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"escape into edm and dancing" and "state boundaries with infinitely granular honesty" and "autonomic sigh" were my only 3 bullets in the chamber tonight the other 3 were going crazy dying and turning evil. So glad I only have a 50% headshot rate 😅
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got too stoned at exmormon tme4tma married couple trade's house and fought god with my bare fists
i won btw
got too stoned at exmormon tme4tma married couple trade's house and fought god with my bare fists
it's useful to me to say male supremacy instead of patriarchy for the same reasons that, while it's true that whiteness hurts white people in specific weird developmental, cultural, and psychological ways, no one would respond to descriptions of racist violence with "But white supremacy hurts white people too!"
well people do actually they do it all the time but they can't really pretend to be woke while doing it
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it's useful to me to say male supremacy instead of patriarchy for the same reasons that, while it's true that whiteness hurts white people in specific weird developmental, cultural, and psychological ways, no one would respond to descriptions of racist violence with "But white supremacy hurts white people too!"
fascinating how often men expect women to sympathize with their fears of being perceived as or treated like a woman
so much "masculinity" is constructed around the certainty that being gay or being a woman is inherently demeaning. and we're supposed to nod along supportively
"male loneliness crisis" ok so like.....what would happen if you started acting like a better friend to other men in your life? what's stopping you? is it the fear of being perceived as one of your inferiors?
"men aren't allowed to show emotions" ok so like…..what would happen if you started being more emotionally expressive? what's stopping you? is it the fear of being perceived as one of your inferiors?
#patriarchy hurts men #patriarchy hurts boys
i think you've VERY fundamentally misunderstood the point of my post tbh
men and boys first and foremost hurt themselves to avoid being perceived as their lessers (i.e. women and gay men)
they could stop. but the punishment is being perceived as one of us, and that would be just terrible. so they won't.
i'm fucking tired of being expected to endlessly wring my hands over the poor men who are hurt by patriarchy toooooo...when the only penalty they really face is being treated like the people they consider subhuman (women and gay men)
the Only way men will ever stop "being oppressed by the patriarchy" is if they dismantle the idea that women and gay men are inferior
once a man decides that there's nothing wrong with being seen as gay or a woman, the power of "the patriarchy" over their lives is vastly diminished
but you cannot force your oppressors to stop seeing you as a subhuman. this is something men have to choose for themselves
and they overwhelmingly do not. because when they're not playing victim/wounded bird about the circumstances of their gender, they fundamentally understand that they benefit from patriarchy far more than they are harmed by it
Gee it sure is a great thing then that the patriarchy spends zero time quite literally *beating* the idea into both the cognitive lobes and the animal pain-centers of the minds of young boys. It sure would be bad if the patriarchy had any tools of violence to use against children in order to perpetuate itself. 🙄
as we all know, the way someone is raised completely robs them of any agency in their life, and also the patriarchy is some kind of undefeatable genderless floating cloud that descended upon us one day despite being to no one's benefit
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I've been working on succumbing and surrendering and being annihilated lately it's going quite well
today's experiment of skipping my ADHD meds and just trying really hard to be mindful and present and disciplined is I think a failure. hope U enjoy the posting and posting though
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anyways. Beautiful trans getting dolled up to go to the grocery store
opened twitter and got blackpilled by the “for you” feed somehow lol so i’m gonna bark like an insane person
apparently, you can say “no” the wrong way in the rapist roleplay community. there are different levels of “no” and the specific “no” you pick can be perceived as saying “no” too intensely. or, the “no” you pick can be perceived as inappropriate if you’re saying “no” to an act that is too tame for the specific “no” you picked. this is how bdsm practitioners build plausible deniability. “i didn’t stop because you picked a ‘no’ that wasn’t intense enough.” “why would you pick a super intense ‘no’ when all i did was grab your ass; you’re being hurtful and overzealous because you didn’t pick a softer ‘no’ for a normal act of intimacy.”
pat califia’s strongest soldiers must be stopped. one day this rotten culture will be abolished and slam dunked in the dustbin of history. we will never know the extent of the victims, because the abuse is obfuscated with crafty language that people hesitate to acknowledge as manipulative. what’s really horrifying about it all is that bdsm practitioners have perfected their ability to obfuscate sexual violence and render it invisible among vulnerable people who are looking for a sense of community. evil and hitlerite. nuke every dungeon on earth.
hi op i find your rhetoric distasteful but Ok everyone I'm continuing my musing from my last post. These tweets display this weird ass understanding of the ritual concept of a -SafeWord- as an equally material thing as the embodied biological process of -receptivity to sex and ability to consent-. But they're not equally material or objective. A safe word and what it means and how to use it is a dialectical phenomenon it's a subjective social construct. Rape is a material, objective trauma that a body and mind survives. And the Mormonism of it all happens when a person is using a dialectical ritual practice (kink) to navigate and effect the material world, and they look around and see everyone else that they respect also using the same rituals(online "kink community"), and deluding themselves into thinking that their sex tools and how to use them are actually just facts about human nature. And that everyone who isn't fluent in them should learn how to practice it the right way and when they don't and when they get hurt it's their own fault ("this person was being cruel by safe wording when they didn't establish that they were roleplaying") . No good. This sort of thing has gotten me hurt badly by the world.
and sure i love sex where I'm playing pretend and i get a lot out of surrending to simulated sexual harm. And I practice bdsm. But bodies are real in a way that you can't get around and consensual violence is still violence. and these men with wispy beards and women who still call themselves girls and nonbinaries that pretend to have opted out of patriarchy think that as long as they're following all the rules then their violence doesn't actually count as violence. Instead of confronting the fact that violence is just something that happens sometimes and being a person with a body you have to grapple with your relationship to it.
It's really weird to see people talking about the "weight of a SafeWord" as if it's not just... Saying "time out!". "Time Out!" is not bigger or scarier than "no", it's just a different statement. And it's a statement that anyone can say at any time and if you get confused or hurt by someone saying "time out" regarding their own body then that's a you problem and acting like someone's hurting you for not following the sex rules the exact way that you would like them to, is just rape and supremacy culture. And pathological avoidance of guilt. Sex is for grown ups! If you're going to be weird and whiny about things like this you should probably do some growing up before you have any sex. Let alone violent and risky sex.
opened twitter and got blackpilled by the “for you” feed somehow lol so i’m gonna bark like an insane person
apparently, you can say “no” the wrong way in the rapist roleplay community. there are different levels of “no” and the specific “no” you pick can be perceived as saying “no” too intensely. or, the “no” you pick can be perceived as inappropriate if you’re saying “no” to an act that is too tame for the specific “no” you picked. this is how bdsm practitioners build plausible deniability. “i didn’t stop because you picked a ‘no’ that wasn’t intense enough.” “why would you pick a super intense ‘no’ when all i did was grab your ass; you’re being hurtful and overzealous because you didn’t pick a softer ‘no’ for a normal act of intimacy.”
pat califia’s strongest soldiers must be stopped. one day this rotten culture will be abolished and slam dunked in the dustbin of history. we will never know the extent of the victims, because the abuse is obfuscated with crafty language that people hesitate to acknowledge as manipulative. what’s really horrifying about it all is that bdsm practitioners have perfected their ability to obfuscate sexual violence and render it invisible among vulnerable people who are looking for a sense of community. evil and hitlerite. nuke every dungeon on earth.
hi op i find your rhetoric distasteful but Ok everyone I'm continuing my musing from my last post. These tweets display this weird ass understanding of the ritual concept of a -SafeWord- as an equally material thing as the embodied biological process of -receptivity to sex and ability to consent-. But they're not equally material or objective. A safe word and what it means and how to use it is a dialectical phenomenon it's a subjective social construct. Rape is a material, objective trauma that a body and mind survives. And the Mormonism of it all happens when a person is using a dialectical ritual practice (kink) to navigate and effect the material world, and they look around and see everyone else that they respect also using the same rituals(online "kink community"), and deluding themselves into thinking that their sex tools and how to use them are actually just facts about human nature. And that everyone who isn't fluent in them should learn how to practice it the right way and when they don't and when they get hurt it's their own fault ("this person was being cruel by safe wording when they didn't establish that they were roleplaying") . No good. This sort of thing has gotten me hurt badly by the world.
pat califa was raised mormon and the contemporary rules and conventions of kink, especially when filtered through 21st-century technofeudal alienation, are in the lineage of supremacist religious dogma
im not saying bdsm community is essentially harmful or doomed to be a tool of evil well I kind of am but it's not more or less doomed than any other of man's creations. But there is no other way to describe a set of invented words and roles and understandings that are a). thought to be universally applicable, b). founded and maintained through ritual practice, and c). control and contain real harm, trauma, ecstacy, etc. am I making any sense here
lots of people (and let's concede that it's lots of neurodivergent people that have a steeper hill to climb when it comes to navigating sex) but lots of genz these days learns about sex on their phone, and then learns that Safe Word and Kink Scene and and Sub/Dom Identity are just a part of sex the way that penis, vulva, anus, consent, etc are a part of sex. And it can lead to interactions with dysfunctional priorities and real harm cuz some sort of theoretical dictionary of sex words becomes the authority on what interactions mean and when harm occurs instead of that authority naturally belonging to the bodies of those involved. And thats a weapon that you gotta be really careful where you're pointing it cuz the stakes are sorry very high having sex in a male supremacist rape culture world. God's prophets can't keep you safe, only the fists she gave you
pat califa was raised mormon and the contemporary rules and conventions of kink, especially when filtered through 21st-century technofeudal alienation, are in the lineage of supremacist religious dogma
im not saying bdsm community is essentially harmful or doomed to be a tool of evil well I kind of am but it's not more or less doomed than any other of man's creations. But there is no other way to describe a set of invented words and roles and understandings that are a). thought to be universally applicable, b). founded and maintained through ritual practice, and c). control and contain real harm, trauma, ecstacy, etc. am I making any sense here
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pat califa was raised mormon and the contemporary rules and conventions of kink, especially when filtered through 21st-century technofeudal alienation, are in the lineage of supremacist religious dogma
you've been here for hours and your opponent hasn't let up.
no matter how many times you heave your sword at her, she perfectly parries every blow. you keep swinging and thrashing and hacking and nothing is breaking her stance. you're drenched in sweat and it's raining, your hair is in your eyes and your face is getting hot. ankle deep in mud, your body screams for you to stop, to lay down and give up, but you can't. you've done nothing but train for this your whole life, you've broken bones and gained scars, you've bled for your purpose, so why isn't it working? at some point out of pure exhaustion, you pause, and you look at her. she's taller then you, she's calmer then you, and even when you gave her the chance to strike, she doesn't take it. she's looking at you through your helms slit as you look through hers. her eyes are unbothered, but there's a tinge of something else there too. pity. that's what it is, she pities you.
at first you're filled with rage. you are not the type to be pitied. you didn't give everything up to be looked at like a sick dog, you are a threat, and you aren't going to let up. you scream with all the air in your lungs as you take one more heavy swing, sending your greatsword soaring toward the neck of your enemy, but she simply guides your blade away with little challenge. you stop again, unable to lift your sword at all. your armor becomes heavy, and your lungs burn. the pause reminds your body just how exhausted it is. you stagger and fall back into the sopping muddy field you trudged through for miles, and something inside you breaks. your blood lust is gone, your wrathful gaze softened into a tired, melancholic stare into the sky.
the woman stands over you, and takes her helmet off. she has that same, pitiful look in her eyes, but her face shows sympathy and warmth. she leans down and raises your visor, and whispers that she's sorry in the same tone you'd talk to a dying animal, and you cry. you just want her to end it, to open your mouth and beg for her to thrust her sword into your chest, but even that's too much for your over worked body. all that you thought you were has been washed away with the rain, humiliated, bettered. the woman gives you one last look in the eyes, puts her helmet back on, and leaves you crying in the field you were supposed to die in.
