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• Pick me up.

• Let me sit on your lap.

• Bottle-feed me.

• Tell me to put in my paci cuz it just makes me look so cute.

• Ask me if I need help.

• Tell me I’m too tiny to do things on my own.

• Call me your good little boy.

• Ask me where my favorite stuffie is, and call him by his name.

• Pick out my clothes for me and dress me up.

• Run me a bubble bath and sit on the edge of the tub with bath toys and pile bubbles on my head.

• Put on my favorite movie/cartoon without me asking and cuddle me while we watch it.

• Compliment me out of the blue.

• Hold my hand in public so I don’t get lost.

• Put me in a onesie and make me take a nap.

• Buy me giant stuffies to snuggle with.

• Read me a bedtime story.

• Act silly and make me laugh.

• Ask me what sound an animal makes.

• Praise me for simple tasks.

• Bring me juice in a sippy cup.

• Wrap me up in a bunch of blankets when it’s cold.

• Tell me I’m your precious little angel.

🍼 hug them close.

🍼 let them cry it out, but make sure to comfort them.

🍼 make them their favourite snack.

🍼 pinch their cheeks and compliment them.

🍼 don’t tell them to stop being sad - sometimes they can’t help it.

🍼 try not to get sad yourself. negativity won’t help.

🍼 make jokes - just try to make them laugh.

🍼 get their favourite stuffie or blanket.

🍼 don’t make them feel stupid for getting sad, even if it’s small.

🍼 maybe take them out to go to the park or a place they enjoy going.

🍼 get their toys/colouring stuff out for them.

🍼 put their favourite movie/show on.

🍼 give them lots of kisses.

🍼 find out why they’re sad and try to make it better.

🍼 if they hurt them self, get a cute bandaid and a lolly.

🍼 play with them.

🍼 cuddle them tight.

“Little” is not a bad word. “Little” is not a kinky word. The word “little” doesn’t belong to anybody. “Little” is a descriptor word; an adjective, used to describe something. 

Using the word “little” to describe your age regression is not harmful.

DOS:

🍏 DO treat them with respect,

🍏 DO text them if you’re going to be gone for a while,

🍏 DO make sure that they eat three meals a day,

🍏 DO remind them how much you love them everyday,

🍏 DO make sure they take their meds if they need to,

🍏 DO encourage them to shower, brush their teeth and get dressed in the morning,

🍏 DO remember to tell them you’re proud of them in everything they do,

🍏 DO try to make time for them,

🍏 DO make sure they’re in a safe place when they regress, and they know they’re loved,

🍏 DO encourage them to eat healthy foods,

🍏 DO remember boundaries and how to not overstep them,

🍏 DO tell them if you’re not in the mood to baby them, but be gentle and respectful about it.

DONTS:

🍎 DONT yell at them when they’re regressing,

🍎 DONT laugh at them or make fun of anything they do in little space,

🍎 DONT take away stuffies, pacis, blankets or comfort items as a punishment,

🍎 DONT point out flaws whatsoever,

🍎 DONT continue doing something that makes them uncomfortable,

🍎 DONT yell at them for regressing because you’re busy/not in the mood,

🍎 DONT call them immature for regressing,

🍎 DONT force them to do anything they don’t want to do,

🍎 DONT ignore them as a punishment,

🍎 DONT make fun of cartoons or movies they watch when regressing,

🍎 DONT make them feel stupid for regressing,

♡ soft murmurs

♡ little giggles

♡ super sleepy

♡ lots of cuddles

♡ lots of cute lil sounds!! caus talkin is hard!!

♡ soft colors.. dreamy colors..

♡ blankies n binkies all over

♡ crawlin around!

♡ bright curious eyes

♡ always learning new things..!

♡ bein rocked and held

♡ bottles n sof diapies

♡ dreaming of a safe n cozy nursery

♡ laughing a lot caus everything is silly!!!

♡ shakey shakey shakey!!!!

♡ chew on everything!!

♡ grabby hands n whiny caus need this thing but dunno how to say it!!!

♡ feet kicks

♡ soft calming music

♡ learning toys n soft baby safe stuffies

♡ soft calm voices an lullabies ..

♡ Opening things for me like cereal boxes or wrappers

♡ Putting band aids on for me

♡ When someone talks in a baby voice

♡ Pinky promises

♡ Grabbing something for me that’s either really high up or just out of reach

♡ When someone lets me hold their fingers instead of their hand

♡ Being guided by someone

♡ When I’m sitting and my feet don’t touch the ground

♡ Wearing oversized sweaters

♡ Watching children’s movies or tv shows

🎀 surround yourself with your stuffies,

🎀 watch a disney movie/cartoon,

🎀 get a pacifier and/or sippy cup, (if you like that and have them)

🎀 get cute little snacks on a plastic plate,

🎀 play soft music,

🎀 try and avoid distractions,

🎀 get a colouring book out and some crayons/pencils/markers,

🎀 cuddle your favourite stuffie,

🎀 surround yourself with things that help you regress,

🎀 build a blanket fort,

🎀 play games on your phone that are aimed at kids,

🎀 talk to your stuffies as if they were real,

🎀 get your toys out if you have them,

🎀 get a cute fluffy blanket,

🎀 wear cute clothes that help you regress,

🎀 make sure you’re in a safe place,

🎀 draw/colour cute pictures,

🎀 watch your favourite little movie.