a queer identity for queer abuse survivors, being cute or any other positive adjective regarding appearance even if youre broken, supporting eachother and healing together, and bashing the heads of your abusors against a wall.
for (but not exclusive to):
victims if domestic abuse
victims of parental neglect
those recovering from substance abuse
ex, former or recovering radqueers
those who faced or are still facing violence on the basis of being queer
this identity is inherently pro:
recovery, healing, harm reduction for drug addicts, healthy coping
anti-contact harmful paraphilias, non-harmful paraphilias, 'safe, sane, consensual', risk aware kink, and the like.
'fiction affects real life so it should be handled carefully'
otherkin, therians, alterhumanity
ALL good faith, nonharmful queer identities, including but not limited to mspec lesbians, lesboys, aspec people, gaybians, xenogenders, neopronouns
reclaiming your trauma in a way that doesnt harm you (ex. 'yandere' for those who had their bpd used against them in a way that caused them damage, 'attention seeker' for those who had their hpd used against them, etc.)
safe spaces for people with trauma, addictions, disorders, etc. that is not an echo chamber of vents.
transids, pro/comp/neu-c harmful paras, radqueers, as they perpetuate the cycle of abuse.
xenosatanists, winterpunks
'paraphilias are inherently queer, kinks are inherently queer' (there is a lot of overlap and we are siblings in arms, but no were not the same)
encouraging self harm of any sorts
venting in a public setting
minors in kink, or adult spaces at all
traumacore, glorifying trauma, making trauma a competition.
those who gatekeep queer terms ('you cant both be asexual and pansexual', 'bi lesbians just wanna be special' etc.)
harassment (I cant control those who identify with this' actions. it is up to them if they decide to abide by this or not. also calling out someone's bullshit is not harassment)
being fully anti-psych or pro-psych (it's generally psych-critical, but can lean one way or another)
endogenic systems (though is generally neu/irrelevant aligned)
this was coined by the creator of this blog, Mangle, and not the current manager who Ghostie. we are however in the same system
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