We build too many walls and not enough bridges

With success comes ugliness at times. Prepare for that big friend group to get smaller for Hudson. Unfortunately, success and wealth reveals people for who they are, including those around the successful person.

We’ve seen that Hudson has not been impacted by fame in his personality- he still comes across as fairly normal. If anything, he seems to be actively working to stay that way.

Unfortunately, we’ve seen in the past few weeks the same is not true for his friend group. I wrote about Hudson outgrowing his old Vancouver friend group recently and with his historic win Sunday, it seems even more relevant. It would actually be odd if some of his friend circle didn’t resort to this behavior - it’s sadly a natural human response in some, especially since Hudson’s life is taking him further away. People don’t like it when you no longer fit into the box they have for you. We know Hudson is going to be spending more time in LA, New York, and around the world. He has reached a level of public success most will never see, which is especially challenging for people in his group who also aspire to achieve his level of success.

Resentment comes with that success in the form of passive aggressive behavior as an indirect way to express hurt, anger, or a desire for control. It can also manifest as covert hostility such as backhanded compliments or joking comments to belittle the person who has achieved success.

I say all that to say people do this when they see people actively slipping away. Secure people do not act this way. They are actually revealing more about what is happening behind the scenes than they realize. Secure friends would be protecting and congratulating Hudson, not trying to use him for clout and embarrass him. I suspect all the low-budget social media leaking is coming from those elements of his friend group trying to leverage anything they can to keep from losing access. This is somewhat similar to what we’re seeing with the sycophants obsessed with the “partner,” they are now focused on attacking others pointing out how poorly things went on Sunday. Had they had the kind of interaction they had hoped for, they would be basking in the real life proof of true love. Since that didn’t happen, they are pretending the shards of sadness they can find are good signs and ranting about supposed RPF.

The Saving Grace

However, the shortsightedness of these people will bite them eventually because Hudson actually has solid people around him to support his changing life. First and foremost is Connor - the only person on the planet experiencing the exact same thing and who also understands Hudson across all levels. People overlook that Hudson and Connor met as struggling actors and are coming up together. Connor didn’t just appear when Hudson got famous. Also, both he and Hudson seem to be connecting to solid people in the industry who genuinely have their best interests in mind - people who can subtly help them sort out the weirdness that is rearing its head now with Hudson’s personal life.

Hudson is not alone, otherwise these antics might be more effective. He has people who love him that he can trust who will counteract the negativity and help him weed out the chaff. And Hudson has the benefit of a professional team who can neutralize low-level amateur ploys - and that even includes his current management. I wouldn’t be surprised if both he and Connor make management changes over the coming year, which is also a natural progression as they reach a level of career growth that is beyond what their current management is qualified to handle.

While it is frustrating to see these weak attempts by supposed friends to keep Hudson in “his place”, it is part of human nature when money, fame, and power come into play. Be prepared for all kinds of weirdness - and we already have unfortunately with the leaks, fake accounts, etc.

I'M SO PROUD OF YOU HUDSON WILLIAMS

YOU DESERVE IT SO MUCH

And he dedicating his trophy to Connor 🥹❤️‍🩹

My chest feels heavy for Connor not being able to attend the ceremony, I miss him there and I'm sure all the crew feel it too, especially Hudson 🥺 The same feeling when Huddy couldn't make it to the GLAAD

His baby isn't there to celebrate his big moment with him, and I can only imagine how he's feeling. But I hope they can celebrate other achievements together someday 🥺

I think one of the strangest things about love is how someone can become indispensable to you so quietly.

At first, they are simply another person. Another voice drifting through your days. A passing presence you never imagine will matter this much.

And then, without noticing the exact moment it happened, they begin to exist everywhere inside you.

In the songs that suddenly feel different. In the thoughts waiting for you before sleep. In every instinctive urge to turn your head and tell them something, because they are always the first person your soul reaches for.

And one day, you realize something almost frightening: you can no longer remember what life felt like before them.

As if their existence rewrote the atmosphere around you so gently that you never even saw it happening.

I think that is part of what makes observing connections like Hudson and Connor feel so emotionally overwhelming. Because once they found each other, something in both of them seemed to shift permanently. As though the universe itself tilted slightly off balance and everything afterward began orbiting in a different direction.

There is something unbearably intimate about being truly known by another person.

To have someone learn your silences. Your unconscious habits. The hidden versions of yourself you keep tucked away from the rest of the world…

And still look at you with softness.

Still choose you with tenderness.

Maybe soulmates are not people who arrive to complete you.

Maybe they arrive to remind you that you were never supposed to carry the weight of existence alone.

To stay when the world becomes unbearable. To transform ordinary moments into something sacred. To make you feel seen so deeply it almost aches.

And honestly… what a devastatingly beautiful thing it must be to love someone so profoundly that their existence changes the entire texture of your life forever.

We live in a strange time where many people have started confusing love with constant proof. As if feelings are only real when they can be displayed, documented or publicly validated. As if the absence of a photo automatically means the absence of a connection.

But the deepest connections rarely work like that. The loudest things are not always the most meaningful ones.

Sometimes the most significant gestures are precisely those small details that appear naturally. The spontaneous mentions. The way a person becomes part of your language, your humor, your gratitude, your way of existing in the world. The way someone remains present in your mind even when they are not physically beside you.

And I think that was exactly what made Hudson’s words so beautiful.

Because nobody forced him to share that moment. Nobody necessarily expected him to do it. It was his award, his night, his recognition. And yet, when the most important moment arrived, he thought of Connor. Not in a calculated or grandiose way, but because there are people who become so deeply intertwined with you that even your victories stop feeling entirely your own.

And honestly… that says far more than any public appearance ever could.

Soulmates are not defined by being present in every photo or by constantly proving their closeness to reassure strangers on the internet. Real connections are often much quieter than people expect. They live in consistency. In tenderness. In private understanding. In recognizing who stood beside you while you were becoming the person now standing under those lights.

There is something profoundly beautiful about looking at the greatest achievement of your life and instinctively thinking: “This belongs to HIM too”.

Not everything important needs to be visible in order to be real.

And maybe that is the true meaning of all of this.

He genuinely wishes Connor could be there so much 🥹. Like we were all sad but I bet that doesn’t hold a candle to how Hudson felt about it.

It felt like he got emotional, not only because he’s probably talked with Connor about this before, but also because it really hit him in that moment that Connor wasn’t there with him accepting an award for something they achieved together.

It was so anticlimactic when he stood up to get his well deserved award, and nobody is saying you need french kiss your girlfriend on live television.. but seriously

- no hug , no kiss , not even a simple cute kiss on the cheek ..no it was a TAP ON THE SHOULDER... on top of it he basically was reheating his own Valentine's day post nachos.

What I'm trying to say is we see Hudson being so comfortable around other people ( just looks at the pictures with Sophie) .

He was hugging and close with C on live television when C was hosting SNL.

But why is every interaction between h+k so awkward, and again there is no chemistry and I'm allowed to point things out...

And the truth is he acts completely different with C ..and I'm not afraid to say it because people come on here and trying to silence us for simple observing.

And the fact that the way h+k act around each other is the bare minimum and is called perfect relationship and he is happy but at the same time clear romantic undertones with H+C is simple labeled as only platonic bestie's.