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kink? fetish? just sexual preferences alphabet with mat barzal.

warning : idk what to say but i know hardly anyone's gonna agree but…… i'm shy ??

pt. 1

a — abduction seduction

not a fan of intense bdsm or long sex storylines, mat still likes testing where boundaries fade, with a partner he simply wants to have fun, pure joy n wants every hidden desire to surface. truth is, this fantasy lives in his head for a while now — not only turning it toward his partner, but alsooo wishing to become the victim himself one day.

b — bareback

he's :) mildly :) unbothered :) ngl :) earlier he'd give weird explanations like condoms are awkward or whatever but being honest… he just needs to feel a bit of excitement in his routine sex life ? yeah even if it means risking infections. kinda odd.

c — collar

he'd enjoy it either way. being on the receiving end of a collar would get him just as worked up as putting it on someone. that role swap thing is strangely attractive, especially with a tight leather collar and a thick lead. for daily use ? not sooo much.

d — dirty talk

oh for sure, that's his absolute favorite. he would go on and on nonstop ( unless a decent gag is within reach )

while doing the deed he keeps blurting out dumb things — sometimes it's hot, sometimes it's painfully secondhand embarrassment. he'll whisper shit like “you like that baby?” in the most breathless tone while literally shaking and five seconds later he's asking “am i doing okay?” mid-thrust like it's a performance review.

sometimes he just starts narrating what's happening like a depraved sports commentator — “oh fuck yeah i'm about to — i'm gonna — oh shit oh fuck “ n then just finishes his sentence with a whimper. sometimes he laughs mid-thrust cause he said something ssoo ridiculous even he can't take himself seriously. "imma rearrange your guts, baby" and then he giggles.

fucking giggles….

e — edging

he's obsessed with the moment right before. it's pretty clear by now that he enjoys pushing his own boundaries. studying how his body reacts and managing the timing of his finish is top tier for him — edging literally does the job better than actual sex sometimes. he'll slow down right when that first pulse of pleasure hits just to feel the ache settle deep in his gut. mat keeps chasing that edge until his whole body is oversensitive and twitching, cock leaking, completely useless for anything except one more stroke, one more denial.

sometimes he'll beg himself out loud. the mess he makes is almost secondary.

f — face slapping

he always clears it with his partner first bbbuuut barzy definitely wants it and fucking loves when it gets just a little painful on top of him already being way overstimulated. he's obsseeeessed with hard slaps n when the other hand hesitates, he just pushes his cheek into their fingers until they give him another one. it goes both ways again.

g — groping

in semi public places it's kinda embarrassing. and that's so barzyyy — just randomly reaching out, touching his partner real slow like feeling them up under the table in some fancy ass restaurant. he's not really bothered by the setting, especially when the other person is vibing with it.

h — handjob

you need jeweler's hands to handle him :)))) at least mat barely has any boundaries around someone he actually trusts, n he tries to feel as free as possible so having the right hands on him is everything. he's sensitive. yas.

i — intoxication

sometimes it's just roleplay where either barzy or whoever he's with acts drunk. wouldn't necessarily involve any illegal stimulants or anything like that. alcohol though.… that's different. he probably just needs to double down on that feeling of vulnerability during sex. make it more raaawww.

j — joi (jerk off instructions)

ughhh there's so much to say abt this. barzy started with simple sexting, but for him nothing feels more intimate than reallife joi — with his partner right there in front of him r when he follows orders directly. he's never opposed to different kinds of psychological triggers in that space including however much control he wants over his own body. take praise or compliments used to delay an orgasm, for instance. or the complete opposite — rigid rules with clear restrictions, counting down from ten to one, coming only when he's told to.

k — kneeling

well. if we're talking about his favorite position it's definitely doggy style, also basically anything that involves a partner — maybe even himself — being on their knees. deepthroating, giving head, just foreplay in general. that's definitely it.

l — loving cruelty

yes the main thing — he'd never actually hurt someone on purpose or force anything for real. like that whole rough stuff can totally be part of those freaky little games he loves playing in bed. still, none of that would ever cross into actual violence against a partner. sure sometimes he's a complete fucking brat. even then, every shitty thing he does comes from a place of care and love thaaatttt's what drives him ! he listens closely, always looking for the right balance inside himself too.

m — morning sex

he's a freak. a fucking freak. you fall asleep next to him in the same bed, wake up in the morning — there he is, already licking, kissing, making out right after sunrise. sometimes it fucks with your head in such a weird way. barzy got so deep into this whole thing he actually started researching it. like full-on reading studies just so he could get laid at dawn. not even kidding.

n — nipple play

he's fucking intense about it. pays so much attention it gets kinda awkward. mat loves temperature contrast — picks the biting side most of all. drags his teeth over a nipple real soft, pulling it slow. doesn't shy away from other stuff either, same light fingertip grazing, barely touching. all of it with that same weird focus ! honestly makes you feel watched. not in a creepy way like the kind of attention that makes you forget to blink. yeah. that.