mama said there'd be days like this

platforms like tiktok and instagram have recently become machines that pump out lolcows out of random people for brief short lived windows of time, and something that sits right with me is the perverse glee and joy people seem to get one one of these subjects of mockery eventually does something like talking explicitly with a minor for example. this sort of like "I was right to bully them all along! I could just tell by their cringe videos and ugly face that they were a creep, eurekaa!" meanwhile what they are happy about is that a child was victimized, and because they child was victimized they were proven right

Happy first birthday Osc August 4th delay!

forget age gaps or differences in rank or whatever the most potently dangerous power dynamic in any relationship is "people like you more than me"

genuinely nothing is more corrosive to love, respect, or trust than the insecurity of forever being second and last in line. of always being the plus one but never invited; always tolerated on their behalf but never wanted on your own. of knowing that nobody's jealousy or admiration is about you at all, only your place at their side. you tell them that you feel like you only exist when you're with them, and they laugh, charmed, but it isn't a figure of speech. it's not enough that they love you best if everyone else loves them better.

okay some people are misinterpreting this as talking about people who treat you like a pity project and like they're doing you a favour by choosing you. this isn't necessarily about relationships made toxic by people who don't value you enough. this is about knowing that you're socially disposable and being unable to accept the love that you're offered because you resent how much your life depends on it.

Sometimes I have to die dude I've been having meltdowns over the silvercandle figure ever since it was posted on the ii Twitter, it's over 💔 everyone subscribe if this is #relatable

when im tryna sleep but i remember that silver spoon "in my headcanons" edit i made when i was 11 that i posted to pinterest

Op you're so very brave for sharing this

big shoutout to baked potatoes

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i got high and thought this was directed at me and that Baked Potatoes was my new nickname