Fucking her isn't enough; I need to feel her pussy twitch while choking her lights out.

quick are you mythologizing sex again? are you making it seem like a special category of human behavior rather than just a thing people do? are you forgetting that it can be silly or fun or simply pedestrian? are you forgetting that it requires conversation and negotiation just like every other human activity that involves other people?

date night: i tie you down and cave in your ribcage with a hammer

not sure precisely how to phrase this but. somebody openly participating in like light cnc/somno/intox play while also hardline morally condemning (not "listing in limits" but actively condemning) rough cnc/"rape play"/etc. is red flag central to me re: "this person does not understand consent and pre-negotiation well enough to safely participate in any of these spaces"

i think it's like. okay so this is condemnable because you don't view the consent or pre-negotiation in rough cnc scenes as legitimate. so you're then participating in other forms of cnc, believing that they cannot be truly consensual, and you're okay because the violence isn't as apparent? am i missing something with this because it's a BIZARRELY common combo on this website and the implications creep the living shit out of me, as somebody whose real life assault did not in fact involve a lot of kicking or screaming or overtly conspicuous violence. idk if it's just an unintentional byproduct of people being performatively moralistic but it creates a hierarchy of "acceptable" sexual violence that i find infinitely more disturbing than any assorted consensual scene

huge agree, ive def noticed this as well paired with "cnc subs are fine but doms are evil"; the natural conclusion of this shitty logic that most don't think through is that consent doesnt matter as much as the visible content of the scene as its acted out, which is nuts when you put it in plain language. its a big very reasonable red flag to anyone who actually seeks safe kink, while normalizing a flawed view of assault coming from a place of deviance rather than power

I want a dom to fuck me on stream, broadcasting my moans and desperate begging to a live audience. They can see me and hear me but I can't see them, can't know how many there are watching, how many are touching themselves, how many are taking screenshots or recordings. They influence my doms actions, they offer some decisions up to chat, "how many spanks with the paddle?" goes to a poll. When they're fucking me so good I beg and beg to cum, "can he cum?" is answered by a stream of messages my dom reads aloud, "no" "yes" "yes" "no" "yes" "yes" "yes" "no" "only now" "not yet" "yes" "yes" while I clench and groan, "seems like you've got permission," they say and I cum while chanting, "thank you, chat, thank you, chat, thank you chat!"

Something important to note: Doms/tops can use safewords too. I've experienced dom drop before, and let me tell you, it is not fun. Would have been hell to come down from without physical comfort. Be kind with your doms & tops too. <3