I Have A Tummy Ache And Am Being So Brave

not naming names but some of you are so creative and talented it's an honor to have you in my phone

okay but do the 10 thousand of you who relate to this have any advice on how to stop maladaptive daydreaming instead of writing

repeat after me: i am a sexy bitch and no one ruins my 2014

i am a sexy bitch and no one ruins my 2014

nothing will save you like a moment of shared amusement with strangers on public transport

Even though it's hard...stay engaged.

Keep fighting, keep resisting. It's only over when you give up.

It really says something that a lot of monogamous people consider polyamorous and aromantic to be "opposites" but every polyam person I know took one look at aromantics and said "they're just like me for real"

Poly folks x aro folks in the sense that "alloromantic heterosexual monogamous people view love and sex as an entirely different entity than me, and that makes life kinda strange"

official aro-polyam solidarity post

also there are plenty of aromantic people in polyamorous relationships anyway, because polyamory doesn't demand romantic love (or sex), there are so many kinds of love and like

person (non-practicing)

I wish all of yalls "love every trans woman you meet" posts actually applied to Black trans women as well.

Oh it does? Then can you stop ignoring us

Can you please stop ignoring us

Can you please stop fucking ignoring us, it's killing us

Please

It's killing us. I don't think you understand it's killing us. Every time you scroll past a Black tgirl getting harassed without doing anything to make her feel less alone. Every time you just accept that a space you're in doesn't have Black tgirls. Every time you don't prioritize Black tgirls even when we are the primary victims of the thing you are talking about (like the ""deplatforming"" of trans girls who rely on mutual aid to survive, which disproportionately targets Black girls). I don't think you understand how much it's fucking killing us when you don't do a thing to help us and make us feel less alone in this transmisogynoirist hellscape. You use us for your arguments, you make one post or reblog about loving Black tgirls to make yourself look good, and then you leave us to die alone and afraid

I'm talking about Black trans women and transfems. I'm not talking about "POC." I'm not talking about "all trans women." I'm not talking about "Black trans people." Stop trying to broaden this post that I specifically made about Black trans girls.

there is a really stupid and embarrassing darkness inside of me