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“I don’t want other people to decide who i am. i want to decide that for myself. ” – Emma Watson

and even if you decide to withhold, the more you keep from your partner the less you receive in return. at least that’s what my experience has been thus far and why i wouldn’t necessarily consider any of my relationships successes because either i was too closed off or they were.

vulnerability is such a powerful and fragile thing. trust is so hard to earn back. how long can you be with the same person without eventually wanting more from them, and at what point do you realize that this person fulfills you, has taken your vulnerability for granted, or you have taken theirs for granted?

if you dislike someone initially, it’s because they are the things you hate most about yourself (hate) or you wish you were them (envy)

if someone copies you, it means they admire you and they can recognise originality

if you like something someone is wearing, they got it from years ago and from somewhere else….meaning in 3 years you’ll see it everywhere

if something is on clearance and you love it and haven’t been able to find it anywhere else, you buy 3 of them

it’s important to know people who are 5, 17, 24, 28, 41, 65 and 80 years old because they are the ones you will talk to for hours

if you have big feet or wear XL, buy things on sale. Your size will always be available and you can get away with wearing mens and childrens clothing (which is cheaper)

being happy means finding a job where you love your coworkers

if you’re a young girl and an older attractive man notices you and is chatting you up, he wants to have sex with you. It really is that simple and sad

to avoid the friendzone, you must be upfront and honest about your intentions. Girls, tell them immediately you think of them as a brother and guys, look at her in the eyes and tell her she’s beautiful

If you just listen, you will understand more. People who ask the right questions are great listeners.

The people who understand life and can talk to earnestly are those who grew up with little money or too much of it. The children of cleaning ladies or businessmen.

the people you should never trust are those born beautiful, vain and poor

judge people based on where they grew up, not how they look