Important things that I have to keep reminding myself
Stop comparing yourself physically to other pups. Pups come in all sizes and shapes and you have a good shape. Love your shape.
Just because you can’t afford all the fancy gear doesn’t make you any less of a pup.
Not every pup is constantly having sex or involved in a fun-looking scene. Don’t let the selective content that crosses your Tumblr dash distort your perception. You aren’t “missing out” on anything.
Tumblr is a weird environment, and people are just kind of meh when it comes to sending asks or messages. If you reblog something looking for asks and you don’t get any asks, don’t take it as a critique or criticism.
Your worth isn’t measured in the number of likes and reblogs that your selfies get, tempting though it is to use that as a metric.
Stop stressing if you don’t have the energy to pup out. It’s not a competition. You aren’t letting anyone down.