then a date the next weekend, and soon enough it was certain- “we would ultimately be together forever.”

The Proposal: On a sunny Saturday morning, Josh & Meredith put on their suits, grabbed some towels, and headed to the beach- Meredith had no idea that Josh had packed something extra: a shimmering ring carefully set in a box. After setting up their chairs, they strolled down to the shoreline, together recounting a sign of good luck that they had received earlier that week. At that moment, Josh dropped to one knee and made Meredith his fiancé!

Details of the Day:

The Reeds: Both Josh & Meredith agreed after attending a wedding at The Reeds in October 2015- “The décor, the view, and the overall ambiance of the venue are so beautiful, and obviously memorable, that we knew we should go take a look when we were deciding on a venue.” After a quick tour, all it took was a glance to know that they simply had to have their wedding by the harbor.

The Dress: Simple. Memorable. Different. Those were the three general criteria set forth for Meredith’s dream dress. Then, there were the details: No lace, no gems, no sparkles. Smooth, form-fitting fabric with a high neckline and plunging open back. While slightly challenging to find, the stylists at The Lovely Bride searched alongside Meredith until they were struck with a spark of inspiration- moments later, Meredith said yes! to a stylish Sarah Seven gown.

First Dance: A melodic mash-up of two moving Jack Johnson tunes: Angel & Better Together. The pair invited their parents to join in on the dance, then every couple at the party- proving that Mr. Johnson surely had the right idea about things being better together.

Favorite Moment: Details for the day including flowers & favors had two purposes: to fit the couple’s personalities and, above all, fill the room with love. When reflecting on their favorite memories of the day, it became clear that they had achieved exactly that- “we were eating dinner at our Sweetheart Table when we both looked around and saw everyone we loved in one room eating, drinking, laughing, and having a great time, which really just filled our hearts. To see them having such a great time at OUR wedding was the best feeling and everything we wanted out of our wedding day.”

Advice for Other Couples: Keeping their advice simple but steadfast, Josh and Meredith said, “Take a few moments throughout the day to step back and watch the day unfold around you as a couple, rather than always being in a conversation or thinking about what you need to do next. Also, try and say hello to as many people as you can during the cocktail hour. That way, you have the whole reception to dance together and really enjoy the moment, rather than feel like you need to work the room. And then- dance together as much as possible!”

Vendor List: 

Florist: Petal + Paper

Photographer: Anders Portfolio Photography

Cake: The Reeds

Hair & Makeup: Taffeta Hair & Makeup Design

Invitations: Perfectly Invited

Dress: Sarah Seven from The Lovely Bride NYC

Groom’s Attire: My Suit NYC 

Entertainment: The Pour Boys (Band)

When planning your wedding, your instinct may be to select a Saturday date, but we’re dishing out six ways to transform your special day into a spectacular weekend-long celebration that might just sway your strategy.

Cruise the coast...

...with your crew and let your captain be the designated boater! Start the morning with breakfast at SAX before you head down to the dock to board the boat you’ve chartered & spend the day sailing the seas while sipping your favorite spirits. What’s more fun than a White Party on the open water? One that happens on your wedding weekend, of course!

Chase some sunshine...

...on the bay or beach. For the particularly active members of your bridal party, our various bay activities including paddle boards & kayaks are the perfect way to burn off some drinking calories. A sure-fire hangover cure for those that partied a little too hard at the reception? A relaxing day spent sleeping, swimming, and catching some sun on the sandy Stone Harbor beaches.

Experience the Spa Side of life...

...at the all-new Salt Spa, debuting soon. Whether it’s for pre-wedding pampering or post-wedding recovery, the Salt Spa is the most luxurious spa experience at the Southern New Jersey shore, and it’s located just steps from your door. Floatation Therapy will transport you to cloud 9- immersing you in a deep state of relaxation that provides benefits equal to 4 hours of sleep, a Glow Start facial will bring out the brightest & freshest you, and a deluxe mani-pedi will keep things prim & polished, among other indulgent spa experiences including the Turkish Bath. 

Sip and shop...

...your way through Seven Mile Island. No matter the season, a stroll down 96th Street is sure to present you with a plethora of shopping, dining, and drinking destinations. Start with a cocktail at SAX Lounge then meander through the local boutiques that have been here for decades. Make a stop at the iconic neighborhood bar, catch a movie at the eat-in theatre, before wrapping up the afternoon with a slice, a brew, and a sunset view at the Pizza Pub!

Get in the spirit...

...with a booze cruise around Cape May County. Our little community is popping up on the craft beverage scene in a big way with more than 20 local breweries, wineries, and distilleries. Meet up with your friends & family at the Pizza Pub for your first beverage before heading out on your boozy bus trip - all while drinking responsibly with a designated driver.

Thank your guests a brunch...

The start of a new year often inspires us to reflect on the past which for many of us includes fond memories of loved ones who are no longer with us. When planning your wedding, you may be looking for some special ways to honor those who are watching your nuptials from above- cue the perfect blog post from the always insightful Magi of Magdalena Studios: 

“Weddings are one of those rare happy occasions when entire families are in the same place. Unfortunately, some of our most important family members have passed on, and we want them represented in some special way.

Here are some of my favorite suggestions for honoring parents, grandparents, and other loved ones so they can be a very present part of your wedding celebration.

A PLACE FOR MEMORIES

As a photographer, it’s probably no big surprise that this is at the top of my list. The idea is to set aside a table on which to display photos and other memorabilia honoring your loved ones. You can set up elegant framed photos, preserved bouquets, military medals… anything that represents who they were.

Decorative bulletin boards or “clothesline” displays let your guests bring their favorite photos of the people you wish to honor. You can let them know in advance with your wedding invitations, but be sure to ask them to write their names and addresses on the back so you can return them.

If you ask to hold onto the photographs for a while longer, you can scan the images and return them with a DVD “album” to those who contributed as a thank you.

ADDING A LOCKET TO YOUR BOUQUET

If you want to keep a special person close to you for your day, or especially for your walk down the aisle, a locket and photo around your bouquet is a special and sentimental way to keep that person near. It’s a beautiful and gentle reminder that they’re here with you for your entire wedding day.

THEIR FAVORITE SONGS

Music is sentimental. You’ve got your first dance song all picked out, and chances are, there’s a tune that will always make you think of someone you’ve lost. Perhaps it’s your parents’ (or grandparents’) wedding song. It could even be that old classic they’d embarrass you with as they drove you and your friends to the mall on Saturdays. If it has significant meaning, it can be a moving part of your day. Dedicate a song just for them, and invite those closest to that person to join you on the dance floor.

A TABLE SET WITH HEIRLOOMS

Most couples these days aren’t interested in holding onto their grandmother’s china, and the tradition of giving elaborate dinnerware as wedding gifts has long since passed. That doesn’t mean you haven’t inherited a beautiful set of Spode or Royal Copenhagen, or that it doesn’t hold meaning for you.

If you have family china… or if another family member would lend you what they’ve kept… then there’s no better occasion than your wedding day to dine off a family heirloom. This is a wonderful idea for intimate weddings, or for place settings at the bridal table.

A SPECIAL DINNER TOAST

An alternative to a dedicated dance might be a dinner toast honoring lost loved ones. During this speech, you might also point out other honorariums incorporated into your day, like that locket in your bouquet, your groom’s father’s cufflinks, or the topper from your aunt’s own cake.

Just a note: These toasts can be tricky, especially if another family member feels their spouse, child, or parent has been left out, or if an elderly family member is honored in the same toast as the deceased… or not at all.

SOMETHING BORROWED

Some brides decide to sew or pin a part of a family member’s wedding gown into her own or wear a piece of jewelry once belonging to—or given by—someone special. These are classic traditions, but they’re still powerful tributes today…

A WALK DOWN THE AISLE

Did you grow up with the dream that your father would walk you down the aisle? He still can, if you decorate pew ends with photographs of your dad, or place photos on easels along the way. Of course, you can include other loved ones’ photographs too. Look for simple hanging ornament frames to hang from floral arrangements if you want to be more subtle.

THEIR MEMORY LIVES ON IN YOUR WEDDING PHOTOS

You’re joining together and celebrating two families on your wedding day, and creating new traditions. While my main focus on my wedding couples, they’re always delighted when their final albums include tributes to their family history. It’s part of what makes them heirloom albums, something they’ll keep forever.

How would you like to acknowledge those who’ve passed on? If you’d like my thoughts on making the above ideas work for your wedding, please get in touch! I’ve seen many wonderful tributes put into practice without conflicting with a wedding’s overall aesthetic, and I can share my thoughts from a photographer’s perspective so you can be sure they’ll become part of your wedding story.”

Their Story: It was 2011 when Nikki & her college roommate packed their bags and headed to Hoboken to settle in and start their careers. It wasn’t long before Nikki & Steve were introduced to one another, initiating a series of interactions that would eventually lead them down the aisle.

“There was definitely interest from the start,” recalls Nikki, “we met a few times casually before a chance encounter at a Hoboken bar.” The couple’s chemistry that evening was undeniable- “it was one of those conversations where you feel like you’ve known that person forever. I think we both knew something was different…”

The Proposal: They say the best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry. No matter how perfectly planned a proposal is, a flight may still be delayed once or twice- or three times, in this case. “Steve spent several months planning the perfect trip to France for the two of us, but when the day finally came, our flight was canceled.” Clueless as to the real purpose of the trip, Nikki couldn’t fathom why a delayed flight would cause Steve to become so flustered. 

Steve regrouped- he booked a limo to take he & Nikki to the airport for their rescheduled flight. On the way there, he got down on one knee to propose. Champagne was popped, pictures were snapped, and the couple was back on track to celebrate their future in France. After arriving at JFK, the couple giddily waited in their terminal for over 8 hours before, once again, being sent home. 

Fast forward through another 6 hours of waiting in a terminal and Steve & Nikki finally board their flight and begin to doze off when the pilot announces that due to mechanical issues, they must deboard the plane. After yet another 4 am trip home and a totally of 48 hours’ worth of delays, Nikki & Steve laughed off the stress and were, at last, on their way to France. “It was certainly unforgettable,” reflects Nikki, “perfectly imperfect.”

Details of the Day:

The Reeds: Both Nikki & Steve are self-proclaimed “beach people,” and throughout their relationship, the couple spent countless hours savoring the Jersey Shore. “We looked at a lot of wedding venues and were set on finding something that felt like ‘us.’ The Reeds felt different than other traditional wedding venues- it has a casual elegance and simplicity that we struggled to find elsewhere- and the view is to die for!”

The Dress: After trying on countless long-sleeved lace gowns, Nikki felt discouraged by the fact that she hadn’t found “the one,” so she took a huge risk and ordered her wedding gown online from Australian designer Grace Loves Lace. The dress arrived a mere month before the October 5th wedding, and when Nikki slid it on, she sighed with relief, “it just felt like me, and I was in love with the open back & long train. Plus, I knew that Steve would love the effortless boho vibe.”

Details for Dad: It was essential to Nikki & Steve that they pay homage to their loved ones in heaven on their wedding day, both having lost their fathers. In lieu of favors, and honor of our fathers, we donated to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society in the hopes of helping families in need. Nikki also included her father’s cross, one that had been passed down to him from his father, by attaching it to her bouquet; in this way, her father was present to walk his little girl down the aisle.

First Look: “We decided to do a first look, and just before the big reveal we read notes that we had written to each other that morning. We couldn’t stop laughing because we wrote almost the same thing to each other! It was a really special moment we were able to have alone before the ceremony and reception, and I’m so glad we decided to do it,” Nikki said. 

First Dance: “I Got You” by Jack Johnson

Favorite Moment: Few brides would report that having rain on their wedding day was one of their “favorite moments,” but that’s precisely what stands out in Nikki’s mind. “The forecast was perfect- 75 degrees and sunny- all week, but when I woke up that morning, things had changed, and the predictions called for complete cloud coverage.” Since there was still no precipitation in the forecast, the couple proceeded with their plans to hold their ceremony outdoors. “Right as we began to say our vows it started to sprinkle. Our guests seemed a little concerned, and even our officiant wasn’t sure if she should continue. At that moment, all I could do was laugh- it was memorable and again, made for one of those perfectly imperfect moments.”

Advice for Other Couples: Nikki offered two sound snippets of information for other couples. Most importantly, “stick to your gut and do what feels like you as a couple – not what “the rules” say!” And, taking a lesson from their engagement trip to France, “don’t sweat the small stuff… If anything goes wrong, take a moment to remember the real reason you’re there- at the end of the day that’s what matters most!”

Vendor List:

Florist: Leigh Florist

Photographer: Saltwater Studios

Cake: The Reeds

Hair: Boho Bridal Salon

Makeup: Shimmer and Spice 

Invitations: Shine Wedding Invitations

Dress: Grace Loves Lace

Groom’s Attire: Indochino

Entertainment: Pat & Sean Kelly (cocktail hour), Lovesick (ceremony and reception)

📸: Lauren Fischer Photography

Your Pinterest board is full of portrait inspiration for your wedding day, right? Some are of the bride, many are of the happy couple, and a handful capture the bride & her gals getting ready. But how many shots of the handsome groom do you have planned? This detail can be easy to overlook- especially if your man isn’t particularly fond of having his photo taken- BUT, take it from the experts when we say: Don’t forget your dude! He’ll treasure the memories as much as you do when you get to reflect on those butterfly feelings you both experienced in the moments leading up to those magic words: I now pronounce you Mr & Mrs…

Here are a few of our favorite shots from recent weddings at The Reeds!

Tying the Knot

As the anticipation of seeing his blushing bride builds, the groom’s school-boy smiles often make an appearance. Capture the giddy-goodness as he ties the knot before tying THE knot.  📸: Danielle Nowak Photography

The Dapper is in the Detail

Evocative of a James Bond movie (or James Dean, if that’s more your style), detail shots that highlight simple moments- such as buttoning a cufflink or straightening a boutineer- add a touch of effortless elegance to your gallery. 📸: Kaitlyn Noel Photography

Pre-Grooming with the Guys

Your wedding will bring together groups of people who haven’t seen each other in “ages” including childhood friends, high school teammates, college roommates, and more. Snap some shots of those friends that have been by your side through thick & thin, these are the people who helped shape your guy into your dream husband, after all. Pro Tip: frame the photo to use as ‘thank you’ gift post-honeymoon. 📸: Saltwater Studios

Men in Black (& White)

Plain and simple: black & white portraits never go out of style. Set up shop in SAX Lounge for a striking portrait worthy of a centerfold in your wedding album. 📸: Rachel Pearlman Photography

Best Foot Forward

While you’re focused on jewelry, florals, and hairpieces, your guy has more limited options when it comes to expressing himself through accessories. Should your guy choose snazzy socks to do so, we love the idea of a group photo showing the guys putting their “best foot” forward. 📸:  Twisted Oaks Studio

Husband in Train(ing)