Quezzy The CEO

I'm just going to come out and say it... You are amazing! You are wonderful! You are irreplaceable! You are exceptional! You are more than anyone could ever hope to associate with! . . It's sad that some people will never get the chance to experience your illuminating presence. It's a shame that most people in this world will never take the time to get to know who you truly are. . . It really is their loss. Some people will go out of their way to try to make you feel inferior. They will try to make you feel like you are not worthy of them or that you are not good enough. . . Some people will try their hardest to knock you off the pedestal that you have built for yourself. But you must always remember that you deserve to be on that pedestal. . . The trials you have overcome, the hardships you have faced, the ability for you to bounce back time and time again after the entire world has knocked you down has earned you the right to stand tall and proud amongst kings and queens! . . It's not your fault that some people can't see you. it's not your problem that some people will never understand you. It's not your concern that some people will hate you for valuing yourself. . . But one thing is certain, sooner or later they're going to look back and realize that they would have been better off if they would have taken the time to respect you, learn from you, and be inspired by you. . . But while there may be many people who will never see you as you truly are, there are even more people who will! . #youareamazing #youareunique #daretobeyou #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9r6bumhOWv/?igshid=10588dg4ymnq2

People say they love us, but sometimes all they really want is for us to be their physical, emotional, and sexual punching bag. They use our want for companionship as a weapon against us. . . Have you ever been in a relationship where there was an unspoken ultimatum? You either did exactly what they wanted you to do or they were gone? . . You had to put up with hours, days, weeks, even months of no real conversation or physical contact. You drove yourself insane thinking about them cheating or lying to you. . . You had to put up with misplaced accusations and arguments about the littlest things. You were made to feel unattractive and undeserving of anyone's love or respect. . . But you put up with all of it because you wanted things to work out. You saw that little spark of potential and got caught up in the fantasy of how wonderful things could be. . . But in the end you realized it was nothing but time wasted. You agreed to put up with the stress because you thought it would be worth it... But it wasn't, and it never will be. . . life isn't perfect. Relationships aren't perfect. There will always be ups and downs. But if you get to a point where you feel like you never get a single moment of peace then it is time to let It go. . . Stress can kill you. Don't let someone who doesn't deserve you be the death of you. #relationshipgoals #dontstress #itsnotworthit #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9kM1JchJhP/?igshid=fh1hrbc1ttgt

People always try to tell you that your dreams are too big. They try to tell you that the things you want to do are impossible. They say you need to be more practical and that you should focus on being like everyone else. . . People like to form opinions about you. They use what they think they know about you and underestimate you. A lot of people think they know more about you than you do. They think they know your limitations. They think they know your strengths and weaknesses. . . But what people don't realize is they base their idea about what you can do on what THEY can do. If they can't write a book they believe you can't write one. If they can't start a business they believe you can't start one. If they can't get a job they believe you can't get one. . . The sad part is, a lot of times we believe what people tell us. If they say we can't do something we believe we can't do it. If they say our dream isn't worth chasing then we stop chasing it. . . It's time for us to start believing in ourselves. It's time for us to stop telling people everything we plan on doing. We need to start setting our goals and accomplishing them. . . We don't need anyone to pat us on the back. We don't need anyone to believe in what we are trying to do. If God puts something on your heart it usually means that it's for you. Don't let the enemy stop you from doing what you were called to do! #followyourdreams #followyourheart #doyou #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9fKKbhBuCP/?igshid=d30bnkthzhzn

It's time to stop crying. It's time to stop moping around. It's time to stop wishing that things were different. It's time for us to stop trying to force people to love us when they show us time and time again that they never will. . . It's time for us to take our life to the next level. It's time for us to reach our true potential. It's time to stop letting all of our negative feelings hold us back. . . It's time to realize that a lot of the things that we are depressed, angry, or heartbroken about we don't really need in the first place. . . We don't need another person's affection to be happy. We don't need their consent or approval. We don't need their loyalty or their honesty for us to feel complete. We have to stop letting things that aren't essential stop us from reaching our destination. . . Would it be nice to be in a happy and healthy relationship? Absolutely! Would it be nice to have someone to share our good times with? Of course it would! But we are going to become the person we are supposed to be with or without it! . . Just because someone doesn't recognize our worth doesn't mean we are not valuable. Just because someone can't see the power within us doesn't mean we are not powerful. . . But one thing is for certain. Once we reach the heights that we are destined to reach the same people that mistreated us and overlooked us will be right there acting like they were with us the whole time. . . And that's when we will realize that they did help us. Their absence pushed us forward. Their neglect made us stronger. Their mistreatment showed us how much we can take. And now we are unstoppable! #keepliving #keepgoing #keepfighting #motivation #youarepowerful #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8uNseVhTAL/?igshid=1eww6unw5yvnr

Wait! Wait! Wait! Wait! Wait! That is the secret. We get so impatient that we settle for things that we really don't want. We feel like we just have to have it now, or we feel like we are running out of time and have to take what we can get . . We get into relationships that we know are not going to last because we are lonely NOW and we don't have the patience to wait for what we really deserve. . . We waste money on things that we don't even use because we have to have something right this second. . . Each and every one of us has the power to be happy. We have the power to control our circumstances. We do not have to let outside opinions and situations affect our happiness. . . But in order to obtain the control that we desire over our own life we have to learn how to wait. It's not all about seizing every opportunity when you see it. It's about waiting for the right opportunity and then pouring your all into it. . . All of us have emptiness inside us. We have voids that ache to be filled. But the reason we are usually left unsatisfied is because we fill that emptiness with more emptiness. . . I know the wait seems like it will never end, but trust me when I say waiting is better than the alternative. It is better to wait in peace than to run around in a circle full of frustration and disappointment just so you can say you have "something" . . I know the old saying is "something is better than nothing" but when it comes to your happiness, that couldn't be further from the truth. . . #worththewait #patienceisavirtue #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8cXE37hfRk/?igshid=1v54ju47b086x

Right now you might feel like no one sees or understands what you are going through. You might feel like no one cares and that your struggle is never going to end. . . You may be surrounded by people but still feel alone. You may be struggling to make ends meet or working as hard as you can to raise children by yourself. . . You may be lonely wishing that you had someone next to you to make you feel loved and supported. You may be tired feeling like nothing that you do is ever good enough. . . Right now you may be waiting for things in your life to change. You might be waiting for an opportunity so you can finally start enjoying life. . . I just want you to know that I was told to tell you today that all of your pain, struggles, heartbreaks, and prayers are not going unseen or unheard. Right now you are being molded. You are being strengthened so you will be ready for what is to come. . . Try not to get too sad or too discouraged about all of the hardships you are facing right now. I promise you, you are about to see very soon that all of it was worth it! . . #motivation #keepgoing #youwillmakeit #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B71oJ3xhQEJ/?igshid=180it7bt6ybke

I Just wanted to share something that happened to me today. I'm sure you have all noticed that I haven't been as active on social media the last few weeks. I have been working behind the scenes putting things together for some projects I have planned for this coming year. . . A few days ago I faced some obstacles and setbacks that made me feel like all the time and resources I have invested was wasted. It didn't look like I would ever be able to take my visions to the next level. . . This morning, out of nowhere I finally got the YES I have been waiting for. I'm sure this doesn't mean that everything is going to be perfect and I'm sure I will have to fight every step of the way to make my dreams come true. . . But this made me look back at everything else I have been through in my life. There is always something I want to do. There is always a next level I want to reach. There is always some roadblock or obstacle in my way. . . But every time, it's like the second I start to believe that things aren't going to work out, something happens and BOOM! A Door opens and I am one step closer. We all have dreams. We all have plans. We all want to be loved. We all want to live comfortably. Sometimes it seems like these things will never happen. . . But believe me, all you have to do is keep living and keep fighting. Things might not happen the way you think they will, but they always seem to work out in the end. #keepgoing #keepliving #quezzytheceo #keepfighting #dontgiveup (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6q5Q3fhEHx/?igshid=11cqwa1ie271e

If it seems like they never call or text you that means your presence in their life isn't that important. If it seems like you always have to ask for quality time that means you are the only one invested in the relationship. . . When someone is important to us we miss them when they are away. We are concerned with what is happening in their lives. We want to be part of their daily activities and help them live the life they always wanted to live. . . But we must understand that we cannot force people to value our presence. We cannot make people miss us or want to spend time with us. We must recognize when we are in a relationship by ourselves. . . The worst thing we can do is beg for someone's attention. That is the part that really hurts. That is the part that lowers our self-esteem. . . begging for someone's attention makes us feel like we don't deserve to be acknowledged. It makes us feel like we're not good enough. . . Don't try to change someone's mind about loving you. If they do they do and if they don't they don't. Either way you are amazing and will find your happiness with it without them. #selflove #relationships #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6jSczrBgm3/?igshid=11odil79eg2wa

Showing people we care about them is not something we should do only on special occasions, but any reason to celebrate positivity and good will towards people is alright with me! . . But please remember, as you take time to display your love and generosity this holiday season, don't forget to bestow some of that good cheer and positive energy upon yourself. . . Some people will be alone for the holidays. Some people will be working. Some people will be sad remembering lost loved ones or wishing they could spend the holidays with the people they care about. . . No matter what your situation may be, remember that this is supposed to be a joyous time. Do not let negativity make its way into your heart and rob you of your happiness. . . Please remember that you have a lot to be thankful for, you have a lot to live for, and you have a lot left to do. . . If you are feeling down this holiday season I am talking to you. Your prayers are being heard. Your time is coming. The change you have been waiting for is being prepared for you right this very moment. . . Now if that isn't something to be joyous about then I don't know what is!🙌🙌😀😀 #happyholidays #behappy #merrychristmas #selflove #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6Trvk6hJR6/?igshid=1e7e31fjnwn60

Every single day we wake up feeling defeated. We wake up ready to give up. We might even wake up wishing that we didn't wake up. . . Sometimes it seems like we are getting closer to our happiness and then something happens out of nowhere and snatches it all the way. . . We cannot control life. We cannot plan for every possibility or circumstance. Things are going to happen that test our determination. Things are going to happen to see how bad we really want it. . . Out of all of the things we can't control there is one thing that we can do. We can keep fighting! We can make sure that we have given life everything we have. . . But why? What's the point? . . It's simple. You want to make sure that your unhappiness it's not your fault. Many of us get hit with a few obstacles and give up not knowing that our victory is around the next corner. . . All great success comes after a period of great unrest. . . That is how you know that your happiness is close by. If you feel stressed, peace is on its way. If you feel depressed, happiness is right around the corner. If you feel lonely, companionship it at your door. . . All you have to do is keep fighting. #positivityismypurpose #positivevibes #motivation #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6MGCLnBibo/?igshid=15co8q27y99ze

The struggle is very real out here. We seem to have just enough money to barely pay our bills. We seem to have just enough free time in a day to eat, take a bath, and get ready to grind another day. . . There's so much we still want to do with our life but sometimes it seems like they are just fantasies that will never become reality. At certain points throughout our journey we start to give up on the idea of ever being happy . . Some of us are single and lonely but we don't have the time or energy to do anything about it. We don't have the resources to go out every week to try to meet new people and even if we did, at this point we start to feel like "what's the point". . . Some of us are in a relationship that is headed absolutely nowhere but we rather keep the evil we have rather than go out and find someone else who's going to treat us just as bad. . . Ok. Now that we have gotten that out of our system, its time to pick our head up and dry our eyes because the battle is far from over! Our happiness is not an option, it is a requirement! . . Everything that we have been through has prepared us for this. We made it this far and we will definitely make it the rest of the way. We will succeed! We will find everything that we are looking for! . . I know it's hard but we have to tap into the strength that we already know we have. We have to turn off those loud negative thoughts and listen to that tiny voice that is telling us to keep going. . . I know it is hard to believe, but your victory is closer than you think. You wanted a sign. Well here it is. . . #motivation #wordsofencouragement #positivity #keepgoing #youwillmakeit #quezzytheceo (at Myrtle Beach, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B502uhaBmWT/?igshid=1500bs0po10ko

There are people out there who have nothing. Absolutely nothing. No family or friends to comfort them or make them feel safe. No consistent food or water. No one to teach them or guide them so they can become the people they are supposed to be. . . With everything that goes on in life, sometimes it's hard to remember that there are people who have it way worse than we do. No matter how bad we think things are, they could always be worse. . . That is why it is so important to be thankful for the things you have. You have to remember to show appreciation for where you are in your life right now. Do you have one family member? How about one friend? How about $1 to your name? Do you have somewhere to lay your head at night? Do you eat once a day? . . If you can answer yes to at least one of those questions then you have something to be thankful for. You don't have to wait until everything in your life is perfect in order to show appreciation. I have a secret for you. Things will never be perfect. You will always want more. You will always strive to do better. That's why it is important to truly respect every part of the journey. . . Giving thanks should not be once a year. It is something you should do every single day. One day it will all be over. One day you will run out of time. One day you will no longer have a chance to appreciate everything you have right now. So if nothing else, let's be thankful that today is not that day. #quezzytheceo #happythanksgivng #thanksgiving2019 #thankful #positivevibes #positivityismypurpose #appreciation (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5YlWthhkwR/?igshid=1gh299kopfuuj

I want to find love, but what if I'm not good enough? I want to make more money, but what if I'm not qualified enough? I want to try some new things, but what if I'm not brave enough? I want to meet some new people but what if I'm not outgoing enough? I want to reach my goals but what if I can't? . . These are all the things that go through our head when it's time for us to make the decisions that can move us forward in life. The little voice that makes us doubt ourselves and our abilities. That feeling that nothing will ever change and that we are wasting our time. That belief that things will never be any better than they are now. . . We like to blame other people for making us feel depressed. We like to say that it is someone else's fault that our self-esteem is low and that we don't have any confidence. But the bottom line is, usually it is us getting in our own way. . . This message is for you. Get out of your own way! You have everything you need to succeed. You already possess every quality that will make that special someone fall hopelessly in love with you. You already have the drive, intelligence, and focus to achieve all of your dreams. All you have to do is step out there and make it happen. . . So how do you do that? For everyone the answer to that will be different, but the starting point will be the same. You have to believe in yourself. You have to know that no matter what happens you will be able to handle it. You have to stop being afraid to step outside of your comfort zone. You have to figure out what you want, make a plan, and then execute that plan. . . You're going to find out along the way that you have more support than you think you do. The people you care about want to see you succeed and once they see you taking a few steps forward they will help you in any way they can. It's never too late to become a new and improved version of yourself. All you have to do is get out of your own way and start living the life and you deserve to live! #motivation💯 #positivevibes #determination #focus #ambition #neverstop #quezzytheceo #positivityismypurpose (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5EJLofh3hJ/?igshid=vrrj0oz5hi2j

We have all experienced that moment where we are waiting on someone to pay us some attention. That moment when everything else in the world stops and it seems like all that matters is that we receive a text, a call, a hello, or some type of acknowledgement that we exist. * * Time moves very slowly when you are waiting for someone to show you that they care about you. It's like you're stuck in time and you can't begin to live again until the person that you love finally decides to show up and press the play button. * * In that moment you forget all about your standards. You forget all about your morals. You forget all about your self respect and your self-love. In that moment your self-esteem plummets and you are willing to do any and everything to get the person that says they love you to take two seconds out of their day to pay you some attention. * * While you wait you start to create images and fantasies of what life would be like if the person were there with you. You start to imagine how happy you would be and how perfect life would be if your significant other would simply do their job and love you. * * You get to a point where waiting seems normal. It is a constant state of anxiety and unrest that never ends and you start to believe thats how being in a relationship is supposed to feel. * * So you wait... And wait... And wait. * * Waiting for a day that is never going to come. * * If we are willing to wait on someone to love us let's be smart about it. Let's wait on them while we are single. Let's wait on them while we have the power and we are in control. Let's wait on them while our self-esteem and self-worth is still intact. * * Once we finally find someone that we feel we want to begin a relationship with the wait should be over. Shouldn't it? * * #worththewait #youareworthit #dontsettle #dontsettleforless #relationshipgoals #relationshipmemes #quezzytheceo (at Columbia, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/B4noQjQhXTB/?igshid=8no6514mf8n3